I know it wasnt easy for him to deal with my insecurity. I was being really difficult when he had to leave town for work. we had been together for 1 year, out of nowhere he broke up with me through text. i tried to call him, but he wouldnt answer my call nor my text.
i was about to break up with him, because i felt that he's no longer comfortable being with me, i asked to meet so that i could say it in person, face to face and make it a mutual decision....
but he texted me first, just minutes before our rendezvous. Now, i feel disrespected, dumped and yet i still miss him....
It's only been 1 day, and it hurts so bad. Please say something to me to make me feel better...how to make this pain go away? this is my first heart break...
2007-11-25 19:02:51 · 7 answers · asked by Duddette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry you're feeling so badly!
Even if you planned to break up, it's still difficult.
He was a LOT insensitive and cowardly, by breaking up through text... that is just insane!
I suppose breaking up was the right thing after all... the man doesn't seem to have much integrity, does he?
Hon, time will heal your hurt... you can try doing a yahoo search for LIFE AFTER A BREAK UP... i'm sure you will find a lot of good advice, and useful info.
take care, ok?
2007-11-25 19:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That dirty rotten no good scoundrel! What a looser! There, feel better? You will certainly be happier with someone who actually has emotions and doesn't pretend that they don't have insecurities of their own (like not being able to face you).
And she goes under, up, and... Oh, scores the rebound! Guys are suckers, take advantage of it.
2007-11-26 03:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Peter R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to take the pain away. Only time can heal. But you said you wanted to break up with him anyway, so what's your problem.
2007-11-26 03:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Shamieka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see,, love is everythign and nothingness,, Depends to how you hold it.
Now you see my friend... If he doesn't lov eyou, then leave him,,, let him go to where ever he wants...
You see ,, this is only one world,, we have one age passing over,, why don't we spend it happily?,,, Why don't you want to use all what is here in this world,,,
If not him, then millions of him in the world,, go for find a better one,, go to find some one who loves you ,, some one to feel you,, to adore you to love you better than you love him.
2007-11-26 03:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ghiacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on someone else...porn....omg i cant belive i am sugesting that....
go do heaps of things with friends, like lots of lunches or theme parks!!!!
ask some other guys to the theme parks be creative.
you have been freed!!! it feels lighter, no more burden...you can breathe again, so enjoy it!!!
2007-11-26 03:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep your self occupied with other things and give it time
theres no other cure if i new one i would be a rich man
2007-11-26 03:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun with others till you die. That is life
2007-11-26 04:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋