I'm so in love with my ex bf. We just recently started emailing ea other again. He lives in another state with his girlfriend and has a wife he's been separated from for many years. I am beginning to feel like a fool. He's made no indications at all that he loves me or wants a future with me. Why can't I just get it through my head?? Should I just cut him out completely? Or waste more time out of my life on a fantasy that is turning out to be just in my head?
2007-11-28 14:49:24 · 8 answers · asked by ~ luv sis 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop beating around the bush and ask him straight up. You guys have a history together, I think you are probably close enough that you can be straightforward and not play games. Ask him if he wants to give it another shot.
If he says no, well then, it will hurt, but at least you won't waste any more of your time.
2007-11-28 14:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think you have answered ur own question there......
''Should I just cut him out completely? Or waste more time out of my life on a fantasy that is turning out to be just in my head?''
Or waste more time on a FANTASY thats in ur head?? I know its hard and i dont wana be harsh...but hes been marriedm has a girlfriend and lives in another state.
Ur better off finding someone closer to home, who'll treat you right and always put you first!!
We all deserve someone wonderful, go look for your wonderful man! x
2007-11-28 21:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, re-read your post. What do you think? In relationships, believe the actions, no matter what the words are that come out of his mouth! He has been separated for years with no divorce, that makes it easy not to have to committ again. He lives with a girl and is now contacting you, probably behind her back. He has made no indication he wants anything from you....maybe just to string you along...just in case.....so why are you hanging around????
2007-11-28 14:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cut him out completely! He is with his GF AND has a wife with whom he is not even divorced from, are you REALLY worth so much baggage?
2007-11-28 14:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by banger_sisster 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please cut him out of your life completely. you're only heading towards self-destruction. it is not worth it. he has way too much baggage. I'm sure you'll find someone else. Heck, you're probably not in love with him..just in love with the fact that he is unattainable.
2007-11-28 14:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit wasting your time fool! move on learn from past mistakes and get it together!
2007-11-28 14:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question. Start looking already!
2007-11-28 14:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Showmefire 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question.
2007-11-28 14:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋