we dated for 5 months befeore I begun to suspect he was married. he has been denying it and insisting that him and I will get married in January. but some times when I call him he wont pick up the phone. later he will call and pretend all is well. I got fade up despite the love and I have warned him so many times before. Then he did it again on friday and saturday. so I sent him text to say I am fade up and I believe he is either married, seeing someone else or both a and b. no response to date. I am going to his city this week and he knows that, how am I supposed to behave if he gets in touch with me? There are things I am still not sure of and if there was a chance of us staying together, I would gladly do so because I love him. I don't know what to do but I know I am also ready to move on instead of being lied to. But If I am wrong I would try again. Anybody please help me.
2007-11-25 20:12:18 · 8 answers · asked by justme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you get mad at him simply for not answering when you called? I know I am busy sometimes, or not near my phone, and I would hate it if people got mad at me for that. Do you think you may be too sensitive because of past hurts? And did you both have an understanding that you were exclusive or did you just assume that?
2007-11-25 20:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nowhere near enough trust in this relationship for you and he to be thinking about getting married.
If you really want to give this man a chance then visit his home and also ask him why he evades your calls sometimes.
Ultimately, though, you have to trust (and act on) your instinct. Some people, maybe not this guy, can lie when they look in you directly in your face. Trust your instincts. Even if you're wrong, your instincts matter.
2007-11-26 04:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ego Fatigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No trust no relationship ... u did the right thing. it he gets in touch with you talk to him coz it's better to deal with such things face to face .. hear what he has to say and you can go from there ... just dont be a fool and believe every word.
2007-11-25 20:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He has lied to you so much that he does not deserve the respect of an in person break up!!! Don't let him continue to disrespect you by lying to you. You deserve so much more!!! His name is Bobby is it?
2007-11-25 20:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a bad man. Maybe someone else will treat you better.
2007-11-25 20:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on Maury and make him take a lie detector test~lol.
2007-11-25 20:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Real Talk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show up at his house and see if there is another girl there.
2007-11-25 20:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do him one more time then call it quitz
2007-11-25 20:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋