2007-07-28 15:11:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is only okay if the bf is better looking, sexier, and superior to your husband. And sex with the bf should be limited to a few days a month at or near ovulating. That is the way it has been for eons. The purpose is to find a good provider husband and shop for better gene for your children and deceive the husband into believing he is the father.
2007-07-28 17:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it the husband is your own husband and not somebody else's?
To the Devil with all the hypocrites and self-righteous moralisers. There's nothing at all wrong with tempering your marriage with a little adultery. You can have a lot of fun that way, although you have to realise that sooner or later you will be found out. Your husband will notice something, or someone will tell him. Or, worse, you'll be in bed with your boyfriend when your husband knocks on the door:
Door opens.
Boyfriend: It's your husband!
Husband: What on earth are you doing?
You: See? I told you he was stupid.
If you can manage it, it would be better to be openly unfaithful. Many men are, believe it or not, very happy to share their wives with another man. As long as he knows where you are and when you are coming back, he'll be comfortable. I've had my boyfriend in the bedroom while my husband was in the spare room.
Make it clear to your husband whether he is allowed to have a girlfriend or not. Also make it clear whether you might bring your boyfriend back for a threesome one night!
2007-07-28 15:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you don't know the answer to your own question , then you have some growing up to do..!! When a person gets married , it's for love ,honesty, loyalty to that one person.. They are your universe.. A boy friend just wants to tap that *** and knows he can always get it for free and never have to have any responsibility , just watching over his shoulders in case a hubby is watching.. The one you marry , should be the person that takes your breath away , makes your heart skip a beat or you should never say I do , not if you want to have your cake and eat it too.. Fool around , stay single , don't hurt a man , because it's women that are like that , that make us men treat other women like crap...
2007-07-28 16:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Raven 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Things come out sooner or later they always do. When someone more than just yourself knows your secret it is never safe. Besides it will change you emotionally in more ways than one. Eventually the spouse may get a gut feeling and follow your whereabouts and discover it for himself. You just cannot have your cake and eat it to because in the end karma catches up to everybody. Take care and good luck.
2007-07-28 15:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing is that your husband should be your bf. I think that u r just playing with fire and expect to get burned. Well Good Luck!!
2007-07-28 15:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by hippie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So, what if you die before your husband, and he finds out then? What if you have kids, and they find out? What if you start hating yourself for living a lie?
:Lots of things are wrong with lying to your husband, or else you would just tell him.
And don't bet for a minute he won't find out.
2007-07-28 15:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by nanlwart 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no wrong if you do not indulge in intercourse. If you do that very next day with your boy friend, then you will have to face some STD (Sexual disease). If you keep a gap of 4 days at least between both, then you will not face any STD problem.
2007-07-28 15:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by mak 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your being selfish. If you want someone else then date don't get married. And believe me no matter what you may believe it going to be either they don't give a rat's a** about you and know that your trying to play them or when they do find out it's going to be h*** to pay.
Lord forbid you have kids and they find out you then you will never have their respect again and you'll damage them for future relationships.
One word: KARMA!
2007-07-28 15:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by leahcane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not love your husband. Love can not happen with out respect. If you want to betray your husbands love and devotion you have no respect.
I would bet anything that if you found out that your husband was cheating on you then you the claim that he thought that you did would not cut it.
I suggest that you tell your husband that it is o.k. to cheat on you as long as you don't know.
2007-07-28 15:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by eric l 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whats wrong with just having a husband? If you can answer that, just do hubby a favor and file for divorce
2007-07-28 15:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋