Marriage & Divorce - 23 July 2007

2007-07-23 14:47:28 · 51 answers · asked by margaretwright85 1

Together for 11 years and engaged. Long story short, he's scared of commiting (high school sweethearts) and is acting out. Do you think he just needs some space without me calling and stuff to realize what he has??? Pls share your stories. Thanks!

2007-07-23 14:44:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and her has been best friends for about 10 years she wanted to date me while I was in highschool but I was scared to take that step. Well as time went on I wanted to take the next step but she was in a relationship. While she was in college she met her husband now but since she's got married we haven't talked in about 3 months. For some reason I have been thinking about her all the time and even dreaming about her. I have tried to forget about her but I just can't.

2007-07-23 14:22:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont consider myself an ugly person, but my husband doesn't seem to love me anymore :( I dont use makeup, or wear dresses, or shave, I weight 105 pounds 5feet 2inches, after three kids (one from him) what should I do, he hates me :(

He says he hates unnatural women, he says I dont need makeup, or to shave, or to look glamourous at all. But his behaviour says otherwise. I used to do all of that before and he said it was unnecessary then I became pregnant and have a 1 year old baby. The marriage is basically ruined, will looking prettier help? PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-07-23 14:10:54 · 28 answers · asked by molokaicreeper 3

2007-07-23 14:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if it does?or does it?

2007-07-23 13:43:40 · 10 answers · asked by Maddy Dear. [A7X] 2

He never pays his bills. They come in the mail but he never even opens them. He has extremely bad credit. They are going to repo his car b/c he won't make payments. He has zero financial responsibility. Gets paid on Friday and broke on Saturday. Do you think he is buying drugs? I need to ditch this financial loser. I/we will never have anything nice because I don't make enough on my own to buy nice/big things.

2007-07-23 13:11:53 · 23 answers · asked by Mary Posa 5

Everything is wonderful and great. We are both so in love, and I can easily say our marriage is almost perfect...EXCEPT for one thing....He's so impatient with me!! Almost to the point where it kinda hurts my feelings. Like today, for example- he went to the gym, and I asked him how it went. He replied, "It was great!" Then he started talking about how he ran into one of his old friends and they were talking for a while. And I said, "Oh, you ran into him at the gym? What a small world!" And then it began-

He said, "Did I SAY I ran into him at the gym? Don't you ever listen to a thing I say? What are you, dumb?"

So I kept quiet- trying to think back if I had heard him mention exactly where he had ran into him, and I couldn't remember. I felt so stupid, and I didn't know what to say- except "sorry, I must've misunderstood you."
How do I ask him to be more patient? To not talk to me like that? I've tried to talk to him seriously- and he does try- but then it starts all over again!

2007-07-23 12:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by candy- capped 5

I can't concentrate!..Tryed the elbow, no luck

2007-07-23 12:39:30 · 39 answers · asked by Susie2 4

My boyfriend of 6 years who has lived with me and helped raise my children like his own has moved out a month ago and left me for another female. This has been extremely hard on my children and I while he seems to have adjusted well to his new life. I have been trying to get him to get his stuff out of here and he has moved out most of it but seems to be dragging his feet. He seems to be to busy with work to move out but has the time for her. If he has the time to be with her, he has the time to move out. This is not my problem though. I try to move on with my life and do okay at times, but when I see him it's all raw, fresh again and he hurts me all over again. I try to stay away from him when he comes but doesn't always work. He just told me that she is "very attractive" along with other things. I need to move on but don't know how. What I am concerned about is the rage I have, it scares me because I never have felt like this before, it is all directed at him. I need peace

2007-07-23 12:34:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

It has been about four months and I met someone new, who really makes me feel like a princess. I am now confused and don't know what to do, this new person seems to have all the qualities that I now want. What should I do?

2007-07-23 12:32:54 · 15 answers · asked by Princesesita 1

Is it cheating while you're married to talk with someone who's in love with you about his feelings for you ?

2007-07-23 12:25:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Got home this afternoon to find Tracy in tears saying the dinner was not done. Tracy said she had spent all day plucking it and was only half way through.
We have only been married a month and never had this problem with my mom..
What should I do; Tracy says she will carry on plucking tomorrow but I think the bunny may go off.

2007-07-23 12:19:40 · 8 answers · asked by Jonathan V 7

I was told today that I wasn't up to "wife standards". What is a wife and how is one justified?

2007-07-23 12:18:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me what you think:
Yesterday my husband went to the gym to play basketball, which he normally does every now and then. The problem is he was there for 4 hours. Now I used to play ball myself in high school and a little in college, there is no way to play for 4 hours. I have just distanced myself from him. I haven't brought it up but he keeps asking me," are you mad at me, is it because I was at the gym so long?" It's like he knows I am upset but he won't give me an explanation to why he thinks I am mad. As I said I have just distanced myself from him, not really talking to him because I do not want to engage in confrontation just yet. I really just don't want to deal with him or the issue right now, too much else going on, school, work, the kids. Also before he went to the gym we had sex and he seemed like he wasn't really there. So am I trippin or does it sound like he was not really playin ball at the gym.

2007-07-23 12:18:09 · 66 answers · asked by boopsy0 2

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and about 5 months ago he said he wanted to start giving me oral which he has never done before but it never bothered me cause he satifies me when we make love although i wondered thru the yrs what it was like..Well like i said this was 5 months ago but he has yet to do it and for a few months after making love i would ask him why he didnt do and he would either say "i will" or "im going to" or "next time"..When he first brought this up he said he had been thinking about it and wanting to do it for awhile but didnt know how i would feel about it and thought it would be something i would like..Although i didnt bring the subject up i am a little disappoined and feel let down that he said he wanted to do this and then not do cause like i said i have wondered thru the yrs what it was like..I have always given him oral and i love doing that..

2007-07-23 12:14:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

When they don't want to put any work in there marriage and bail out for the next available person? Do they live happily ever after? She loved me up to leaving me and acts like its no big deal! 16 years and kids it is a big deal

2007-07-23 12:13:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-23 12:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anna Rexia 5

2007-07-23 12:11:06 · 21 answers · asked by Cat 2

I've been wrong before, but since I've been married it seems I've never been right.

2007-07-23 12:05:08 · 25 answers · asked by ? 6

I thought I would keep my question clean, but you know what I mean....

You know you were probably the best partner they ever had, and yeah you left them because they did not value you for what you are worth.

Would they ever admit it to anyone living LOL?!?!?!?

Men and women welcome, although my question pertains to a man admitting this.

2007-07-23 12:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

IS WORRY

2007-07-23 12:04:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-23 11:57:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiancee and i want to get married... but my parents dont want me to, i'm 23 and my mom says im too young... i dont know if i;m being immature or maybe she's acting like that because my mom and my dad got divorced... i dont know what to do, i dont want my fiancee to feel bad that my parents dont want me to marry him... am i really too young? i'm graduating this october and we were planning to get married next year... any advice... thank youuu

2007-07-23 11:50:31 · 22 answers · asked by ButtErFlY 3

Married 7 years. Lots of trust issue. 2 children. Love is there, he is a sex addict. It has turned me off so much that sex is almost non existant to me anymore. He walks,talks, breathes sex. He has issues with anger,porn,denial, fondling himself and myself,it seems as if everything is about sex. He seems dirty to me. I hate myself for thinking that about my own husband and father of my kids. I feel as if we would have a good marriage if he would contribute. He says he does,but he can only back it up with financially. I must say he is a great father to our children, but could stand to help out a tad more. I try to tell him I do love him and explain to him what's going on, he blows me off by saying "yeah right". He has messed up several times and I have major trust issues because of this. He plays the victim by saying "well, it hurts that you don't trust me"..and then blows up when I explain why. What's wrong? He seems manipulative. He turns everything around on me. I'm sick of it!

2007-07-23 11:46:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an older male, and apparently my defintion of cheating is old fashioned, and outdated. Is flirting, cheating? Meeting people of the opposite sex after work? I have loved two women in my life, and both of them cheated on me. One was clear cut...she ran off with another guy. The other has flirted all day at work, met the guy after work...then says, "NO! that;s not cheating...we didn't do anything". Am I just too old fashioned? If you will, give me YOUR definition of cheating, and your age. Thanks!

2007-07-23 11:46:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'v been reading some questions.. and so many people have fallen out of love....

If this applies to you... why? What happened to cause this?

2007-07-23 11:35:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Wife Dossent make Love to me. so I am Triying To Chase my sons Wife But she Dossent Like me. should I Tell My Wife?

2007-07-23 11:18:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a Married 68 Year Old Man. I Like My Sons Wife as a person But I am Also Attracted to Her Sexually. She Says That I am Too Old That she dossent Find Me attractive. but yet i keep insisting in chasing after her. how can I make her like me if she does not like me?

2007-07-23 11:13:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-23 11:09:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous