2007-07-28 14:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by s j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's not up to outside parties to repair the marriage of someone else.
it's up to the couple to do that.
have they asked your advice? do they want to get back together and work things out?
if so, they will seek out resources to do so. there are plenty of marriage counselors out there, and other resources to help married couples get back on track.
2007-07-28 14:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In such cases, we should tell them the best possible ways to keep up their relations, although it is very bitter task as they will not listen to you or us any more, because each of these have their own ego, they totally forget that it is an almighty decision to had their relationship as marriage, its not their individual decision. But, alas, they should listen to all these, if these couples have children, what will happen to them, they do not bother, they have their main aim of their enjoyment only and not the interest of their children. they forget that it is the will of god that, with their genes, they have given birth to son or daughter, they forget that, with this act, they have deprived off motherly and fatherly affection to their children with no cause of their children. Why in some cases husband looking for any other girl or why mother is keen to look for another guy when they are wife or husband. However it is with them to give their children a fruit of parenthood. Such couples are incomplete Life holder ( I mean DEAD SOULS ON EARTH) and God is also against such peoples. Further its a great curse of God if father or Mother deprived their children without parenthood for their selfish remarriage desire.
It is worthy for all of us to make ways for them to stop such decisions, and make every hope fruitful to save their marriage life.
As a stranger I can only say that these ugly couple may be shown all answers of the Yahoo net, so that they know what the world is thinking about them.
Lastly I will say to these unfortunate couple to start looking good things in each other rather than repeating bad things/issues again and again. Life is very small and once gone it will never come back, whatever knowldge they get will be wasted wiythout any cause.
I can only pray for this couple give strength to them so that their marriage life is saved.
2007-07-29 10:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have loved to answer better if the question was tdetailed.
The best way for people to work their relationship out in such cases is not making issue or fuss about anything and leaving with a good note.
2007-07-29 03:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by TheFinalMiracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them sort it out all u have to do is tell them that they used to be happy to gether (if they ever was) and should stay together and work thinks out the rest is im sorry to say up to them and if they got divorced u just got to live with it cuz how could u live with someone u dont love or care for the least bit!
LET THEM SORT OUT THE REST!!
2007-07-28 23:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Indian-Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple..don't recollect their memories of past one...
2007-07-31 12:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ramkumar G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
councelling
2007-07-29 10:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by bhups 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't, it's between them, no one else.
2007-07-28 21:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋