Marriage & Divorce - 28 July 2007

to be submitted to the courts?

2007-07-28 08:18:57 · 4 answers · asked by Alexandra 3

If your husband or wife went crazy and tried to kill you and your child, could you forgive them, if you knew they were still a good person and didn't really mean to do it? I think ideally you should get a divorce but get help for them too and be there for them, I'm not sure if I would forgive or not, I might be too scared.

2007-07-28 08:15:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so when I got prego I quit smoking.
Then for some reason recently I had a few drags here and there.
Then I went and bought a pack and I've been hiding them.
Any how this morning I forgot to take them out of my purse and sure enough...
My husband came in and said can you explain this.
EEEK
Now he's pretty choked cause he doesn't want me to be a smoker. I don't want to quit though.
What should I do now?
He's still pretty upset and I want to kinda ration with him.
I just don't want him to be mad, but I'm not saying I'm going to stop either.
I am a grown adult, and it's my chose right?

2007-07-28 07:52:08 · 24 answers · asked by majesticcandy 2

2007-07-28 07:29:40 · 5 answers · asked by mark 1

1-Yes
2-no
3-maybe

2007-07-28 07:24:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for five years. The woman in the cubicle next to mine and I have been working on a project for several months now and have got into the habit of having lunch together. We have become very attched to each other. She is also married. She kissed me on the cheek once. Then a real kiss. Eventually we made out, with fondling outside the clothes, but here lately inside our clothes. I really want to go farther but don't want to cheat. How far can we go without it being cheating?

2007-07-28 07:18:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 06:35:54 · 22 answers · asked by Butterfly 3

how do you feel about wife swapping? my wife wants to try it with another man, and she wants me to do the same. shes always talking about how fun it would be to do it with other people. what do you think?

2007-07-28 06:33:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for ten years and just a had our son. He always has worked a lot of hours. Ever since i' ve had my son, him working so much bothers me more. He owns his business and is there from 7:30 am to 9:00 pm, Monday through Friday. He also visits his mom every Sunday. I feel frustrated and lonely. I've talked with him on several occasions and he just don't understand. I feel as if I'm married to someone, but not really! He gets upset every time I mention it to him. He says that i'm ungrateful and that I don't appreciate him. I'm frustrated and don't know what else to do?

2007-07-28 06:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by soonie 1

I'm a lucky stay at home mom with three kids 6yrs and younger. The problem is, I often feel overwhelmed with house work,laundry,cooking and tending to my childrens needs. I often fall short. I've talk to him about how I feel and he prettty much refusses to help me with anything pertaining to the home or children saying that it's my job, not his and makes comments about me trying to take advantage of him telling me I'm a "modern day woman" or feminist.
He works hard outside the home and I'm gratful to him for this...
Is there a reasonble amount that he could pitch in when I fall short..I was thinking dinner dishes sometimes, helping me out at bed time(nightmare!! with three). I would appreciate if he would clean up after himself too. I often feel like a house maid.
Maybe I'm looking for some sympothy...and maybe I'm wrong for this.
I want some honest oppinions on what I should or shoulden't be expecting and whether or not I should get over myself.

2007-07-28 05:37:28 · 32 answers · asked by char 2

at what age do you think is the right age to get married
and why?

2007-07-28 05:34:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my wife been seperated almost 9 months and she's been gone. i hear she's going to back to town to get an attorney and start divorce proceedings. deep in my heart i want her back and have the deepest apologies for her. she left not because of me cheating or running around, but just being very negative that i can't land a good career and my negativity i guess drove her away. any help would be appreciated.

Or should i throw in the towel and be done with it?

2007-07-28 05:27:24 · 12 answers · asked by olds_alero2000 1

We have been dating for two years (today is our anniversary)... :'-( and we've been having SO many issues and struggles... too many to list here. A lot of our recent problems have to do with my fiance wanting to get too involved in my child support issues and my ex. My ex is really trying to do his best and be a good dad to our six year old son and we just updated our child support. From 250/month to 625/month. Granted, my ex has been making 40,000/yr for the last two years and didn't report it, so he's been jipping us of money our son deserves for two years, but it's fixed now, and I just want to be civil with him for my son's sake. My fiance just wants to "slaughter" him for what he did. I think he (my fiance) will come around, but it's causing quite a few issues with us. I love him so much and he loves me, no doubt about it, but I suggested taking a break to clear our minds. He's kind of leaving it up to me. I'm so scared I'll lose him! Is this a bad idea? I'm so confused!!!!

2007-07-28 05:22:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 1

2007-07-28 05:08:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all my husband is 38 and I am 24. The age issue has never come up until now. We have been married for 3 1/2 years now and of course we discussed this before marriage. I made it very clear that I wanted to have a child and he agreed. Along the way however, we have suffered from fertility problems and have not been successful in getting pregnant. Now whenever we talk about it, he says that he is too old to have another child anyway (he has a 10 yr old from his 1st wife). I am lost with what to do.....do I give up my dream of becoming a mother or do I leave my husband. We have the most wonderful relationship together (minus the child issue). I don't know that I would ever find another man like him, but I don't know if I can sacrifice my future either....advice needed!

2007-07-28 04:50:33 · 11 answers · asked by Sweetteach 2

Can't do this properly in 1000 but I'll try. Split up some months ago with partner of 10 years (my fault). We have small kids, a joint business, a massive tangle of joint debts and a house that needs to be sold.

Things are vaguely amicable between us but I've been told in no uncertain terms that they won't be if she finds I have a new g/f. She's already made a proper suicide attempt and has also threatened to take the kids 300miles away to her home town.
I have a g/f and am keeping her secret because of the above, as I love my kids above everything. My g/f wants me to tell my ex about her now. If not I'm dumped.
I believe that with a bit more time my ex will calm, and she will become more accepting of a g/f announcement, and everyone will be happier. My g/f says I'm spineless and obviously care more about my ex's feelings than hers. I do love my g/f and want to be with her, but I feel that there is too much at stake to just tell my ex when she's not ready.

2007-07-28 04:46:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 04:35:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I must have asked the Q wrong. everyone thinks i was asking if im a good person. what i meant was, what kinda effect do u think it had on the guy ?? and is that a good way of rejecting him.

2007-07-28 04:13:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

well its happened again,i've fallen out with my wife over her kids,my stepkids.I'm sick of there destructive behaviour,rudeness and hatred.there father is no help,counselling hasn't worked and whatever punishment is given they return to there normal ways.i've had 7 years of this,how long would you stand it,and i've stayed this long because i love my wife,i'm beginning to think it's not worth it anymore.

2007-07-28 03:44:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

SHe tells me that it is just her. I feel bad that I can't make her happy. And I can't stand the vibe in the house anymore. I am a positive person but with ehr being miserable, it's hard for me! It is taking a toll on the kids too who are now almost always down on themselves. I am gettign down on myself. She says that it is just her and not me....but when we argue about it, she is always telling me about what I did to make her miserable. I didn't do this, I did this...etc....if it is just her, why throw it in my face like it's my fualt? I feel bad....I think I am about to divorce because of it. Help!

2007-07-28 03:29:28 · 24 answers · asked by Javi 5

I will be married 20 years the 8th of August. Last year my husband was falling for a girl he worked with. They didnt do anything cause I found out and well lets say taught both them a lession. Anyways, things to me seem weird. When I try to talk to him about bills or kids or how I feel, he makes me feel like i complain or that he just is bothered by me talking. I did leave him for 3 months but wanted to try for my kids. I love him but I don't feel in love what do I do.

2007-07-28 03:17:31 · 9 answers · asked by neytbabe37 1

Is there anything I can do to not make him angry at me for having sexual feelings towards him

2007-07-28 03:10:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes my husband and I get into these stupid fights, they get out of hand and result in name calling, put downs and angry words. My husband has the ability to bounce back fast and usually is the first to apologize, and is able to be affectionate afterwards. But I on the other hand, words cut through me really deep, I am very sensitive. Angry fights, and nasty things that were said or done pretty much destroyed my feelings for my husband, and my ability to be affectionate or deeply intimate with him. Its just not the same anymore. We are currently seeking marriage counsellling. We went to one session, but still had a bad fight afterwards. I think my extreme sensitivity comes from growing up with insensitive siblings, I just expect more from my husband. I am not close with my siblings also because of things they've done to me. I get so upset if my husband acts in any way negative towards me that I can get physical at times.

2007-07-28 02:48:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

found swinging site in his favorites,husband says someone in office added it to their favorites and it automatically got added to his. true or false?

2007-07-28 02:24:21 · 12 answers · asked by Carolyn manion 1

i pay my support and i watch them while they are not in school, have them over for sleep overs to give her a break. i really try to be a great dad but she does not want me to set when i see my kids so that its easy for my life!

i work nights and weekends so i can watch my kids during the week so i would like to make the times cuz working nights puts a drain on my life but i do it for my kids

2007-07-28 02:18:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does this refer more to women than men? Would you be happier with more than one partner/wife/husband?

2007-07-28 02:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by ? 7

or does he have to see something that turns him on or think something and then gets wet???? men let me know please

2007-07-28 02:00:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got money from house sale - inheritance i spent 25k of it doing up house, bought hubby car, 2 plasma screens, mobile home etc. Now i want to save the rest for something special idont know what but that is what i want to do. However hubby is not happy he expects me to pay for everything even though he earns double what i do and what he has left of his wages after paying mortgage etc is what i earn and i have to pay dd off mine.

Anyway it is really getting on my nerves as before i got this he always had money now he never does. i even had to fork out everything for our wedding.
I am just looking for opinions please

2007-07-28 01:29:27 · 24 answers · asked by cottontail 5

2007-07-28 01:25:28 · 20 answers · asked by burris j 1

I'm not an Indian woman so, no, I won't understand based on having a traditional cultural knowledge of this. But for you Indians out there who live abroad and not in India, why do you say parents know best and select spouses whom you've never met?? As you may have read earlier, I left a question about being pursued by an Indian guy (I'm African American), and I have recalled in our 4 1/2 months of conversation, him mentioning his parents wanting him to marry an Indian woman (not GIRL- what the fudge is up with "girl"?) and why he'd never marry me. It feels like I've step into parts of the play, The Fiddler..., you know, TRADITION!! (Yes, I know the Fiddler's not an Indian play, duh, I'm just saying) Why do your parents control such aspects of your lives, and what does a more modern Indian marriage look like, be it traditional or interracial?

2007-07-28 01:23:48 · 8 answers · asked by animechdega 1