Singles & Dating - 28 November 2007

Ok well I have this friend. I was her first friend ever cuz she was a newbie last year. Then since we were in a diff class she's made new friends. This year she had a bruised pinky so all she could do was swing and it got so boring so I decided to hang out with other friends. Then we went to Out Door lab and she was all like I am so sorry for being mean about you ditching me! Truce? I was all like sure. Then when we got back she came up to me and was like I don't wanna be friends with you because of your language. I was like so you hate me because of that. Plus she likes a guy who always uses like a**, and bi*** its stupid. All I ever say is like stupid or idiot and she thinks it bad language. Then since we got this new seating arrangement at lunch and my friends told me when she was talking to her other friend that she was all like if I sit by Kendahl I am going to puke. I don't mind but it gets annoying cuz its like she knows I know she hates me but tries to annoy me about it. Help!!

2007-11-28 15:57:59 · 3 answers · asked by Kendi 4

Okay-I am in a little bit of trouble. I was put in "In School Suspension" for "making out" with a boy on a field trip. Making out isn't that bad...Not really at all. Before this, people called me hurtful names and others things of the sort. Now, everything is way worse and everyone knows what happened. Sixth graders and sophmores have come up to me and asked me questions about this incident and I don't even know them. How do I handle the situation maturely and gain back a good reputation. Plus, the guy I was with, well we weren't dating (which made things worse) and we were just good friends. Now he never wants to talk to me or hug me and he took me off his top friends on myspace. (I know no big deal, but I'm worried) What can I do-Please help! And what is my guy friend trying to say.
Am I just a hook up?
I feel very used and violated because now he's saying it's all me fault when I told him no, he just kept pulling me back...
Please help...Thank you in advance :

2007-11-28 15:55:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

wen ppl ask a question they need answered people dont even open it to look..... but wen they are a stupid question like why??? people open it? 10 points 4 best answer..

2007-11-28 15:53:42 · 5 answers · asked by *Lil Lisa* 1

Me and my gf have been dating for 5 months now. We both are 17. She is the youngest child of her mother, and her mom doesn't hardly let her do anything. Rarely, when my gf is allowed to do something, her mom calls her every 5 minutes. She also checks up on her, driving by the place we say we are supposed to be, to actually see if we are there. She is RARELY ever allowed to come over to my house, and my parents are upset because they hardly know her. Almost everytime she asks to come over here, her mom says no and to come over there. So i usually go over there, and her mom watches us 24/7. I dont really get any quality time with my gf, and i feel like its drawing us apart. Her mom also takes her cell phone every night at 10. My gf is really busy, she attends a private school, and has dance every day. She almost always has homework, and when she rarely doesnt, she asks her mom if she can come over and she says no. I feel like i am being taken advantage of, what can i do?

2007-11-28 15:50:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has a job and she is 17
i am 16 and have two incomes

2007-11-28 15:50:33 · 65 answers · asked by rico 1

what are ways you can tell other than actually having sex with her??

2007-11-28 15:45:52 · 8 answers · asked by iloveit 1

When I was about 8, my classmates and I were in the bathroom and another girl touched my butt. I told my classmates and they said"You must be gay for allowing her to touch your butt." A short time after that I would tell myself constantly in my head"I'm not gay!". At about 10 I would get aroused by women with big breasts and masturbate.At 14 I was watching soft core lesbian porn and masturbating,At 18 I met a woman off a party line and sucked her breasts in the back of a theater. Now I'm 21, and I am really turned on by women. Is this a result of a false seed being planted in my head as a child?

2007-11-28 15:38:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

because he is ugly even though they are equally as bad

2007-11-28 15:35:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a tough question that I have been struggling with alot lately.

When I am getting to know someone new I tend to think about things that happened in my past with other relationships. Because I sometimes see myself making the same mistake more than once.
But this can't be fair to compare them because as they say, all guys are not alike.

But, at the same time, we should learn from past experiences to notice the little red flags that warn us about potential incompatibilities.

But I know I too have all kinds of red flags about me and I would want someone to give me a fair chance at love.

So, I am doing a poll to see, how do we all know when it is best to pay attention to little warning signs and when best to dismiss them so that we are not basing our opinion on past experiences?

2007-11-28 15:34:31 · 16 answers · asked by Bethenia 4

i have never given a lap dance b4 but i want to do this for him....does anyone have any tips??

2007-11-28 15:32:02 · 15 answers · asked by starrgyrl_15 2

So I'm like the tallest girl in school, (10th grade) and whenever I ask a guy out tat I'm interested in they just say no politely or some of them look up at me like my head touches the clouds and say "no" laughing, then I immediately dislike them. I can't find anyone who I think is nice and prefers tallness or who is taller than me! I don't know what to do because I am rather miserable and all my friends are at least 4" shorter than me!

2007-11-28 15:22:56 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 2

.......that wore a hijab (a traditional Muslim headcovering)?

I use to wear this plus the long body covering because I had to hide my body and act modestly. I don't any more (I was never very religious), and I dress like any woman in the States would. When I did I had the exact same personality that I do now, when I dress more modern. But now guys pay a lot more attention to me. This is me now (I'm 19):

http://s213.photobucket.com/albums/cc298/argyle_222/

This just goes to show that Muslim women can be attractive underneath what it is she is wearing.

So back to my original question:

Would you ever date a woman that wore the traditional hijab?

Thanks! <3

2007-11-28 15:20:30 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to live but I don't belong.
I close my eyes and I see blood and roses.

2007-11-28 15:19:21 · 7 answers · asked by CherryCheri 7

2007-11-28 15:14:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is something that happend @ skool. like i loved this one girl and the whole school including her found out because i told the wrong person. newayz. how do i stop thinking about her? i jus cant stop. like if i thnk of her in skool or something, i have to hold in the tears because i dont wanna tell ppl y im crying. cz den ill hve to go throo evrythng again and i dont want to. and when i get home i cry. but how do i stop thinking about her? i just cant. she hates me and thtz y im so sad. im a girl 2 nd she got freekd out. how do i move on frm her. i alrdy talkd 2 her but she jus dozent wanna 4get bout it so i dont wanna force hr. if i do it will jus push her even mor away neway. so how do i 4get bout her? or move on atleast a lil bit. its been 7 months and hasnt gotten better. if u wanna kno da hole stry den im me. but for now jus leave advice. or a quote that would make me feel better. please help me!!

2007-11-28 15:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by bisexualgirl 2

My ex gf broke up with me about 3 months ago. It took me a while to get over her and move on, but I feel like I've finally gotten to a point where she is not constantly on my mind. However, we both go to a small college where it is inevitable that we will run into each other every so often. Sometimes, she might see me and will come up to me and gently grab my arm to say hello. When she does this, it kills me. Memories flood back and I begin to think about her again. I really doubt she still has feelings for me, seeing as she never decides to talk to me other than when see occasionally sees me. What should I do??

2007-11-28 15:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by Ben 2

He'll be moving about 7 hrs away for around 6 months.

We've only been dating for a couple of months but I'm devastated.

I've told him I'd come and visit but something deep inside of me feels like I'm losing him.

To top it all off, I've just realized how much I care this guy.


How do I cope?

2007-11-28 15:06:10 · 5 answers · asked by Kat H 1

i broke up with my ex about 2 weeks ago.
i'm supposed to hate his guts right now because
he lied, and cheated on me. but for some reason
i miss him more than i could ever explain.

but today the guy i was in love with before i ever knew my ex. was talking to me and i found out a lot about him that i never knew.
i'm really confused. i don't know what to do. my ex says he hates my a$$ but then he'd stare at me for the longest time ever even though he has a gf.
i don't know what to do. i love my ex very much but at the same time i think i'm starting to like the other guy again.
i don't know what to do.
its very confusing. please help me.
&&do you have any tips for getting over my ex? i hate the fact that he cheated, lied, and all the above&&yet i still miss him.
thanks so much.
i feel torn apart =(

2007-11-28 15:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by live♥love♥laugh 2

I'm not saying i'm looking to get with some total bombshell. I'd just like to get a girl who I can be proud to show off a little, I'm deffinately not skinny, but I'd never say i was unnatractive. I'm funny, that's my strongest trait along with being a gentlemen. See, I've never really had a great relationship, longest one only 3 months anyway. So, what I'm really asking for, is a way to showcase my best traits, get a nice girl, given, sexy would never be considered a bad trait...
But not sexy enough to make me look bad, one good enough nto compliment my good traits. I know, I'm rambling now, i'll stop.

2007-11-28 15:05:15 · 20 answers · asked by krash726 2

i met my girlfriend at a boarding school in Salem, OR. We known each other for some time and we decided to be together. We started to get real close in our relationship, so close the school had to seperate us, and he began getting in trouble for the same repeated violations; awol, late to class, late to dorms, and stuff like that cause we were always together. Finally they decided to suspend her from the school and send her back home. So they sent her to the Airport in Portland. Now I live in Portland so as an attempt to stay with me she cancelled her plane ticket and went to my sister house. My mom found out and notified the school officials and then they had to make sure she got on that plane. Now im unsure weather or not they'll let her return to the school. I talked to her on the phone recently and I can tell shes completely devastated because of what happend and now shes making plan of moving up here to be with me. Of couse I want her up here but I wanna be donewith school 1st.

2007-11-28 15:00:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance, whom I dated for 4 years, and bought an apartment for broke up with me in June stating that she needed to find herself. I was absolutely DEVASTATED, I honestly though we had a great relationship, after we broke up she became a different person. We tried to stay friends during the summer, but she got EXTREMELY UNCOMFORTABLE with it and pretty much canceled every plan we had last minute. I didn;t talk to her from September through the beginning of November, last week she called me in the middle of the night and told me that she missed me more than anything and she was so sorry for what she did. I talked to her twice during the week and she was so friendly. We exchanged holiday greetings on Thrursday and then I noticed that she was getting very snippy with me again for NO REASON and has now cut off all contact again. I have no idea why she is doing this, I need advice!!

2007-11-28 14:59:14 · 18 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1

I'm 23, she's 17, we met a couple of years ago, through my work, we lost touch, but a couple of weeks ago we got in contact via a social networking site. We've really hit it off, although we appreciate this a time of transition for her, finishing college, etc. I'm a bit more settled, live away from home, have a full time job, and have a more definite direction in what i want to do i.e. join the military. Which, incidentally, is her aim too, and for various reasons, we'll probably be joining at about the same time. What I'm looking for is advice on dating someone significantly younger, and how this might be taken socially. Any discussion greatly appreciated.

2007-11-28 14:55:42 · 21 answers · asked by AdvicePlease 1

2007-11-28 14:54:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

do girls like a guy with a nice body, i dont mean like super buff, but i mean like nice arms a 6 pack and nice pecs like that?? do they like that stuff??

2007-11-28 14:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been single so long and I really want to be in a relationship, not just a hookup. Not many guys at school intrest me, but a few do. However I can't get there attention and I want them to notice me. I have a crush on two guys at school, but I talk to neither one of them! I'm in the 9th grade and the 2 guys I like are in 12th grade and 10th grade. Yes I know the senior is too old for me, but whatever, its just highschool. They are completly opposite from eachother. The sophmore is just a regular guy and the senior is a gangster like guy, but hes clean cut and hes not the stupid loud ones, hes kind of quiet I guess. I really wanna grab their attention at school, so what should I do? Should I just talk to them or...? Please help!

2007-11-28 14:50:35 · 10 answers · asked by ilovecali00 2

I'm so in love with my ex bf. We just recently started emailing ea other again. He lives in another state with his girlfriend and has a wife he's been separated from for many years. I am beginning to feel like a fool. He's made no indications at all that he loves me or wants a future with me. Why can't I just get it through my head?? Should I just cut him out completely? Or waste more time out of my life on a fantasy that is turning out to be just in my head?

2007-11-28 14:49:24 · 8 answers · asked by ~ luv sis 6

why do I feel so depressed ? I am in search for a new job , a better paying job So I can move out of my abusive parents house.

I have 2 interviews coming up next week .But today I had this 2 day job ( inventory ) . When I got there it seemed like there is no work to do for more than 2 hours. The guy who came to open up the office floor went home after 30 minutes.

So it was just me sitting there looking outside at the mountains and listening to this " Overcoming social anxiety step by step " program .

But my Mp3 bacterry run out so I just kept looking outside . It got me thinking ( something which I tried to stop for a long while now)

and I started to think of different stuff. My car might go into reposession soon if i dn't pay them in 20 days.

When I came home I felt so depressed and lonely , I looked up my x-gf's online profile . and it got me even more thinking ..
I don't know why I did that. ( i have done it couple of times before knowing how much harm that can do )

2007-11-28 14:45:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I'm a college student, and there's this girl in my Biology class. I was way too shy to talk to her up until Tuesday. I asked her what her name is and she told me. What does she think of me now? Will she feel comfortable talking to me now that took some initative? Will she feel weird if I didn't talk to her again? Ladies, your opinion please.

2007-11-28 14:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by ManlyFool 1

heres the story. Theres a chick I knew from High School that is going to college now. Before she left for college we were just friends and she wanted more, but she was going to college, so we got in a huge fight. In a nutshell, she hated me for a long time. I look on my facebook one day and she befriended me. I said yes and before I knew it I was hanging out with her. To my suprise, i really think I'm falling for her. We made out twice or so and after the second time she said that it wouldnt ever work. But after that she kind of implied that we could get together and the problems that we're having now arent a big deal. I hung out with her yesterday. I dont want her to think im desperate or anything, so should I call her, or should I wait a couple days?

2007-11-28 14:43:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am going out with this guy. we hav been going out for a month and i just started to get acne. (i am in 8th grade) and i am so self consicous i have no confidence in myself (even b4 the acne) and i was wondering is he mad that i hav zits like does it bother him will he break up with me guys i need ur help wat would u do..???

2007-11-28 14:40:35 · 32 answers · asked by jenny m 3