Marriage & Divorce - 28 July 2007

I was dating an ex-con for about 6 months. We lived together for a while then the relationship went south due to different circumstances. During a fight one night he threatened me with bodily harm and told me if I got the police involved "do I think I would be safe for the rest of my life."
He has now gone back to prison on a parole violation and they want to charge him with terriorist threats.
Should I agree to this or just let it go? I am not sure what to do. I am afraid that he might hurt me, but I don't know.

2007-07-28 13:22:37 · 15 answers · asked by kitty angel 1

The end of the world to me. I feel worthless compared to girls who do have boyfriends. Is this normal?

2007-07-28 12:44:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 12:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by Buttercup 1

Together 11 years and engaged to be married in January. He feels we argue too much and wants to see "if" we can get along and be happy or we're not getting married and I guess break up. I feel that we can work anything out if we love eachother and there's no reason to put our lives on hold. I don't want to walk on egg shells for 6 months just so he'll marry me. We've been seperated for a week now and I've tried to give him space. He makes no effort to contact me and I'm the one that always breaks down calling. Each time we end up talking we argue about this and I end up crying. I've been so heartbroken and have lost 5 pounds. Should I ask him to move out? This kills me but I don't know what else to do. I love him so much but can't be sincere about "trying" to work things about when I'm just afraid he'll leave me. Should I give it a try but tell me if we're not married by January it's over or should I ask him to take him things and really move out? - and will that wake him up?

2007-07-28 12:40:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 12:04:48 · 14 answers · asked by Lilli 1

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2007-07-28 11:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

so, that would mean there are 150 million or more women in the USA?..so, that would mean there are millions of women who are in my age bracket 35-45 that are single ?

So, why can't I find just ONE WOMAN that is compatible with me? JUST ONE? I'm only asking for ONE?

2007-07-28 11:49:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a wife of a year, shes been long distance but moving down here the 17th august from her family and hometown as we agreed upon before we were married. now at this point, as close as we are to the date, shes emotionally unnavailailable, short with me, does every single thing i ask from her the oppositte. texs me now more than talking on the phone. gets overly agitated from the littlest thing. wont directly answer me. all of this started a month ago. till the we were fine and happy. seems to me that she just cant leave her family, and shes 38, and is trying to push me away and to the point of me calling it off. am i an idiot to keep on her when she wants to be left alone???

2007-07-28 11:49:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jack 6

I want your true opinion about what marriage means and Can two iindivuals live happily ever after. Without ending in divorce?

2007-07-28 11:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by suga...honey honey 5

I lost my job a few weeks ago and since then, every now and again my husband will over a day or half a day start to have a go at me, but not always just about that but I get the feeling that is what is behind it all, and even the next day he refuses to apologise for nasty comments he's made, like I am pathetic, or he is the only one making an effort to bring anything in, even though at the moment we have his two kids with us for 5 weeks and I am making sure they are looked after, fed, clothes washed, entertained etc....and i adore his kids too so there is no hostility there. But I really feel like walking away for a week to see if he could cope on his own without me........

2007-07-28 11:34:58 · 20 answers · asked by tencat 1

do all women taste the same to guys?

2007-07-28 11:34:41 · 16 answers · asked by girl 3

He said he wants our sex life to be more adventureous and he "wants me to be 'naughty.' " I need advice on how. (I am a Christian who has been married three years; I just turned 24). What suggestions do you ladies have?

2007-07-28 11:21:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother lives in Indiana and is considering a divorce. I know through my own experience that child support goes on a fee schedule with combined income. How is it figured if the mother stays home and does not work. She home schools, they have 5 children ,4 are old enough to be in school full time.

2007-07-28 11:14:52 · 10 answers · asked by Ba j 1

I live in NYS and was wondering if a petition for child support can be filed for an UNBORN child??? I have three children by my ex spouse. His fiance that he is residing with is having a child and I was told he had her put a petition in for child support for their unborn child.. to prevent me from getting 29% of his full gross income... I put a petition in too however, I was told she put hers in first..... if she has... she'll get 17% of his full gross salary and I'll get 29% of whatever is left over... would appreciate anyone's assistance with this. Can this be done???

2007-07-28 11:13:55 · 10 answers · asked by Renee P 1

he calls them during they week they always say "I will let you know" (if they are going to come over) then you never hear from them. he has been divorced for 4 years, separated for over 6 years. the oldest son has never forgiven him for divorcing his mother, now the 14 and the 17 year old are actually talking and hanging out together which this has never happened since they were little. The 14 year who used to come over regularly now tell's his sister i hope dad doesn't call me and want me to go over...... yet when there's a trip or birthdays/holidays they are definitely around. Should my husband keep calling all the time and begging them to see him? And pay for them to go on vacations with us when they don't see us any other time?

2007-07-28 10:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked a question, 'why should the government be involved in marriages anymore' in a civil society. among others, i recieved this answer: "they need to help protect the Godly image and plan of marriage...between one man and one woman and not let it be degraded."

my question now is:

if that statement about not 'degrading' marriage has to do with so-called, 'gay marriage,' isn't this a matter of individual conscience and religious affiliation that the federal government shouldn't be involved with? for example, the Metropolitan Community Church is a Christian denomination that believes in marriage between gay men or lesbians.

Certainly there is difference of opinion between this denomination and others, but if the governement does 'help' not to 'degrade' a certain view of marriage, isn't it setting itself up to become the arbiter of who is married "in the eyes of god," as the MCC certainly will argue that two men it marries are indeed married "in the eyes of god!"

2007-07-28 10:11:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

a friend of yours told you her husband seemed to be becoming distant and cranky most of the time lately. What would you tell her to do? She knows for sure her husband is not cheating so don't bother with any responses like that. Serious answers only please.

2007-07-28 10:10:42 · 9 answers · asked by ~Angel Eyed Pookie~ 4

2007-07-28 10:06:00 · 4 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

I have been married for approx. 9 years. However, about 8 months ago, I began sleeping around. My significant other had been my first and only one. we met at age 16 and married at 17. I had always been very curious about being with another person. However, I never actually "jump the hurdle" (sort of speak) up until 8 mo ago. Since then, I have been unfaithful. I have already been with 3 other persons. My partner is a good man. Makes me feel loved and gives me a lot of attention. But honestly, there has been so many prob through our marriage that I am no longer in love with him. I feel very sorry for him and im afraid what would become of him if i left him. I have always been the provider in the family and have been since weve married, that being 1 of our biggest problems. I feel sick inside and feel like a horrible person. I know this will definitely destroy my partner’s life. He loves me very much! But I cant deal with it all anymore. Please advise.

2007-07-28 09:41:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this friend we have been since 6th grade I can remember when I was in HS that she was always attractive and I always wanted to have sex with her. back in 2004 (She is Divorced now) I was out at her place as my friend has a shop there and I was painting a car she come in starteled me asked if I wanted something cold to drink she was wearing short shorts and white t shirt (she was going to mow the yard I was so tempeted and have been many times I always fantizies about her and having sex I know she is older what can I do to make this happen so she knows I want her I do know other older woman who screw younger guys MAKES THEM FEEL GOOD that a younger guy wants them any ideas ? I need help as I don't want to make her mad but like the time I was there painting the car she was bending over right in front of me and I mean right there asking me about my relationships I was just too scared to make my move

2007-07-28 09:39:04 · 12 answers · asked by hot8in4u2play 1

The general consensus is that cheating is completely wrong, yet it is still a common occurance & it seems to me that so many people do it. My dad married the other woman & they've been together happily over 20 years & I know other people wirh similar stories. I don't blame my dad because I know how miserable he was with my mom. Have you cheated? Did you regret it? Why did you do it? What ended up happening?

2007-07-28 09:31:31 · 6 answers · asked by help 2

i been married now for 5yrs and im unhappy,reasons well my husband has cheating not once but 4 times during our marriage and i took him back . even when he told these women that he dont have kids when he does.now he works overseas indepentant contractor, i been on my own for 2yrs not to mention the times when he was in the miltary, i have gotten used to being alone with my kids, im no longer attracted to him anymore not because of the job ,because of all the pain i cant get over,one female basically found out where we lived just to see the lay out of our house, do i want to go thru all this again? pretending i want this marriage to work for my kids sake. i want to find happiness and real love but scared cause he took care of me and the kids, im 41 yrs old whos gonna hired me but i dont want to stay in someone im not happy with . i just got over someone who broke my heart he moved to miaimi how do i deal with that as well .

2007-07-28 09:14:00 · 10 answers · asked by jazzlblue2000 1

that the wifes/partners get up to all sorts with other men ,any 1 know if this is true & how much would it cost 4 my ticket & where do i start. my wife has been at me to go for it .

2007-07-28 08:49:29 · 6 answers · asked by averontollcross 1

I liked this guy and we had a fight 3 months ago and haven't contacted each since then. I missed him and send an email say hi. He emailed me back saying that I never apologized for anything and he put much more efforts in the relationshiop than me; he want to me not only say love him but show it. he'd be very happy to see me again if I promise to change. I explanied as because he cannot hold a stable job in the past and I dated him right after a painful break-up and I needed time to recovery. So I didn't allow us to develop that deep and once we both emotionally and financialy stable to commit for the next level, I will change and I care about him and we will have a future. And out of my suprise this email just blow him right away, he mailed back simply as " we aren't right for each other. Good bye. you've already hurt me so much." I do like him a lot and wish talk to him again, did I say anything wrong this eamil hurt him?

2007-07-28 08:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by you_new_friend 2

2007-07-28 08:42:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

is no longer true. even though the papers are signed and notorized, the situations are totally different. can i still contest in court, because the signed docs. aren't accurate?

2007-07-28 08:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by Alexandra 3

I got married a few months ago and I haven't changed my last name. I'm not sure if I'm going to change it. In the mean time, what title do I use? I'm not sure if I should use Miss. I don't know if I should use Mrs., people would assume that's my husband's last name. I hate Ms., I'm not divorced. Any ideas?

2007-07-28 08:39:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is my 1st time datting a "dad" and want to know the good,bad and ugly.Here are the details.Hes been divorced 5 yrs with joint custody of 2 young(7 and 8) children.His children live with him 50% of the time and 50% with their mom.He loves his kids to death and would do anything for them.His exwife is very involved,jeasous,possisive of her kids and has made it clear there is no room in their(the kids) lives for anouther "female figure".If i make this work can anyone tell me what i'm in for? Please no scorned single moms with deadbeat dads who want to vent about thier ex's gf's/wife.I just want honest advice.

2007-07-28 08:31:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am preggo with my 4th child by my husband and we were just talking and he is freaked out about the whole 3rd trimester thing and sex which is understandable blah blah blah........but then he is like well me and you at this point are like brother and sister...........i was sitting there like what did he just say??? that has to be not good....so i said what do you mean he is like oh i am only kidding............i don't think so though and if that is the case then....you know what happens next...eithter divorce or someone is cheating.....what does everyone think of this?

2007-07-28 08:24:50 · 26 answers · asked by blondiebella 3

Does anyone actually know what can be done when someone makes false alligations against someone with child protective services? If it is unfounded upon inspection. What laws protect people from vengful acts aginst another?
I would go into detail, but do not have time for all the answers where answers post mind your own business. Thanks.

2007-07-28 08:22:18 · 5 answers · asked by treasuredwife69 5