he just treats me like im nothing and just complains and hollars, im so sick of it, we have no kids and he tells me ill never make it on my own even though i will , i only have a year of school left, we are 23 and he is 25, only he acts like my father more than my husband, he is controlling, but i wish i klnew how to make it work, please any advice?
2007-07-23 09:32:26 · 17 answers · asked by Mamma in the making 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like your seeing the true person in your husband. His behavior will only get worse. He treats you with no respect and is controlling now ...... it will go to worse things later. You do not need him and will be ok on your own and it willbe the best thing to do for yourself.
I did and let me tell you, what power that gives a person. Yes, it hurts at first, but it is good later. Get yourself out of that bad relationship now. Don't waste your time.
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2014-05-22 01:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times in marriage the newness wears off and you have to work to make love last. One way of doing this is to attend a marriage conference to rekindle your love. One thing they teach is quite simple to do, and the results will astound you. You state that he treats you like you are nothing? How do you treat him? I am not trying to cause blame here or to say you are at fault. Not at all. The marriage conferences, along with the books we have read, provide a huge understanding into the value of our marriage. For instance, not everyone says "I Love You" the same way. "The Five Love Languages" teaches that each person has a way of saying "I Love You". Mine is "Gift Giving". If you as a spouse don't realize this, you miss the little things I do to say I love you. One thing to do is to go out of your way to do "special" things for him. Show him you really care for him and want to make it work. Candle light dinner, spur of the moment walk, even just going for a long Sunday drive. Most people who get treated like royalty, start treating you better. The more this happens, the better and better it gets. Best part is, you control your things you do for him. He has no control over that. Most marriages fail due to lack of communication. You must talk about how you feel, how he feels. Guys are tricky and don't always offer up information/conversation. However, with a little TLC, I think both of you can turn it around. Godspeed.
2007-07-23 09:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by cpleseekingfmf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A leopard does not change it's spots.
If he was controlling before the marriage then that will not change it can, however, escalate to hitting.
If he can get some anger control counseling that might help but don't hold your breath.
The ball is really in your court how much of this can you stand?
He is in mature and needs to grow up. Are you willing to wait till he does? rather IF he does.
But the BIG, BIG thing is do not repeat DO NOT have children!!
Wish you well & good luck.
2007-07-23 09:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is already controlling it will only get worse. Your almost done with school & you still have a lot of life ahead of you. Get out while your young enough to enjoy it or you will waste 20-25 years of your life plus probably involve kids eventually in a love-less situation. Not fair to them or YOU!!! It only will hurt for a little while until you find that certain someone that treats you like you deserve to be treated.
2007-07-23 09:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is nothing between you Two; If the short lived Passion has faded; Every Day You live in constant misery and sadness, then end it with him. Spend time in finding your self again. When your ready find Someone Who will respect and under stand YOU.
2007-07-23 09:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by jamesrichmond28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to make it work he is going to need to change. You are not in a healthy relationship at the moment. Maybe he is threatened that you will be done with school soon and won't be dependent on him.
If he is not willing to go to therapy, it may be time to move on.
2007-07-23 09:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by candy'sroom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-23 09:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you want to make it work if he thinks you are nothing?? You say you can make it on your own, so I say leave! He tells you those things over and over so that you will start to believe it, and then you won't ever leave! GO NOW!!!!
2007-07-23 09:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by mary c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We teach people how to treat us. You have let him get away with this so he thinks he can. Tell him hes not the only game in town and if he doesnt start treating you with respect u are gone.....and really mean it!!
2007-07-23 09:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋