2007-07-28 12:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by Buttercup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweet Pea what I have found out about men they can't be changed. When you realize this simple fact you can work out any problems in your relationship. What you need is communication. When a woman is open to her man and let him know what is in her heart things starts to get different. Be honest, open your heart and be a great listener as well!
2007-07-28 12:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does NOT hurt. Being in a relationship that is not right for you hurts. If the relationship is right, you will feel at peace. Feeling hurt is a sign. Scary as it may seem, this is not the man for you. You deserve to be happy. The sooner you move on, the better.
2007-07-28 13:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Violet Pearl...Sounds like you are either too young or in a toxic relationship.
Love is good and kind...and when you are happy to see the other person, and you can talk and laugh together then it's OK.
I guess you should examine your relationship and see if you are putting in more than you are getting out of it- and if this is the case, then I'd say consider bailing out.
People seldom change, and one of the true things in life is that we can change NO ONE- except ourselves.
2007-07-28 13:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men sometimes are hard to understand, but if the person makes it too hard to be gotten to know or figured out, it might be time to move on, you know? That way you aren't constantly "spinning" your wheels to figure the person out, when you can be out meeting new people and keeping your options open. Love is hard, I'm sorry to say, if he doesn't want anyone to get to know him, that's his own thing =( Good luck!
2007-07-28 13:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at times Love can hurt really bad. I have been there and done that. I don't like being the one who gets hurt. I don't set out to hurt anyone.
Have a good night.
2007-07-28 12:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts when the person you care about is NOT measuring up to your expectations.
2007-07-28 12:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy really worth it? Why bother to be with a man who is difficult to understand? I wouldn't give myself the heartache.
2007-07-28 12:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is suppose to make you happy, however at times it can rip your heart out. Have you tried talking to him? If you have and it isn't working, move on. Your soul mate is out there.
2007-07-28 12:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time and love, you can learn to understand anyone.
2007-07-28 12:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sassie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love makes you feel good, it makes you content, peaceful, joyful. You're not in love.
2007-07-28 12:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋