The end of the world to me. I feel worthless compared to girls who do have boyfriends. Is this normal?
2007-07-28 12:44:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You spent years without a boyfriend, and you did just fine. Don't stress about it. It is normal to want to be like your peers. But you are not the only person without a boyfriend. Relax. Take the time to learn about yourself and what you like/dont like. Will help out in the long run.
Good luck.
2007-07-28 12:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tony A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just recently broke up, this will eventually change. Right now is as bad as that feeling will get. Its all up hill from here on out. In a while you will feel free and you will notice certain things that you can do now, that you couldn't do before. Don't "get a boyfriend" just to try to make that feeling go away. That's called being desperate. I'm sure that you are a great person, and you do not NEED a boyfriend, whether you believe it or not.
2007-07-28 19:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Amie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honestly it's because you're young (I don't know your age), and it might also be an insecurity issue. I remember being young and worrying so much about not having a boyfriend, and the longer I stayed on my own, the more I learned who I was and what it was I wanted from a boyfriend and why. I'm in my mid 30s and in a wonderful relationship, but even if I wasn't, I would be just fine by myself. One can only understand that if they know who they are and what it is they're looking for, you know?
2007-07-28 19:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they have something you want. Focus on yourself for now. Don't settle for any old guy that comes along just to have a bf. Be picky.
Date around some before you pick a guy. But don't sleep around.
2007-07-28 19:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by philosophy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋