My boyfriend is so damn lazy! He just lays around in bed all day talking about how tired he is. He never wants to help me with anything and anytime I ask him to do me a favor he acts like I owe him. When he should help out around the house anyway.... PLEASE HELP! I dont know what to do with him anymore!
2007-11-28 09:45:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can not change your boyfriend. If he is lazy now, he will probably always be lazy. And, you are right, he should help with everything, it's only fair. Especially if you both work.
2007-11-28 09:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to see him like a dog. i know this souds wiers but itll work. try the reward system, giving him things for helping, or taking stuff away. Then you could stop doing stuff for him around the house and it will drive him mad that nothings taken care of. If this doesnt work, i would slowly start to break up with hi. It sounds like you both own a house together, so that may not work. Well thats all i can say.
2007-11-28 17:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by trendsetter175 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha mine is too all he ever does is lay down. i try to get him to go out and he never does anything. lets face it guys are just plain lazy. the only ones that arent are the ones with a full time job and a baby. not to mention guys are asssssssholesssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!! the only way you are gonna get him to do something is if you try to take something away from him or just lay down next to him and bother him for an hour or whatever then he wont want to lay down cause hes being bothered.
2007-11-28 17:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by strawberriesandchocolate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the trash to the curb unless you wanna be a sugar momma
2007-11-28 17:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys like that are a waste of sperm and air! warn him one last time and tell him what he is about to lose...we never known what we have until we lose it! by the way i am guessing he smokes alot of weed doesnt he? i heard weed makes you feel lazy....god bless you for taking this from him...good luck and pray about it : )
2007-11-28 17:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by assyrian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't work either. Boy you sure picked a bum! Kick his tired azz out!
2007-11-28 17:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by I know a lil' bit about that 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get his act together. it sounds like you two are adults so he should start acting like one. stop cleaning up after him too, you're not his mother so don't act like it. if he still doesn't get the hint, give him the ultimatum-he starts doing his part or you walk.
2007-11-28 17:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by million$? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesn't help, he don't get his meals cooked for him. I guarantee he will be so helpful after that little kick up the derriere.
2007-11-28 17:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out of bed first and then out of your life.
2007-11-28 17:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
smack that trash and put it out for the dumpsters to take away!
2007-11-28 17:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋