Marriage & Divorce - 28 July 2007

2007-07-28 17:56:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't say "move out"....that's not an option at this point due to many complicated reasons. I'm sleeping in the living room but I have dreams and wake up crying.

2007-07-28 17:50:33 · 11 answers · asked by Dellajoy 6

i know all men do it but i feel as if im not good enough for my husband when he does this. am i just weird?

2007-07-28 17:35:52 · 19 answers · asked by roxie k 1

A lot has happened but it seems that life keeps bringing my old high school sweetheart and I back to the opportunity for a relationship. We both were married and divorced and then got together again in '02. We both went different ways, both have had a relationship and had a child with someone but we are still the best of friends. Everything is so easy and comfortable with him. I just don't know what to think. He told me tonite that "the truth comes out, I miss you, you complete me". I am in a relationship that has problems to say the least, we never communicate and then things go bad from there. My old flame and I have excellent communication and always have. I just wondered if anyone has thoughts on the idea of people being meant to be together or if you think it is a load of crap.

2007-07-28 17:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by viper pilot 2

I have been married for almost 4yrs with my beautiful wife. I'll do anything for her, i have proven this to everyone in our lives.She asks i respond, (not like a servant). Its just that when ever I ask of her she acts like she is very put out by the things i say. I have even found her ignoring me. This has been going on now for a little over a year. It is getting out of hand. This is now to the point that we can not even communicate. I have been always an open door to her when ever she has something to say, I do find (some) of the things she says facinating. She also has gotten very(very) lethargic in this year or so as well. She litterally lays in bed all day. She is not depressed just i think...lazy (I hate to say it). What should i do, I can not live like this any more. And yes we have been fighting about communicating. Please Help...

2007-07-28 17:33:12 · 10 answers · asked by Thom 1

My husband says he wants to make our marriage work and I want that too. I have never felt so unsure about myself before. We didn't communicate about alot of stuff and I feel that led to the affair. I've been asking him about details and he has lied to me (he says he lies so not to hurt me). I just feel like I need to know everything, so that way I can just get over it (or decide not to). I just don't want to find out about something later and open up the hurt all over again. Should I just let it go and judge my husband by how he is with me know or do I need to know everything, so that I can keep it from happening again?

2007-07-28 17:20:41 · 22 answers · asked by Nicole 3

Ok, my wife said she was going to work this morning and instead of going she went with some guy for 8 hours where she says that she talked to him about bankruptcy and other things about finances and stuff...I called up at her work today and they told me that she wasn't scheduled to work and that they hadn't seen her all day...when she got home I asked her how work was and she said that it was ok...then I asked her what area of the factory she was working in and she said a different one that normal...I then told her that I had called up there and everyone said that she wasn't there....She admitted that she was with this guy all day and that nothing went on other than them talking about financial stuff...she said nothing more than that went on. Is this constituted as cheating? She has cheated on me once before...what should I do? We do have a 6 mos. old son....

2007-07-28 17:17:04 · 22 answers · asked by Jeremy J 4

2007-07-28 17:02:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 17:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 16:58:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 16:57:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am stuck here with our child 24/7 and he gets to go out and do whatever he wants with his coworkers. There's been 2 guys calling here, and one has been coming by (came with his wife and baby too), my husband got super sloppy drunk and the guy had to drop my husband off here. Now my husband is out again, supposedly at a bow tournament at freaking 9PM at night? WTF?! WTH?! He has been trying to get it on with me, and we did it this week and we were talking about him and me getting together tonight, but I'm so PPPPPOOOOODDDD
I just want to run around town too! I wish I had somewhere to go and be at freaking midnight instead of waiting with my child for him. And get this: When I went to a grocery store I was almost mowed down in the parking lot, and had I been hurt, there is no phone number for me to call! I've been after him for a long time to get a cell phone and he won't because it costs money but he's willing to buy alcohol, cigarrettes, and pay for the gas of driving.

2007-07-28 16:54:44 · 16 answers · asked by newwona 1

I feel like if i have no feelings for my husband and children but I am always there for them and also I hug them and give them kisses through out the day.

2007-07-28 16:42:31 · 4 answers · asked by nellyaaluis 1

Really. Why do we as woman enjoy being mistreated. Why do we think we can "save" a bad boy from his wild ways. Are we not just setting ourselves up for heartache by falling for these types of men?!?

2007-07-28 16:18:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married 27 years to a great woman. She is loyal, faithful takes great care of me, children and has a full time business of her own.

I have an obsession with cheating. I feel sorry for ugly woman. I do not know why I get pulled into their life. They are so good at pleasing me it is hard to stop.
She found out and told me to move out. It is NOT forgiveable. She is slowly selling all my things. I have some very expensive tools, clothes, jewelry etc...
I did not realize I had actually not made love to my wife since March. I been so wrapped up in me I forgot to please her.
When she was ranting and yelling I realized she was right. I forgot to pencil her in. DAMN!!!

SO anyways...she told me to be free now to go play with whores and maybe since I was sp freely using FAMILY $$ then I could just go live with the whore/s.

Well....I am not sorry for cheating. I am sorry I hurt her. I have no $ and no home to go to.
It isn't fun anymore. I want to go home.
How can I please her?

2007-07-28 15:58:03 · 21 answers · asked by i_cheat_onmy_wife 1

Ok here is the situation I am Male divorced for over 2 years. My ex wife is constantly asking to go to court demanding more child support. Now don't get me wrong as I strongly feel the need to provide for my child within reason . The fact is that it's starting to get ridiculous. My ex wife just got remarried has two incomes and right now receives 1000.00 monthly from me for our daughter. I have just recently filed for bankruptcy have made every payment for child support and am recently having issueds with this amount for one child. I work on a commission basis and feel that the amount required is excessive. If I do not make a bonus I barely have enough money to make normal bills car rent food is it right to continue to ask more when am barely surviving? I have never claimed to be a saint but isn't it to provide for child but still be able to live right? Let me know what you think and ideas would be greatly appreciated

2007-07-28 15:49:12 · 27 answers · asked by irishmanjim 1

so, my husband and i have always had a rocky relationship. we've had really bad times, and good ones. its been 5 yrs and we have 2 kids. we are at a point where we just "get along" when the kids are around b/c i told him about a month ago that i love him just have very different feelings for him, i'm not "in love". we've been trying to work on things but i just don't feel like he cares enough about me. he told me he doesn't think he's the right guy for me if i want him to be so "gushy" and he's not going to change. i just felt like a husband is supposed to show more care and affection toward his wife if he still loves her. i think his lack of doing these things is what made me fall out of love.i'm going home for my birthday and he was pretty angry that i wanted to go home and see my family. i didn't intend on it being a marriage seperation but he has been looking for new apartments and i really think he's going to treat this as a step toward divorce. any advice?

2007-07-28 15:45:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do!

2007-07-28 15:40:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

That you marry someone of the same faith/religion as you? If so why? how would your parents react?

2007-07-28 15:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by eladshefer 3

when i called the place the woman who coordinates it said they provide all of the protection against the jock. im not really sure what she is talking about. so im going to go and just wear whatever she gives me. after all they are just women, what harm can they do

2007-07-28 15:25:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know, silly Q.. but, I'm doing my nails for a date tomorrow afternoon.. and I'm sitting here staring at the line up of nail polish - do I wear the pink or the red.. ? What does the color say about me? LMAO.. then, I thought - do they even care? Do you even notice?

P.S. Asking in divorce, because recently divorced and not sure about the "dating" scene with mature people.. (ie not teens)

2007-07-28 15:15:59 · 20 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

2007-07-28 15:11:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is deployed and our anniversary is coming up soon. We can't be together so I need some ideas on how to make it special even though we are apart. I want to buy him something to send to him, but i have no clue what to get him. He already has a computer, dvd player, ipod, and does not want a tv. I want to get him something unique that will blow his mind and that he will always remember and treasure. Something that he can brag about LOL!! Help me please!!!! I want it to be special not depressing since we are apart. We are both excited about it, but depressed at the same time. I need some creative ideas please!!!!!!!!

2007-07-28 14:59:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He doesn't even know Im alive. He come's home every night and eats then goes to bed without saying a word. He doesn't drink at all, he loves to got to the races and bowl and I use to go with him, but it got old and if I would ask him to do something I liked to do he wouldn't. I do love him and we have 2 childern togher, but im Very unhappy! Please help me.

2007-07-28 14:44:09 · 23 answers · asked by Teri R 1

what would you do if you got into a fight with ur boyfriend and he gave you a really bad titty twister? would you do anything to him?

2007-07-28 14:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 14:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by s j 1

2007-07-28 14:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Jen S 1

happy?

2007-07-28 13:52:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been married to my wife for 3 years now. we have 4 children together also. it seems that we are just the co-parents of these children. everything revolves around the children that we are just coming across as an old grumpy boring couple. we each sit at seperate ends of the sofa and reminice about the days when each of us had a life. we are like strangers put together and we both seem to dislike being together even though neither will say it. we are just bored together. i have been chatting to women online to ease some boredom while my wife is at work. this is exciting to me. do all relationships frizzle like this one and are we doomed to be miserable for as long as we continue going?

2007-07-28 13:49:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

What have I done?
Why wont he go?Is he desparate?
I DONT KNOW WHAT ON EARTH IS GOING ON!!HELP ME! ADVICE PLEASE!My intuition is telling me to stay away from him
I met a man online in June.He and I started dating on June 20th. We have been seeing each other almost everyday/weekend since.The relationship started to become very uncomfortable.He would make rude comments about me,my home,my up bringing.I told him that I didnt want to be in a relationship anymore.He said"Why,I like you.We can work this out.Lets talk about this.I want you to be my girlfriend." I felt bad for hurting his feelings so we stayed together.I went through a divorce from an abusive man last year and I told this guy about it. When we went skydiving two weeks ago he made fun of the abuse!! He said"All Brian had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him." When we got back home I told him to never call me again.No Emails.Nothing. He called and Emailed and said "Oh,I'm sorry.I only want you to be my girlfriend.I'm so alone!Why wont you be with me?No one wants to be with me!" We got back together.How do I make him go away?Should I just ignore him from now on.I dont know?

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He also keeps insisting that I move to the city that he lives in.I keep asking myself why is he so pesistant about it. I told him that I dont like him anymore.What is wrong with him?

2007-07-28 13:42:34 · 15 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3