Ok well I have this friend. I was her first friend ever cuz she was a newbie last year. Then since we were in a diff class she's made new friends. This year she had a bruised pinky so all she could do was swing and it got so boring so I decided to hang out with other friends. Then we went to Out Door lab and she was all like I am so sorry for being mean about you ditching me! Truce? I was all like sure. Then when we got back she came up to me and was like I don't wanna be friends with you because of your language. I was like so you hate me because of that. Plus she likes a guy who always uses like a**, and bi*** its stupid. All I ever say is like stupid or idiot and she thinks it bad language. Then since we got this new seating arrangement at lunch and my friends told me when she was talking to her other friend that she was all like if I sit by Kendahl I am going to puke. I don't mind but it gets annoying cuz its like she knows I know she hates me but tries to annoy me about it. Help!!
2007-11-28 15:57:59 · 3 answers · asked by Kendi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's mean:*( best i can say is.....don't be mean to her, it'll start drama, but don't be nice either. try to act indiferent to everything she throws at you. she say "lets be friends" don't jump on it like you're greatful, just say "okay...whatever...cool" if she has no effect on you, it's no fun anymore. good luck with that (: stay away from the mean girls.
2007-11-28 16:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen... you need to get a little something down. There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.
2007-11-29 00:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but I think she's a b****(excuse my language) But seriously, you don't deserve to be treated this way. That's a good thing your not friends with her..she seems very two-faced.
2007-11-29 00:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋