We met at work. He's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. He's a model. Right away we connected physically. By that I mean, whenever I was near him he would flirt with me, touch my arm, or grab my waist, etc. One of the first things he did was take my arms and put them around his neck and gave me a chocolate. He's very sweet. However, I know he has a history of flirting with women at work and then losing interest quickly. But we've kept in touch mostly because I wanted to. I'm not sure how he feels. Anyways, he wanted to come over once but I never called him back because I wasn't ready for sex w/him. I knew thats what he wanted. So for the past 2 yrs, no contact. Meanwhile he moved to NYC and I still live in Chicago. Well recently, I decided to call him and he just so happened to be in Chicago for Thanksgiving. He came over. We kissed (for the first time), and soon we were naked, but no sex. He said he wanted to get to know me better first. Should I feel insulted or glad about it?
2007-11-25 18:59:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's called me like 6 times in the week that he's been here. He also asked me if I have any STD's. It was a rather arkward moment but I answered him. We did wrestle around a bit in the bed, I satisfied him, then he lost interest in anything further. He is leaving in two days. I don't know what goes on in his mind. He's an aquarius.
2007-11-25 19:12:02 · update #1
Has he called you since? If so he respects you and didnt want sex straight off. But if you have known each other for five years why does he need to get to know you better. If he hasnt called he doesnt want to lead you on. Even if he hasnt called he might like you but not be ready to be pinned down and doesnt want to hurt you. He might want to keep you as a friend. Why dont you send him an email and ask if he wants to go on a date or just keep things platonic?
2007-11-25 19:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ideal man sometimes act like that to test who you are to him. Men knows nowadays that women could easily be fooled by rhetoric words and I'm sure that as you are not showy to that guy he has that feeling too but he's still observing the way you are.
Dont get insulted, just act as your are be nice to him.
I'm a man believe me.
2007-11-25 19:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by PrivateEye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naked and No sex? Did he forget his Viagra, condoms or what?
I don't buy that "I want to know you better", he could have said that before getting you naked.
He is probably hiding something; make sure he is single, STD free, not gay or bi-sex, or not a cheating player.
2007-11-25 19:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have wrinkles all around your body? Just kidding ha ha. Perhaps he suddenly become a respectable man. No matter what, don't let yourself down. Just be glad!
2007-11-25 19:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to see you again then you should be glad at least you would know he wants you for you and not your body HE'S VERY REAR. see where it leads get a mental connection with him first
2007-11-25 19:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by ghettoempress5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you can never have a healthy relationship with someone you have known for five years.
Meet someone new and get started off on the right foot.
2007-11-25 19:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by The Yeti 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be glad about it i'd say, sounds like your onto a good thing, good luck!
2007-11-25 19:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad.
2007-11-25 19:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all part of his game. he probably sensed it was moving too fast for you, so he decided the quickest way to sex was to tell you he wanted to get to know you better. chicks are suckers for that.
2007-11-25 19:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep working on that fiction writing thing.
2007-11-25 19:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋