Marriage & Divorce - 23 July 2007

i don't know how to live like this. never thought i am going to go thru this **** in my marriage. after some things that i caught him lying about i wonder what else is he lying to me. its eating at me everyday. i am pregnant. i try to relaz but my mind changes every second. he swore he won't do whatever he did to me before. like treat me like **** or make me cry but how do i know that he won;t change after couple of months. u know how after i stop bugging him he will start treating me the same way he used to. what can i do. what shuld i do. been married 2 years i look at him and think this man looked so genuine and honest. and now he is a lil boy who lies. and denies. he will never admit to any wrong doing in future.i need good long advice to calm me down

2007-07-23 11:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by baby doll 1

If you met a woman who is world traveled, funny, kind, sexy, normally intelligent but not ''highly'', not needy, deep, soulful, pretty, playful, different, unexpectedly coming up with something, and interesting to talk to about all kinds of things, including sports, would you fall in love?

2007-07-23 11:03:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am deeply in love with my boyfriend, but it doesn't mean I want to spend 24/7time with him, I want space too. Why do people think that if someone needs space it automatically means that they want to see other people?

2007-07-23 10:56:15 · 16 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

2007-07-23 10:45:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love him! and im not using him for his money..

2007-07-23 10:39:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says that he has heard that women with dark hair on their heads, also have it "other places". He has asked if I would "prove it" by letting him see my wife naked.

I have shared his request with my wife and she has said she would do it if I wanted her to. She has even suggested we invite him to our home for a "private showing".

My question is, "Men, would you intentionally show your wife naked to another man, even a good friend, if he asked, and she agreed to do it?"

2007-07-23 10:26:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-23 10:17:09 · 21 answers · asked by Stephen S 1

How you would you react if you met someone and have had a great time with after a few dates told you they had herpes. They said they got it from a former girlfriend. He is taking Valtrex and sex wouldnt be an issue for now because we have both agreed to not have sex until we are married. We both have had sex in the past but have decided to change our ways. Knowing all of this hoe would you react???

2007-07-23 10:14:54 · 16 answers · asked by Holly M 1

Everyone says feed him sweets in this insance, and it does make him smile, but it makes his waistline do something else completely different. I want to do something sweet for him- any ideas?

2007-07-23 10:13:38 · 14 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2

I have been married to my husband for 8 years now & I'm completely miserable. We have a 7 year old daughter together & I feel like she's the glue in our relationship. We co-parent better than anyone I know & we are very consistant with that. He's very selfish, sexually, & has crossed boundaries a couple of times when I had a little too much to drink. We've been to counseling & that didn't seem to work. We've grown apart &, lately, I've thrown myself into my work. We fight about that all the time (never in front of our daughter). He doesn't care about how he looks anymore & we never go out anymore. He says he loves me & he want to be with me but I don't have the same feelings. I care very deeply about him, he's the father of my child. But as far as having those warm, fuzzy feelings, I don't. We were at a family dinner Sat night & he made a joke at my expense (it humilliated me) after he knew I had a horrible day. I feel so lost everyday & it's affecting me everyday. What should I do?

2007-07-23 10:05:32 · 48 answers · asked by Niksmom 2

I have been married for 2 years and my husband and I love each other very much. I have a job that requires I am social a few days of the week. This used to not bother him but recently he has become upset that I go out without him a few times a week. He has also become suspicious that I am doing something bad (ie. cheating on him). I am not cheating on him and I am making new friends and like having more to my life than just work and home. I love being with my husband too so I am confused why he is starting to be upset with me and sneak around looking into my phone at my txt msgs..I have nothing to hide. What do you think I should do? I ask what is wrong and he wont talk to me.

2007-07-23 10:03:30 · 15 answers · asked by crmnyc 1

I just need to consult with someone and make sure I am filling them out correctly. My county worker can't help me and I need to do this quickly, within the next week or so. I am simply trying to modify an existing court order for child support. Thanks

2007-07-23 10:02:49 · 2 answers · asked by Becanie 1

I have found condoms in my husbands bag on two different occasions. Once when I was pregnant and he went away on a trip, he came back and I was putting his bag away and I found it in a small pocket inside. He said he honestly did not know where it came from and his bag had been sitting out at work alot. He is in the military and he does work with alot of very young jerks who are against marriage and such..so I believed it. I was pregnant during this time too so it was almost an obvious thing for me and I asked. The second time around I found a handful of them in his bag and I was also pregnant. He said since we were not having sex, he was using them to "pleasure himself" so there would be no mess?? I almost had to believe it because of the fact he was never gone..he was always with me (due to having sugery and being off work) except for when we were asleep and I knew he was on the computer...hence the times he was using the condoms....He didn't tell me cause I'd freak. Is this nieve?

2007-07-23 09:58:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found back one of my friend when i was living oversea ...we never had anything betwen us.now i am married .... and he comes for work or to see his daugher in the city where i am living. and we would like to see each other after 5 years .i would like to tell my husband if he would like to meet him with me but knowing how my huby is ,so jalouse .he will say no or maybe he will say yes but gonna have an attitude the whole time we all be 2gether. so my friend is coming to bring back his daugther pretty soon and ..i think for that week my husband will be out of town i not sure.so i was wondering should i meet my friend without telling my husband? but then i would like to feel free to tell my husband ,cuz the guy is just a friend nothing else and he knows i love my huby and my kids. now i dont know what i should do. do you think if i dont tell my husband its like i am cheating on him.... i am not the type that likes to do things secretly. if there is nothing wrong why not tell.

2007-07-23 09:47:57 · 24 answers · asked by carmel d 2

My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot lately. He seems to think that because we are dating that I should just shell out money whenever he asks. Here is the most recent argument tell me if I am wrong: He asked to borrow my car.
"I ask what's wrong with your car?".
"I dont have gas."
"Why dont you put gas in your car?"
"I dont have money"
"No, you have money to buy ciggarettes use it to buy gas. or go ask your mom for gas money."
"I dont want to ask her. I am asking you. Do even you care if i run out of gas?"
"You obviously dont so why should I?"
"You are selfish and stingy. You have a job it wount hurt you to let me use your car or to give me gas money."
I work fulltime and i go to school fulltime. He is out of school but unemployed. He always has money or time to do what he wants to do but expects me to pay for stuff when he mismanages money. I am tired of it. I feel like I am being taken for granted and being taken advantage of. What do you think??

2007-07-23 09:46:54 · 26 answers · asked by kystik83 3

Like they are different and more odd and detached than before, even from friends and their kids

2007-07-23 09:40:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he just treats me like im nothing and just complains and hollars, im so sick of it, we have no kids and he tells me ill never make it on my own even though i will , i only have a year of school left, we are 23 and he is 25, only he acts like my father more than my husband, he is controlling, but i wish i klnew how to make it work, please any advice?

2007-07-23 09:32:26 · 17 answers · asked by Mamma in the making 1

2007-07-23 09:24:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

im hurting like hell.i just broke up with my 2yr live in partner that i loved withall my heart.id known him 10yrs.soul mate stuff.its ended very badly and wont be fixed.i accept that but how do i get over it?any tips big or small,greatly appreciated. love eh?

2007-07-23 09:19:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why or why not?

2007-07-23 09:16:55 · 21 answers · asked by amanda b 2

ever since i got pregnant and my man would touch my breast i hated it b/c he was too rough and they where so sensiive so now after 8 months evr since my baby was born i hate when he even gets close to them i mean he'll touch them slowly and i would still hate him touching them (i wsant like that before my baby) (i dont breast feed) i just hate the fact that he touches them wether its soft or rough,why????
i also have no sex drive (im very atracted to him he is so cute) and im tired of it. i never intitial sex or love makeing he's always the one that does that and i want to be able to be the 1 that makes the move. what can i do so i can make the move when i have NO SEX DRIVE at all. (sex is nothing to me anymore) (we used to do it more than 2 times a day for over 3 years than when i got pregnant and had my baby its like i see no point of it) please tell me what can i do to get my sex drive going

2007-07-23 09:10:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

1) Favorite physical feature?
2) Favorite character trait?
3) Favorite thing they do for you?
4) Favorite thing to do together?

2007-07-23 09:09:15 · 18 answers · asked by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3

the last 11 years with my ex-wife, and now going on 4 years single. I'm 53 and was married to that beach for 24 years. I really don't want to go through the dating crap, don't want to get remarried, don't want to be another step-dad. I don't go to bars anymore, can't handle booze. Is there anybody else in my situation ? don't want to pay for it. i'm not a bad looking guy..should i just give up ??.i've gone so long without it, it cracks me up when i read people can't go a week without it..lifes a beach, then you marry one..i'm not alone out there am I ??

2007-07-23 09:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by AINSLEY 1

Every day my terrible wife makes soup. Everyday I say more salt in soup, more salt. But always needs more salt. Always. What is she can not listen to my way. More salt!

2007-07-23 08:58:24 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just asked a question about life insurance and being separated.Maybe I wasn't clear ok here is the deal this by no means any scams or inappropriate motives!!!! My mother who doesn't have much of an education at all was married to this creep of a pedifile,my stepfather.He tried to molest me when I was younger okay? just to give you an ideal of this person and my concerns for my mom.She was diagnosed with a brain tumor and will have to have this removed in which is a very difficult surgery and may not survive it! My concern is my brother told her that my stepfather has already life insurance on her and is planning to add additional insurance so he can cash in on her.I hate this person!! my question is if she can get divorced from him,is he still legally able to collect?

2007-07-23 08:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for two years and need to know what I should do to keep my husband happy and our marriage going. We have one child and another one on the way so it is hard to do the "dating" things. He is 23 and I am 31. We are complete opposites he likes going out and I am a homebody. Any suggestions?

2007-07-23 08:49:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-23 08:47:43 · 28 answers · asked by Page 4

In September 06 my husbund filed for divorce (it was a mutual decision) The divorce was to be final in Dec. however we decided to try to reconcille..... it didn't work. We now want to continue with the divorce, do we need to refile/repay?

2007-07-23 08:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffany 1

as funny as this question may seem, seriously, what do you think?

2007-07-23 08:39:27 · 21 answers · asked by Curious George 1

Should it legal in every state and if not why dont you think so.

2007-07-23 08:36:31 · 18 answers · asked by beautifull103087 3