The general consensus is that cheating is completely wrong, yet it is still a common occurance & it seems to me that so many people do it. My dad married the other woman & they've been together happily over 20 years & I know other people wirh similar stories. I don't blame my dad because I know how miserable he was with my mom. Have you cheated? Did you regret it? Why did you do it? What ended up happening?
2007-07-28 09:31:31 · 6 answers · asked by help 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People who cheat in they marriage are not happy in they realtionships. I have cheated on my husband before because he was totally ignoring me and I need attention. Cheating is wrong however, it helps you to stay sane. It also gets you more frustrated in the marriage because now that you have creeped and went elsewhere, you want to really get out of that marriage. People would tell me, why cheat, get a divorce. It is always easier said then done. There times when you do not plan on cheating it just happens.
2007-07-28 09:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is lying, betraying and hurtful. How can something with so many negative feelings, be considered "positive" not logic.
You would not be questioning your integrity about being honest, faithful and loyal, had your dad taught you the right values.
I'm glad your father's extramarital affair ended up a happy one, but how did your mom cope with it???
Your father had the choice to be completely honest w/your mom and end the marriage before the cheating took place. But, like most selfish cheaters, they rather have both, a wife, and a girlfriend on the side.
There are still people who value respect, trust, honesty, and being loyal, we owe it to ourselves, our children and our spouse.
2007-07-28 09:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Emerald 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you marry, you take vows, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health until DEATH do us part. Most people that cheat weren't really paying attention to what they were vowing or really didn't mean it when they said them.
Adultery is caused by the sin of lust, not turning away from it. People should court each other a long, long time to try and find out who they really are. When you first meet some one you are only meeting their Representative. Before you take your wedding vows you should consider whether you really want to stay with this person, no matter what for the REST of your natural life.
2007-07-28 09:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i started a serious relationship when i was 14 and im 21 still in the same relationship.I have never cheated and im young i have no desire.If the thought ever crossed my mind i would leave my b/f instead of cheating.thats what i dont get,why dont people go and break up with someone instead of cheating?not that hard is it.also im not married and have no kids
2007-07-28 09:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by ~~~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated before..the thought once crossed my mind but NO..Some people are just plain crazy..
2007-07-28 09:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated.If your marriage is so bad it comes to that
you need to talk about it maybe seperate,divorce.
2007-07-28 11:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋