2007-11-25 15:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) If you can have a good time w/o sex
2) If you cut them off or go away, and they're still with you
Good luck
2007-11-25 15:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way they treat you & act around you. If they treat you with respect & are proud to have you around them, then they appreciate you & what you bring to the mix.
If they treat you lousy, it doesn't matter what they say they feel about you.
Good sex may lead to a more romantic relationship, but bad sex only makes it worse. So, make sure that at least the sex is good, 'cause that alone is worth sticking around for. If it's love, then he'll be there as well.
How he treats you will sort out the rest. Does he act like he's happy to have you around? Then it's all goodl, regardless of what you call it.
2007-11-26 00:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Silvaworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I've wanted sex more with the person I was more in love with and wouldn't have been happy to be cut off just as a test. That's one way you express your feelings - to meet the other person's needs. But it's only one way. There's a time and place for everything and most of the time other quality time, activities, planning and conversations should be going on for the most part.
2007-11-27 17:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by tshnobodysfool 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love you and care who you are while the sex is good. I think your more important and keeping you happy. These other people above me are using you.
2007-11-25 23:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by James R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a guy so i would say if this person does not want to do things w/you or shows no interest in things you like then they could be useing u for just sex.
2007-11-25 23:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by elh1010 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's an easy way to find out. Stop giving him sex and you'll find out soon enough if he's just using you .
2007-11-25 23:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have sex with them until you have been with them long enough to know they are there for who you are and how you make them feel.
2007-11-25 23:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex and see if they stick around. If they leave, then you know!
2007-11-25 23:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by oceanvegas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't have sex with him... How can he be using you for sex? There's your litmus test.
2007-11-25 23:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by La Reina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell them no sex, they'll still be with you.
2007-11-25 23:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Dario Phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋