im 16 and i want to know should my fokes let me move in with my girl friend she is 17 and we both have a job?

Question

she has a job and she is 17
i am 16 and have two incomes

well she is 17 about to be 18
i am 16 going on 17 i have two income
one is my job and the other is my disability
and she has a job of her own and i have a apartment i have been look at for a long time now and she is the love of my life

well she is 17 about to be 18
i am 16 going on 17 i have two income
one is my job and the other is my disability
and she has a job of her own and i have a apartment i have been look at for a long time now and she is the love of my life and im out of school becuse i was push up a few grades

well i make almost 600 dollars a week

Answer 1

"sounds like a great idea
financial success here u come"

lolz. perfect.


You're 16? What the heck are you waiting for? The clock's ticking....

Answer 2

unless youve been together for a long time and are engaged, i dont think its a great idea, in my opinion and probably the opinion of your parents.

Youre young(i know youve heard this before and must be fed up w it) and u never know how much can change in the future. Moving in together makes thing more complicated, and if you dont know each other well enough(im talking about years) then moving in together might make things worse, as your habits and her habits might disagree with each other.

Im not that much older than you, im 20, and have a bf of three years, and yet presently i still would not move in with him. If you have plans to go to college, then this is even more true as you will become very busy to work and have school. As a minimum, though, I would say at least wait until you are out of high school and a legal adult.

Also, at your age, its really hard to find a landlord willing to rent out to a teenager(I actually think its illegal), and the charge will probably be more, so take that into consideration.

Answer 3

Nooo many reasons:
1.your 16 you might not even be able to stay alive without your parents around it might not seem like it but you need them more than they need you
2.Does she live alone otherwise your gonna have to find a place and anylandlor who isnt deaf,blind,dumb, and mentaly retarted is going to let a 16 year old rent an apartment alone.
3.What if you move to a place together and she becomes the most annoying person ever and you all split up. Then after the inconvinieance of moving your going to have to pay your land lord because you broke your contract (most landlords make a contract so someone can rent an apartment like a long term payment hotel and move out after 3 weeks.)you never know someone until you live with them
4.Somtin is gonna happen in that apartment and then you might have a kid or somtin at 16 and then you got rent food and a baby to pay for
WAIT UNTIL YOUR OLDER

Answer 4

I can see by your profile that you are a rather flamboyant and independent person. Probably quite rebellious as well. I apologize if I have you all wrong.

However, ARE YOU NUTS!!!!

I'm 22, and I have been living on my own since a little before my 19th birthday. Trust me it isnt easy, with roommates or a boyfriend (in your case it would be a girlfriend).

It is good that you have a job, save the money. Trust me, nothing is more apealing than free room board. Finish highschool at least before you move out.

Granted all of this is assuming you have a tolerable lifestyle with your family...and I'm sure at 16 you have the bias and typical teenager relationship that tends to pile a rift between you and your parents.

All I'm saying is that moving out is a VERY big decision, and there is a lot of cost involved that doesnt become prevalent to you until after its a little late. I would not recommend moving out especially with the both of you fairly young.

Answer 5

There's so many answers to that question.

I personally would say no, I am 18 years old and I would not be ready to move in with some guy, whether I had two incomes or not.

I think that you are to young to be moving in with your girlfriend.. You only have two more years to be a child, legally a child. Take time and enjoy life.. Stay with your girlfriend and enjoy that time together.

But for now, I would say moving in isn't a good idea... Just wait and make sure this is the decision you want...

Answer 6

Your "fokes", eh? Here's a tip: stay at home as long as you can. The world is a lot rougher than you perceive at the tender age of 16. I know it sounds really romantic, living with your girlfriend, just like the grown-ups and all, but that's not reality. Reality is things like paying the rent, and the energy bill, and the phone, and the car expenses, and the medical bills if one of you gets sick, and the cable. There's a very long list of people who want your money, and a very short list of people willing to give you some, and it's never enough. So stay home, go to college, graduate and get a GOOD job, then move in with her.

Answer 7

No NO NO. Your a kid, and what kind of jobs could you have at 16 and 17? Best Buy? I bet you don't even gross $40,000 a year. You would be a fool! What is the hurry. Plus your a minor......hello!!!! I am a mother, but I was young once too and I just cannot believe that you would consider this at 16. Do the right things now, because believe me you will regret it later in when you are waiting in line for food stamps

Answer 8

No. I dont even think that you should ask your parents to do so because i can almost guarantee that your parents will say no. It doesnt matter that you have 2 incomes. Both of you are not old enough to handle the responsibilty of living on your own. The both of you probably have part-time jobs and that is not enough to live comfortably in an apartment. There is no hurry. Just wait until you are old enough to accept the responsibility to be an adult.

Answer 9

NO how stupid is that you both are still minors! and do you know how much it costs to live on your own...definitely more than what the two of you combined make. And the chances of your gf getting pregnant will double and are you ready to be a parent....at sixteen....making 5-7 dollars an hour? No I dont think you are! Your parents are only doing what is best for you and when you and your gf breakup in the future you will thank them..or even if you dont break up when you grad from college and get a real job you will thank them for not allowing you to screw up your life

Answer 10

I'm sure you are a very responsible young man, and I'm sure you love each other. But, moving in together at your age would be a huge mistake for the both of you. You two are so young, and have so much to live and experience. I know you probably think you want to spend the rest of your lives together, but most of us can look back and remember feeling that way when we were in high school. Take your time, and enjoy yourselves. There will be plenty of time for big commitments and huge responsibilities later in life. Enjoy your youth and achieve your dreams before you commit yourself to another person.

Answer 11

No offense but you should hold off you are to young am 19 and I don't even think that am ready to move out. Why grow do you wan to grow up so fast, relationships at that age are very fickle and you never know how long they will last hould of when your 18 I think it would be better them at 16. Good luck hope this