i broke up with my ex about 2 weeks ago.
i'm supposed to hate his guts right now because
he lied, and cheated on me. but for some reason
i miss him more than i could ever explain.
but today the guy i was in love with before i ever knew my ex. was talking to me and i found out a lot about him that i never knew.
i'm really confused. i don't know what to do. my ex says he hates my a$$ but then he'd stare at me for the longest time ever even though he has a gf.
i don't know what to do. i love my ex very much but at the same time i think i'm starting to like the other guy again.
i don't know what to do.
its very confusing. please help me.
&&do you have any tips for getting over my ex? i hate the fact that he cheated, lied, and all the above&&yet i still miss him.
thanks so much.
i feel torn apart =(
2007-11-28 15:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by live♥love♥laugh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S
lol it seems as if everyones getting confused about this. i miss my ex but i don't want to.
then this guy i loved starts talking to me in a way he never has, and i'm starting to like him but i don't want to i'm still trying to get over my ex. but don't know how to.lol but thanks for the answers <3
so yeah..
2007-11-28 15:17:17 · update #1
Time mama time. Time to yourself! Time to heal. Time to remember who you are. Time to realize it's likely neither of these two are worth pining over :) Look to your friends &/or family to bring you through!! & definitely have a ton of fun while your doing it!
2007-11-28 15:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loosing someone that you really cared about is very difficult to deal with at the time.
However, you will move past this again as you did before. Do not go back to what did not work before. Learn from your past relationships and use that knowledge in your new relationships. After all that is what dating is all about. It is the learning period to see if the things you need and want from each other is really in that relationship. If it is not then you discover that and move on to a new and wonderfully exciting relationship that will hopefully be better than the one that you are leaving.
I question if you really care for this guy as much as your thinking that you do because you seem so easily willing to go back to the old boyfriend. (Think about that ok?)
There are so many people in the world there will be some one just for you. Do not settle for someone that did not work before. Move on and you will be happier!
Best wishes in your next new relationship. Maybe he will give you back your *Smile*! :)
2007-11-28 15:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one is a tuffie. Let's see. For the guy, (not the ex) hang out with him more, and sooner you'll forget about him.
Your ex, well, even though he did those things, you can't help but remember the good times, right? Well, whenever you get reminded of him, think of the other guy and just think about other things. He might just be trying to get you jealous or something, it seems he might have something for you, and well, he might regret cheating on you, and he'll want to get back with you, and that other guy might be the spark.
2007-11-28 15:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you are susceptible because you are on the rebound. Do yourself a favor and don't date anyone for at least a couple of months to get your head on straight. Take a break from dating and see where you are and have time to emotionally recover. Otherwise you might be rushing into something you may not want to rush into and in the end get doubly hurt.
2007-11-28 15:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, if you love your ex and maybe want to get back with him, you can forgive him and try to rebuild the relationship. But there will be females who will think "Are you insane? I spent such and such amount of time in an abusive relationship and you're trying to get back IN one??" I mean really, do you want to intentionally get BACK IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP? No, he didn't physically harm you, but emotionally, and mentally, he is torturing you. Bad enough.
Forgive him, but forget him. As for the other guy, if he would go with you in spite of having a gf, he would be abusing her. The best thing to do is lay low! Does it really bother you that much that you're not in a "relationship"? Can you not do without a guy for a few weeks? Chill out and hold yourself in honorable thought.
You want to get back with the guy you THOUGHT you knew. But you see who he is now. You have to decide if you want to be with who you KNOW he is NOW.
2007-11-28 15:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by coriafanforlife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BOTHG of these guys became an EX for a reason...don't make the same mistakes twice. Move on and find a guy who is worthy of you and will treat you with the love and respect you deserve
2007-11-28 15:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a guy i can say i hate when dudes do that **** to they girlfriend you should forget about him and move on because if you get back with him again he'll just do the same thing
2007-11-28 15:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Fearless 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
hey girl....if he cheated he ain't worth your time or love....you're worth more....the best way to get over your ex is to hang out with friends, or give the other guy a chance and maybe he can help you heal..........share your feelings with whoever understands you best....Love yourself and don't let another guy break you heart ..be extra carefull from now on....
2007-11-28 15:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by niuen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him once a cheater always a cheater! Go with the other guy. But you need to let him know that he needs to dump his gf first. That is if he is serious.
2007-11-28 15:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by luckyman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hook up with me and you will forget all about what's his name!!
2007-11-28 15:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋