My acqauintance is an engineer who is very smart but he does things that are socially awkward. For one he bathes sometimes at night but not morning. He is probably 150 pounds overweight and dont care to go to a gym even though students have free gym membership and he lives a 3 minute walk from the gym. He also does not exercise and due to that is uncoordinated, tireds quickly, and has no athletic ability. Also he has never been on a date before and hes 23. He also has a tendency to run to mom, a dad, or a professor for a personal issue in his life instead of deal with it on his own?
2007-11-28 12:52:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you feel confident that your compassion and brow-beating can help him, it doesn't matter. It would actually be better for you to be both mean and honest with him, instead of just watching him do this, so the choice is yours. Should you be his daddy or in a better light a mentor. Or should you watch as he slowly drives himself mad and stunts his maturity? IN cases like this, it just wouldn't even hurt to try....
2007-11-30 03:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋