It has been about four months and I met someone new, who really makes me feel like a princess. I am now confused and don't know what to do, this new person seems to have all the qualities that I now want. What should I do?
2007-07-23 12:32:54 · 15 answers · asked by Princesesita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How does it feel knowing your husband has the final say so in whether or not your relationship continues? I think a split should be decided with both parties involved. Not one person saying "well give me time to think". If you feel in your heart that the marriage is over and your husband may just be stringing you along (who knows maybe HE'S trying to find someone else), end it now. It will be better for both of you. Not easy, but better.
2007-07-23 12:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by TooCute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you legally separated? If not, then you are cheating on your spouse.
Either way, you need to let go of this new guy. You need to honestly determine what's happening in your marriage before you move on with your life. Find out if your husband has thought long enough. If he has no answer, then he probably never will and you can decide for yourself if you want to try to fix the marriage. If he's already moved on, then you can too. But in any case, you need to get the ball rolling on either fixing, or ending, this marriage.
2007-07-23 12:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that is going through the same situation. She caught her husband on Internet dating services and she confronted him. They have been together for 11 years and have three children. The both agreed to divorce. She started talking to another man and her husband got furious! Then, he decided he does not want a divorce and wants to fix things. I think divorce is the best option. If the marriage is weak... do not feel forced to settle. In the future, if things change then reconciling your differences are still possible. Do not drag out the problems... be happy!
2007-07-23 12:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are confused and you should not make any important decisions at this time.Relax don't let anyone make you rush into or out of anything you may regret latter.Try to enjoy the new found freedom you have.Have fun ,get a little crazy.There is time for the serious stuff later.
2007-07-23 12:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you agreed with your husband to take some time to think about your relationship, you didn't hold up your end of the bargain... You obviously used the 4 months to find a replacement. Shame on you!
2007-07-23 12:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 19:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asked u for a divorce was he involved with someone new, and it didn't work out? if this is the case i would go forward with the divorce. depends why your husband wanted a divorce, say some prayers and wait for some answers.
2007-07-23 13:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like for you to ask yourself this, who do you think about the most, do you imagine your like with this new guy.. If it is the new guy than if you really loved your husband and wanted to be with him you wouldn't be thinking of the new guy
2007-07-23 12:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by */-Puss-n-Boots-/* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend time being alone and giving 1120% to fix your marriage. There will alwasy be someone "new". Keeping the old is the hard part.
2007-07-23 12:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce why are you waiting for your husband to decide your happiness but don't jump into something right away send some time finding out about you
2007-07-23 12:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by chantilly l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋