I need advice or closure to help me let go.okay so my ex broke up with me 7 months ago..and maybe 3 months he got into a relationship with another girl. Basically he moved to another town because of her, and he barely knew her(barely a month). Anyway last night I had a basketball game where he lives(im the manager, so I sit with the players)..and he was there..with her. And instead of sitting on the vistor side..he sat on the home side where I could see him. Yet when the games are where I live..he sits on the vistors and goes alone. He basically makes me see him. After the game, one of his friends told me that his gf is 3-4 months pregnant with her ex boyfriends baby, and top that off, she drinks and parties. Now I dont get whats going through my ex's head, why is he doing this? He's such a different person now, he drinks parties, and I found out he stoled money from a friend. I shouldnt care, but what is he thinking?:(
2007-11-28 09:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by bianca 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bianaca, it doesn't matter what he's thinking--clearly he's not for you. Both he and she sound like trash and if you live with trash you become trash! Don't let that happen to you. Meet another guy who will love and respect you and who has better things to do than party. Make sure his ambitions for the future at least match, if not surpass yours. Do not waste another minute thinking about what was--you are too good for that. Remember, if you do not respect yourself, no one will respect you.
2007-11-28 09:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by margyla4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him.
You still got a broken heart. Do you best to find the nicest guy (with the most $$$) around and practice (but dont) on getting yourself pregnant. Its the best medicine for closure. Thats how i got over my ex (but with a girl) who got engaged a month after we broke up after 2 years.
2007-11-28 17:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard to see someone you once cared about (and maybe still do) make decisions you don't agree with. He seems to be making poor choices and I know it hurts, but you just need to keep your head up and find some hot guy that will put him and his ridiculous new girlfriend to shame. Good luck!
2007-11-28 17:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by chyduck33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and let him make his own mistakes!
He's obviously not over you for having to rub it in your face!
2007-11-28 17:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, you shouldn't care. There are plenty of more important things to ponder.
2007-11-28 17:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that maybe he should loosen up a bit and have some fun
OR
he went nuts and he has nothing to lose
2007-11-28 17:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look cute, find someone better, that will treat you with the respect you deserve
2007-11-28 17:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Manny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No idea. . . maybe he's just crazy. Ask him.
2007-11-28 17:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Dillion M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk
2007-11-28 17:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by confused! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋