This is really happened to me.Im in love with a girl she loves me alot.Unfortunately she got married(arranged) to another guy.She still loves me.Im very depressed by this.Our past n sweet memories are dwelling in my mind.Im unable to bare this pain.But when i ask her about pain,she says not having like me,she is normal.Im weeping like anything,im unable to control my emotions. Then wat is the difference between she n me.How to change my mind from her how to control my thoughts.But if our past comes into my mind i cant stop crying.Is im wrong by loving her too muchhh. Need serious answers plzzzz......
2007-11-25 19:54:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U just have to accept the fact that you both are not meant for each other. Try to forget her... Coz if you still continue your relationship your creating a big sin to God. Make urself busy so you wont remember your past. Try to stay from her so the pain will not goes back. Its hard you know but you cannot do anything with this. You can never make a mistake ryt by doing another mistake. Wake up! its not the end of the world.
2007-11-25 20:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to forget this girl..if she had some love for you she would not have married someone else. So why are you losing time crying for such a girl who did not even care for your feeling. I know it is easy to say but hard to do..still itz life and one need to keep on moving..forget the past and enjoy the present and im sure you will have better memories in the futur so cheer up and enjoy life at the most.
2007-11-26 04:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad as it is, the girl seems to have moved on. You need to accept the situation and move on with your life. Dwelling in the past and what could have been will just mess you up. Its not the end of the world. Find someone else!!!
2007-11-26 04:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Abbas J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more preoccupied with this relationship than she is.
You need to break off this emotional attachment. It won't be easy, but you have to do it.
28 years ago I got a divorce, which became necessary after my first wife led me through several years of infidelity and humiliation. I finally got the point. It wasn't easy, but I had to do it.
It is not unusual for one person to love the other more than the other loves back. You love her more than she loved you and she is getting over it.
You need to.
Find other interests, preferably not women for a while. Then work your way back into dating and don't get serious until you are totally over her.
2007-11-26 04:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave a seriouse answer the last time.Either accept the arrangement and move on for her sake(because as long as she knows it hurts you,you are hurting her)or find a distraction and wait for her to be seperated legally from her spouse and than pick up the relationship if possible.
But her parents will most likely not accept you.
2007-11-26 04:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kirk K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U in the 'States? You may want to wait the amount of time needed to have her divorce herself legally from her "family-bartered-husband". Where I live, you would have to wait 1 year & 1/2 to file.
Arranged marriages! How rediculous, it's like the friggin Middle Ages!
2007-11-26 04:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by bindardundat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u ever thought why u are crying and why she is not.........have u ever think why u r having pain and why she is not.........the answer is that she is living with other person now so she has no time to remember u and cry but u are alone like me and u have plenty of time to think about her and cry (like wht i use to cry).........
See ur love is true but u can't live all ur life like this.....move on....u will find a person who will not only love u but also marry u.......Good Luck and Stop crying like baby.......(Joking man)........Good Luck
2007-11-26 04:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has someone, so its not going to be as bad for her.. if she hated the guy an he was a di*k well then she would miss you like hell..
if she wanted to be with you she would have found a way .. we live in the 20th century ..
sorry that you feel this way but you will meet someone else so don't worry it will soon fade like everything else
2007-11-26 04:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by TachTach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lee, everyone didn't get all what they want. your gf is very practical. she has compromised with the situations. why don't you? I think u r a teenager. try to built your future seriously. and always behave as a good friend whenever u met her.
2007-11-26 04:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Ajay S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your job or studies.
When she comes to your mind, take a deep breath and release slowly.
It will help.
2007-11-26 04:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by waja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋