Can you help me with a confusing potential relationship?

Question

heres the story. Theres a chick I knew from High School that is going to college now. Before she left for college we were just friends and she wanted more, but she was going to college, so we got in a huge fight. In a nutshell, she hated me for a long time. I look on my facebook one day and she befriended me. I said yes and before I knew it I was hanging out with her. To my suprise, i really think I'm falling for her. We made out twice or so and after the second time she said that it wouldnt ever work. But after that she kind of implied that we could get together and the problems that we're having now arent a big deal. I hung out with her yesterday. I dont want her to think im desperate or anything, so should I call her, or should I wait a couple days?

Answer 1

The problem with not looking desperate is that it is sort of a lie. You love her right? Your failing for her right? Wouldn't that make you desperate to have her more in your life? That aside seems you letting her led to much were this relationship goes. Thats going to screw you, its hard to be in a relationship, hard espacially to be the one in control. ESPACIALLY when your not sure you want to be in the relationship. So do you really need the person who is unsure about the relaitonship in-control of that relationship? Think about these things, the truth is you have a great chance to make this work, if you work for it right, be honest....