So I'm like the tallest girl in school, (10th grade) and whenever I ask a guy out tat I'm interested in they just say no politely or some of them look up at me like my head touches the clouds and say "no" laughing, then I immediately dislike them. I can't find anyone who I think is nice and prefers tallness or who is taller than me! I don't know what to do because I am rather miserable and all my friends are at least 4" shorter than me!
2007-11-28 15:22:56 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go for tall guys. besides, i'm 5'11 and 16 years old. i'd ask you out based on your personality and not your height. Hang in there. Good luck.
2007-11-28 15:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by 8 mile 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I guess a good way to look at things is that you share something in common with short guys (<5'6"). You both have a hard time finding someone who can't seem to see past your height. The best thing you can do is learn how to be warm, open, flirty, and social. Hopefully in time you can find a guy who will not be intimdated by dating a woman who is taller than they are. Hopefull you are doing the same the other way around.
I speak as a man who is 5'6" tall. I have the running joke that I am too short for most women's taste, yet I am too tall for circus midgets. However, it doesn't keep me from flirting and asking women out. Even if they are taller than I am. If she says no, then what did I really lose? I just move on to the next one who may say yes.
2007-11-28 15:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask them out. They may be turned off by your advances rather than your height. Call me old fashioned, but dudes always like a bit of a challenge in a girl.
Most of the guys in High School will catch up with you in the height department later on. Go for guys who are a bit older and taller!
2007-11-28 15:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are clubs where tall women go to meet tall men. There must be something on line that's safe for you to do, or start a club for young girls, young guys only reply, to find tall guys. Also you may want to check out basketball guys, lots of them are tall, high school basket ball guys.
2007-11-28 15:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by denise g 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, I was the tallest girl in my class from 5th grade on. I wasted so much time toiling over it, I wish I had that time back. Try to focus on your good qualities and make yourself as beautiful as possible - from the inside out. It'll show, trust me. No one will care about your height if you're cool and fun to be with.
And, never, ever ask a boy out. Never.
Just be you, be fun, pretty, and nice, and they will come to you. Trust me.
2007-11-28 15:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking them out - why don't you just work on having guy friends? That way, guys talk to guys, and someone who's interseted in you might find out about you through one of your friends.
2007-11-28 15:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
im pretty short for a guy im 5.8 and id have no problem going out with a girl that tall
you shouldnt judge people on sumthing they cant control but people tend to do it
dont worry about height when finding a guy it lowers the amount of people to choose from and your doing wat people did to you
2007-11-29 14:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by johnsmith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 5'3", and I love tall woman, I would date a woman who is 6'1", but I would have been too shy in high-school,
2007-11-29 04:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Peter R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in their you will meet a guy that taller then you.
2007-11-28 15:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are many guys that like tall girls,don't worry your will come.....Ok
2007-11-28 15:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by William E A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋