I'm not saying i'm looking to get with some total bombshell. I'd just like to get a girl who I can be proud to show off a little, I'm deffinately not skinny, but I'd never say i was unnatractive. I'm funny, that's my strongest trait along with being a gentlemen. See, I've never really had a great relationship, longest one only 3 months anyway. So, what I'm really asking for, is a way to showcase my best traits, get a nice girl, given, sexy would never be considered a bad trait...
But not sexy enough to make me look bad, one good enough nto compliment my good traits. I know, I'm rambling now, i'll stop.
2007-11-28 15:05:15 · 20 answers · asked by krash726 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, so maybe saying i could show her off sounds shallow, i definately didn't mean that, that was more me opening with a joke
2007-11-28 15:10:28 · update #1
I don't think I ever heard a guy call himself "fluffy" but oh well. Be your self and you will find someone. You are still young. Being a gentleman is a good trait. Girls may not appreciate it now but in a few years they will. Don't give up, there is someone for you.
2007-11-28 15:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by littleme836 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Become friends with the desired woman. It is very important that she knows who you are before you even take a stab at asking her out.
2. Be very nice whenever she is around you. BE NICE TO HER FRIENDS! Those can either be boosters or setbacks.
3. Get to know her friends. Some will sometimes tell you rumors around his/her friend group.
4. If she invites you anywhere, go. The more loyal you are, the better.
5. Eventually, she should start to let you know very intimate things about her. (Family, friends, personal issues...) That is when you know that she is beginning to really trust you.
6. Don't say something stupid or immature. If something isn't funny and is meant as a joke, don't be stupid. It will make you look bad in front of her.
7. Avoid subjects which may be offensive to the woman in question. For instance politics, discrimination in the workplace, vegetarianism and religion should probably all be avoided for the time being. Also, if the object of your affections happens to have a contentious or opposing position, keep an open mind and if all else fails be non-committal.
8. Be an active listener. Show her that you are someone that she can converse with and get along with. For instance, if she mentions a favourite band/ book/ movie, check it out, you'll have a common interest to discuss in the future. Women are impressed by guys who make an effort not just to listen, but to show interest and remember details.
9. Finally, take the plunge and ask her out on a date! Never, EVER ask her out on AIM or MSN.
* Try this in your social group or with people who are like you
* When you're ready, try someone new and different.
* Be true to yourself.
* Smile
* Be Smart.st, let her get to know you.
* Don't ignore her
* Don't be mean
* Don't bully, unless she knows your only flirting. Even then, its still risky.
* Don't be gross
* Don't over do it
* These are basic tips. Learn to adapt to the girl and communicate with her to know what kind of guy she wants.
* Don't swear, it's not very polite and most women don't like that.
2007-11-28 23:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by jixme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have good traits that a lot of girls are attracted to.Humor is the main one because us girls think humor is very attractive and sexy in a man and being a gentleman who can treat a girl the way she needs and deserves to be treated is another good trait. You keep being yourself and you will find a great girl who will enjoy you just as much as you enjoy her. Sexy has a lot of definitions some people don't necessarily have to have a girl who is a model but it really depends what you want and whether that girl respects you and loves you for exactly who you are and i think that is a very sexy quality in a person. You seem like a really nice guy who is just looking for a nice girl who will accept you so if you keep doing what your doing you will find the perfect one that you will love and what other people think doesn't matter because if we did everything that society wanted us to do the whole world would be the same. Being different is what makes the world go round. Hope this helped. Good luck and to the lucky girl.
2007-11-28 23:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do find a girl, pray that she never reads this question you just asked, because it makes you sound like a jerk who just wants arm candy. No woman wants to be with a guy who is just looking for someone to make himself look good or to complement his looks.
Sorry to be so blunt, but from the way you phrased the question, it sounded like you needed to be told that.
Just find a girl who you genuinely like and enjoy being with, and allow that friendship to naturally deepen. Or, look at what sort of activities interest you and go to social events centered around those activities. If you like sports, get acquainted with girls you meet a football games or whatever.
You'll be much better off looking for a _person_ you like than for a body you like.
Best of luck! If you really are gentlemanly and have a good sense of humor, you should be okay.
2007-11-28 23:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Chantal G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. that's interesting. see I just went out with a 17 yr old that called himself fluffy and i'm gnna tell you, i'm not ugly. Anyway, he acted totally obsessed and all and then all of a sudden, last night, he calls and breaks up with me. See you getting a sexy girl might not be any problem at all. Keep being funny, and gentlemanly, and whatever else you say you are - and when you get one, don't suddenly change your wish list. (btw, any idea why this happened? lol none here)
2007-11-28 23:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem like a great guy then, looking to get a girl to "show of." well im lucky. Im 29, i have a 23yr old girlfriend, who i can deffinatly show of, and a 15 yr old daughter (not to my girlfriend) who i can also show of. honestly as a father, if my daughter brought a boy like you home, (and she's brought alot of guy, the boy with the motorbike, the one with a panel van, the one with tatoos all over his stomach, the skater, the motor bike rider etc, and every single one of them doted on her like she was the friggen queen of the world) but none of them have ever dated her to "show of." if this is the only reason you wanted to get a girlfriend, you are going to have a very hard time.
2007-11-28 23:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're looking for arm candy. Someone to "show off"? Why, if you admit you're not all that, do you think you ought to have a girl to show off?
Shouldn't you be wanting to find someone you really like? This isn't a game of "nabbing a girl" to impress your friends. When you meet someone you click with, move from there.
2007-11-28 23:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen fluffy, being funny is a great quality. While you may be wanting a bit of a trophy girl -- girls out there want to be proud of their guy too. Work out!
2007-11-28 23:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i know how u feel, im kinda big but im cute lol. I have a nice smile, i'm funny, confident and polite (charming) lol.
I'm talking to all kinds of girls at school and im getting interest signs from girls alot. So just dress nice and be charming. it'll work
good luck
2007-11-28 23:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by My name is Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree. You shouldn't get a girl to show off.
If you truly love someone, then ask her to be your girlfriend. I am sure you will get one. No sensible person will judge you for your physical appearance. Trust God. He has someone waiting for you and you will meet her only when the time is right!
2007-11-28 23:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋