Singles & Dating - 28 November 2007

Would you stay with them? If they're well adjusted now would you dismiss their past?

2007-11-28 09:50:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

e! I have a date with a new guy Friday night and want to look hot. Yes, he knows I am a smoker, and it is ok with him even though he is not.

2007-11-28 09:47:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is so damn lazy! He just lays around in bed all day talking about how tired he is. He never wants to help me with anything and anytime I ask him to do me a favor he acts like I owe him. When he should help out around the house anyway.... PLEASE HELP! I dont know what to do with him anymore!

2007-11-28 09:45:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I'm not that ugly. But let's face it: I'm screwed. I studied so hard and worked so hard to improve the way I dress. I read the bloody Economist and am very well versed in the arts, literature, film, etc. I speak four languages. But I'm useless and horridly plain. I'm stuck depending on the kindness of others to love me. Every time I look at my face in my mirror, I feel like I dying and I just want to break the mirror and forget I exist. I know biology have cursed me forever, and don't you say that one day "the right man," will find you. Sure, but I'm not allowed to be choosy at all. Why bother? Why I am alive if I'm so undesirable to men? I don't care if they're not classically attractive, only thin, and from a good family and well-educated--as I am. I actually find Tom Hanks-type guys very attractive.
I live by a river, and sometimes I just feel like pulling an Ophelia and well you know...

2007-11-28 09:45:24 · 27 answers · asked by Carolina P 2

How did you meet? and how did you know that they were the one for you?

2007-11-28 09:42:58 · 24 answers · asked by Rainbowsssss 4

Atleast most guys are.

2007-11-28 09:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Rainn 3

I asked my ex out yesterday and he said he would like to go out, but not right now because he's still getting over the break up. It's been a month and one week or more since we broke up. Did he use that as an excuse?? Should I move on??

2007-11-28 09:42:11 · 12 answers · asked by Mystify 1

you or your spouse/bf/gf? Any stories? :)

Mine are always warm (unless I'm sick.)

2007-11-28 09:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by ironcityguy 5

hi last year i met this guy and we were getting on really well but he has a baby with sumbody else though he isnt seeing her.
we text all the time and he says he wants to meet up with me but neva does,but then he comes running back saying he is really sorry.
i dont know wat to do,he gets jealous if i mention other men but the fact is i never see him and i really care for him.
he makes promises he cant keep but sumtimes its like he really cares,he says i make him nervous.
please help ?

2007-11-28 09:39:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

At work there is this woman who i like alot. we have had small convos, we have talked during breaks, and we also text one another outside of work. I recently asked her out to dinner and she said yes. does that mean its a date? and she asked me if i would interested in comin back to her apt so that i know how to get there. does that mean she likes me a lot or just a little? What would be a good place to go to dinner bc i really want to impress her?thanks g

2007-11-28 09:33:34 · 4 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

emily is smart and funny but she kinda ignores me and always challenges me. sara is clearly into me and i know that she would go out with me. should i go for the challenge or go the easy way?

2007-11-28 09:31:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend, who I want to ask out, asked me to learn a song on the guitar for her...I learned it, is there a way to ask her out by saying that I learned the song for her? (using the fact that I learned the song for her as showing a way that I care about her)

2007-11-28 09:30:17 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this kid....and this loud mouth asked him to go out with me without me knowing so he said no about 2 months ago but now and ever since then he always looks at me. In science a sub had the wrong attendance sheet and called my name in his class and his head shot up so fast ..as my friend told me ...and when i'm walking down the stairs and he's walking up he stares at me constantly until we can't see each other anymore. Alsoi my friend was talking about me and he walked passed and when he heard my name he looked around and started to listen to my friends convo. WHat do you think....

2007-11-28 09:25:15 · 14 answers · asked by ❤ηΙηα❤ 4

Ok so i like this guy.. we met like 4 months ago, and we went to a concert with our friends, then he asked a friend of mine my email.. we talked a little, then i had this party and i went with him, he told me i looked beautiful and he was like always "hugging me" and then my friend were like picture! and he hugged me, then the music started and there was a song and he started to sing to me in the ear , this " where your heart fits" and then we danced a lot, and when we got like lost from each other when we found again, he would hug me again and put a huge smile on his face...

HE IS/WAS SO NICE & SWEET
he asked how was the food, he pulled the chair for me, he even told me if he change his desert for mine, even though he didn't like chocolate.. (his was vanilla and mine was chocolate) oh and he asked me my cell #!!
-he isn't shy at all...
-he is just the kind of guy that love girls
-and he said to my friend that he couldn't have a nice girl..
****we haven't talked since...

2007-11-28 09:24:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can be sexy, romantic, cute, w/e.

2007-11-28 09:22:44 · 4 answers · asked by Nick B 2

is it better for the guy to buy flowers or steal them from a park or a garden?
because if you steal from a garden , it takes alot of time and its cheaper aswel ;)

2007-11-28 09:21:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need advice or closure to help me let go.okay so my ex broke up with me 7 months ago..and maybe 3 months he got into a relationship with another girl. Basically he moved to another town because of her, and he barely knew her(barely a month). Anyway last night I had a basketball game where he lives(im the manager, so I sit with the players)..and he was there..with her. And instead of sitting on the vistor side..he sat on the home side where I could see him. Yet when the games are where I live..he sits on the vistors and goes alone. He basically makes me see him. After the game, one of his friends told me that his gf is 3-4 months pregnant with her ex boyfriends baby, and top that off, she drinks and parties. Now I dont get whats going through my ex's head, why is he doing this? He's such a different person now, he drinks parties, and I found out he stoled money from a friend. I shouldnt care, but what is he thinking?:(

2007-11-28 09:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by bianca 5

Do you think someone who is Bipolar (untreated in all ways)....and is leading a very risky lifestyle right now (spending excessively, not paying bills, drinking and partying a lot, hanging out with the wrong kind of friend, accepting a marriage proposal from a girl she has only know like 2 and a half months, and a few other shady things)....do you think that after being with me for almost 5 years that she will regret what she did in the near future or at least some day? Even though we had our share of problems...and I have my pscyhological problems as well (OCD and BPD).....But even with her being nasty to me lately really bad and her making things out to be worse that they were between us and telling her friends that stuff, I was always there for her....even after she left me this time. And she left me once before this time too, maybe like 5 months before this time. So with her making out to seem like the 'devil'.....if it was you, and you were as unhappy as she is making it seem ..

2007-11-28 09:15:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

K, so I went out with this guy for like two days. Then we broke up. Then, about a week later I went out with him for another week, and we broke up again. We still like each other, but we're not going out. We hold hands and cuddle and stuff, so I would say we have a thing. I told him I don't wanna go out again because I don't want it to turn out like last time and that we should hang out more before we go out again. Do you think it's good that I'm waiting a little bit, but leading him on? I really, really like him, and I try to get over him but I can't. Am I doing the right thing?

2007-11-28 09:10:49 · 17 answers · asked by The Girl 2

Seriously though, I don't know why it's sooooo important for girls nowadays to wait until the second date at least. From a guys perspective, whether she gives it up on the first or second date--the opinions don't change!

2007-11-28 09:10:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so my friend and I are going to the mall for my birthday.
She's thirteen, and I'm fourteen.
I talked to her about stopping at Spencer's to get a vibrator for both of us, and she's up for it, except we don't know if they check the age there.
I've heard some people say they do, I've heard some say they don't. I don't know, so that's why I'm asking.

I've heard that since they sell them as "massagers" and "gag gifts" that you can buy them any age...

Oh, and no smart remarks such as: "Oh, you're too young to be buying this, etc." At least I'm not going out and having sex.

Serious answers only please!

2007-11-28 09:07:49 · 12 answers · asked by murky_kitty 1

2007-11-28 09:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by cjacket13 2

he sent me a picture of a beautiful single rose ( thru email), he's told me he liked me before, but what does this mean?? how do i respond to it??

2007-11-28 09:06:42 · 23 answers · asked by PuppyLover 3

one twin- ive liked 4 ages but i always say stupid stuff 2 her and we hardly talk
other twin- just recently started liking her, can talk sense to her, and we talk loads

which would you choice?? and any advice??

2007-11-28 09:05:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

See my ex boyfriend has been all flirty flirty with me and he broke up with me like 4 weeks ago (the relation ship lasted for like 2 weeks) because he said it was over stress and he said he still likes me but he doesnt want to go out with me and my newest boyfriend is so sweet and HOT but so is my ex boyfriend!!! somebody HELP ME!!!

2007-11-28 09:03:34 · 16 answers · asked by ariel_kng 2

I'm not taken, so how many different girls can I date without getting in trouble? If I go on a date with one girl on Thursday and another girl on Friday...does my Thursday date have a right to be upset with me if we are not exclusive....yet? Please note: Date does not equate to sleep with ;)

2007-11-28 09:01:49 · 24 answers · asked by Chris T 2

so i was walking down the stairs and my boobs were kind of shaking, and i looked at my crush, and he was smiling. What do you think he was thinking?

2007-11-28 09:00:44 · 58 answers · asked by Nikki T 1

I'm 16 and have large breasts for my age, my friends (all girls) said i should be greatful as they are all flat but as my last 2 boyfreinds dated me only for my boobs, i'm rather self concious. A lot of guys at school taunt me about them and i think i'm asking this question just to rant but if guys like girls who have big boobs so much why do they push so many to breast reduction by making them feel out of place.

2007-11-28 08:55:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a fiance and we really lovee each other alot...and he is realy very loving n caring about me and likes me alottt..i know that..and we even are soo open with each other that we have each others passwords for email and all...but still I feel very insecure wenever he is on his yahoo mesenger and chatting wit hs frnds that are girls...i feel very insecure and panicked..i really dunno why..i shudnt feel like this right? like i keep wondering OMG wat r they talking about..or could they be flirting..etc..What shud i do abt this insecurity and feeling? I just dont want him to chat with other girls..ANd i dont even knw what they could be talking..so i feel insecure..What should i DO about this? PLS HELP ME..advise maturely..

2007-11-28 08:55:08 · 11 answers · asked by mani 1

My boyfriend pointed that out and I just said at least I'm wearing one. Is it that bad if my bra is showing through my shirt? (It was a white shirt by the way)

2007-11-28 08:54:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous