I have this friend we have been since 6th grade I can remember when I was in HS that she was always attractive and I always wanted to have sex with her. back in 2004 (She is Divorced now) I was out at her place as my friend has a shop there and I was painting a car she come in starteled me asked if I wanted something cold to drink she was wearing short shorts and white t shirt (she was going to mow the yard I was so tempeted and have been many times I always fantizies about her and having sex I know she is older what can I do to make this happen so she knows I want her I do know other older woman who screw younger guys MAKES THEM FEEL GOOD that a younger guy wants them any ideas ? I need help as I don't want to make her mad but like the time I was there painting the car she was bending over right in front of me and I mean right there asking me about my relationships I was just too scared to make my move
2007-07-28 09:39:04 · 12 answers · asked by hot8in4u2play 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sure she would be very flattered and it seems like she already sortof "knows" that you like her. I would say that as long as you aren't doing it just for sex.. and you are wanting a relationship with her, it should be fine.
I think that if you approach her gradually, maybe lean in a little more when you talk to her...flirt a little, she will start to get the hint. Maybe laughingly tell her about how you used to have such a crush on her, and tell her that you can't believe that she isn't with someone right now, because she still has it. LOL, I am blushing. I am 36 and happily married and thinking of what I would want to hear in that situation..so sorry, lol. Anyhow, go for it. Once you start flirting a little more, it will get easier.
2007-07-28 10:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're nearly 40 years old; time is not on your side in terms of favoring timidity. If you want to know for sure what can happen, you'll have to risk advancing a point of view in this matter, otherwise you'll be sitting here twenty years from now wondering the same old stuff...only you'll be 59 and she'll be 79. If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten. What do you intend to do?
2007-07-28 09:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
59 huh? I have known many hot older women. Its actually easier to woo them, because they know what they want and arent into any games. A straight forward approach would be best. Ask her out to dinner, if you can get her alone it will give you a chance to see how interested she is.
So stop being a sissy, your 39 for god sakes.
And dont forget to bring a broom so you can sweep the cobwebs off her crotch.
Best of luck sparky
2007-07-28 10:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by trestan92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act on your fantasy and your best friend finds out, that will most likely ruin your friendship. Do you just want to have sex with her or a long term relationship? If its just for sex then you will regret it, but if you want a relationship then you might be able to pull it off if you proceed carefully. It will come as a shock to your best friend either way.
2007-07-28 09:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by kana121569 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you are over just grab her and kiss her. If she responds then do her. If she acts startled just say you couldn't help it you have had a crush on her since a kid and you really lost control because of how great she looked. then do her when she warms up. good luck.
2007-07-28 09:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, you better not mention sex. You have to be the gentleman, ask her out and take her to a nice place..
SHE will take care of the sex part, don't worry ;)
2007-07-28 10:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by zanthus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screwing your buddy's Mom seems dumb thing to do unless you don't mind losing your friend. What if you make your move and she turns you down and then tells her son (your friend)?
Do what you want.....
2007-07-28 10:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this case, try thinking of age like you would race. It doesn't seem like it's that big of a deal, as she clearly wants you. So just forget about her age, and think about who she is.
2007-07-28 09:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no business having sex with an older divorced woman. Sex is for married people only. If her husband did not commit adultery and that isn't the reason for their divorce, than you will be committing adultery with her if you do this. Not just fornication. Sin has dire consequences.
You may need counseling, you have a mother fetish
2007-07-28 09:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
.She may be interested too, when you see her ,tell her you always thought she was pretty and if she would consider going out with you. Stay respectful and polite .
2007-07-28 09:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by livingthedream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋