How much does it hurt the first time you have sex?

Answer 1

First you have to ask if you are a Catholic. It hurts more if you are.

I assure you it usually hurts more when he doesn't call back the next day.

Answer 2

If you are thinking about having sex, think long and hard about your decision. It something you can never go back on.
If you feel that you aren't to young and that you are emotionally ready and you care about this person enough... ok, lecture is over. It depends on the circumstances if sex hurts the first time. It depends on how big his penis is. How turned on you are. How gentle he is. If you are properly lubricated. If you are turned on, he is gentle etc., it shouldn't hurt too bad if at all. It might just be a little uncomfortable at first. You may bleed a bit, a lot or none at all. Everyone is different. Remember the first time only happens once, and your future impressions of sex will be based on this time, so do it right. Be prepared for safe sex, with a water based lubricant and a condom that is water soluble lubricated. Don't do it if you are not turned on. It's not worth it.

Answer 3

Not much. It hurt just a little but a couple days after, but sometimes it hurts even today after and I've been having sex for like 10 years. It's not a bad hurt either, it's actually kind of nice in a weird way. Just make sure you are relaxed, use lubrication if needed, and ask the guy to be gentle. You'll be fine.

Answer 4

I am going to answer this question 2 ways.

How much does it hurt the first time you have sex? (from a physical standpoint) That depends on how relaxed you are and how caring and gentle your partner is knowing it's your first time.

How much does it hurt the first time you have sex? (from an emotional standpoint). Be very careful here. If you feel you are having sex with "the one" and "the one" turns out to be leading you on just to get in your pants, then it can take a very painful emotional toll on you. That can last a very long time vs. physical pain which can heal.

My suggestion - don't rush into sex. Wait until you are both sure you are willing to spend your life together.

Answer 5

It hurts but not so much that it will prevent you from doing it again.

To lessen the pain, the woman should be sure that she ready, physically. Relaxed, wanting it, and moist. There are few things more painful (or annoying) than dry sex. If the woman has trouble producing wetness, she should use a product like KY Jelly. Sex should be enjoyable and exciting. Never irritating, forced, or uncomfortable.

Answer 6

It hurts some, but for me it wasn't that bad. I know others who it hurt a lot. Some of it depends on you frame of mind, and how aroused you are. It also depends on your partner some of the guys can be pretty rough and crude. Take it slow and easy and you will be fine. After the first couple of time you will see why it is so good, and you will forget any of the pain you may have experienced.

Answer 7

This questionis interesting! It really depends on the experience of your partner. If he gets you to a point where your body is ready for sex, then there will be some burning discomfort and yes, you will have a little bleeding. But once your body becomes accustomed to him it will begin to feel better. If he is a clod, it will hurt a lot because your bodys natural lubricants will not be ready for entry. Not a good feeling.

Answer 8

I don't know only because im a guy but i've heard that when you first have sex being a female of course it is painful, only becasue you rip your hymen and if your still young enough then it will hurt alot so don't have sex cause its gonna hurt! Oh, yah and don't forget the bleeding also so it hurts and it makes you bleed.

Answer 9

i thought it hurt a lot and i felt sick the next day. This first few time may hurt depending on how big the guy is but you will get used to it

Answer 10

I promise you it will hurt more emotionally and mentally than it could ever hurt physically if you are too young and not ready. I'm not you're mother, I'm just here and I used to be you. Think about the person. It's supposed to be "forever"? BS. He just wants some.

Answer 11

if you're nervous at all or not ready then it will hurt hurt hurt very very badly.
if you are an adult and in love with the person and they love you back and you have discussed all that needs to be discussed before you invest in a sexual relationship with that person and you take precautions, then it will be pain free and a beautiful thing.