Will She Regret It?

Question

Do you think someone who is Bipolar (untreated in all ways)....and is leading a very risky lifestyle right now (spending excessively, not paying bills, drinking and partying a lot, hanging out with the wrong kind of friend, accepting a marriage proposal from a girl she has only know like 2 and a half months, and a few other shady things)....do you think that after being with me for almost 5 years that she will regret what she did in the near future or at least some day? Even though we had our share of problems...and I have my pscyhological problems as well (OCD and BPD).....But even with her being nasty to me lately really bad and her making things out to be worse that they were between us and telling her friends that stuff, I was always there for her....even after she left me this time. And she left me once before this time too, maybe like 5 months before this time. So with her making out to seem like the 'devil'.....if it was you, and you were as unhappy as she is making it seem ..

right now...would you have came back to me the first time you left then, when you could have stayed gone??

P.S. - Me and her are both girls, just so there is no confusion.

And oh yes...I have been getting help for my problems....for a year and a half now. I am slowly but surely getting better and even though I did not change over night and it will still be a process, I am working on myself everyday.


MISTAKE....I meant to say with her acting like I'm the 'devil'

Answer 1

She will regret it, but might not even realize it. In order to regret something, you have to know exactly what you did that you should have done differently and what you screwed up. If she doesn't realize what she had with you, she can't regret leaving you or living the life style she's living. Though, if due to be married she might soon wake up from her shady life.

Also, did you try and control her when you guys were together? If so, this might be a kind of "I'm free and nobody tells me what to do anymore!" kind of thing.

All there is that you can do though is continue to be there for her (if you really even want to anymore, you could also tell her you're sick of dealing with her mess and tell her to call you when she straightens up), continue living your own life, and realize that you deserve better. Best of luck to ya girl!

Answer 2

I think she will regret this and you obviously did have your problems too but cared and tried to fix things so not only does she not deserve you but you shouldn't be thinking about this girl even if you love her. move on and find a better girl. Plus if YOU wanted a future, is this the type of girl youd want to share it with?

Answer 3

she will definitely regret it.

-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)

Answer 4

yup she will regret it

Answer 5

are you both bi-polar

Answer 6

sure