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I liked this guy and we had a fight 3 months ago and haven't contacted each since then. I missed him and send an email say hi. He emailed me back saying that I never apologized for anything and he put much more efforts in the relationshiop than me; he want to me not only say love him but show it. he'd be very happy to see me again if I promise to change. I explanied as because he cannot hold a stable job in the past and I dated him right after a painful break-up and I needed time to recovery. So I didn't allow us to develop that deep and once we both emotionally and financialy stable to commit for the next level, I will change and I care about him and we will have a future. And out of my suprise this email just blow him right away, he mailed back simply as " we aren't right for each other. Good bye. you've already hurt me so much." I do like him a lot and wish talk to him again, did I say anything wrong this eamil hurt him?

2007-07-28 08:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by you_new_friend 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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After 3 months it's time to move on. Sounds like he is trying to move on but you won't let him. There's an old saying you may have heard before. If they don't come back you never had them but if they do come back they were yours all along and forever. So, let him move on......now, the present, is not the time for you two to be together.

2007-07-28 08:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, you told him the truth. If he doesn't like you for who you are anyway, if he wants you to pretend you are someone else, you don't need him anyway. You will never be able to please him, because he will always ask you to be some one else. Find a guy who likes all of you. Just the way you are.

2007-07-28 16:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0 0

Not knowing all the details, he's made himself perfectly clear.
You may be wise to accept his good bye, and leave it at that.

2007-07-28 15:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0 0

It's over. Move on with your life without him..

2007-07-30 11:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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