well i feel like i got alot to say, but i don't think i got any REAL friends to speak my mind to and if i just start talking to someoen and say this all they may see me as fragile or insane or see the real me and im knowed a as tought guy takes no crap from anyone.
what do u think i should do
2007-11-28 14:14:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok some ppl said be ur self, get online friends, write in blog, eat flap jacks i like flap jacks i dont know why ppl said negatives. well im being my self more then u know but im not aloud to be in 2 social groups at the same time making me have no real friends to really trust well u think i should pick one group over another, u think it may make me have real friends?.... read they other mess i wrote
2007-11-28 14:27:10 · update #1
You should do YOGA from Ramdevji in INDIA. ALL will be ok within 10 days.
2007-11-28 14:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm you must still be in high school? You need to be yourself. Even if you have to do it a little at a time. There is always another who thinks the same way you do. Whenever you hear someone anyone say something that strikes a cord with you jump in and discuss it with them. Everyone likes having someone to talk to. Or maybe you can find an on line chat room where you can be who you want to be with no one the wiser. You can have friends on line that you never see but are still friends with. Though they may live far away.
2007-11-28 14:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i feel the same way sometimes. Its sorta like we put on a mask to show everyone else the our life is perfect. I do it all the time when inside everything can be screaming and hurting. Cuz i'm scared to let ppl see who i really am. So i know what u mean by tough.
But anyway there should be a person in the whole world who you could talk to. Maybe a girlfriend? I dunno ....
Sometimes were'r scared that someone else is gonna find out.
HERES MY ADVICE: don't keep it inside. Its ok to feel bad about it... but don't keep it all tucked in. It'll just make it harder.
So next question, how to get it out, hu? Well this is what i do.....(now just hear me out ok???)
I pray and talk to God
I know that He won't make fun of me or mock me for my weaknesses.
HEY, it wouldn't hurt to try.....
See what happens......
2007-11-28 14:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to take a good look at yourself. If you have no friends there must be a reason why. It is never to late to change. Try seeing how the other person feels. Taking no crap may mean you are to quick to respond. Think next time before you respond to what you believe is crap.
2007-11-28 14:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Ann H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a personality that you like. Strive to be the best person that that personality would live like. Forget all the negative vibes that have been weighing you down. They say, the bigger they are the harder they fall. Try not to be bigger, stronger than every one. Just be a wonderful you.
2007-11-28 14:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely speak your mind to someone you see as insightful. People love to help when they can, especially when others need it most. If there is someone you think that may have good advice to your problems, open up with them.
2007-11-28 14:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by foxo1011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one I can think of you talking to would be a priest or a therapist/counselor. They are there to listen and they don't judge. They have heard it all. Don't sweat the petty things. Don't pet the sweaty things. Good luck :o)
2007-11-28 14:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by cat lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding things in is more damaging to yourself over time than it would be to let it out to anyone in general that you feel comfortable talking to (no matter how you might think they will react) you could also let it all out in a journal or online blog if you don't feel comfortable telling someone to their face about your problems. *hugs* cheer up!
2007-11-28 14:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Alesha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I reeeallly know what you mean.... I am not known as a toughey but I am in the same sorta shoes as you r, in more wayz than one!!
What u do about it??? I am yet to figure out!!
2007-11-28 14:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not lost....perhaps bored ! Find something you want to do or like to do and do it.As for friends you want to confide in them try it, they may suprize you and listen.....you have a lot of worth and make you happy and you will learn to make others as happy
2007-11-28 14:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by rosa_giffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋