Marriage & Divorce - 8 July 2007

feelings for me are growing less and less each passing day, BUT........perhaps when we see each other again he may have the feelings back.........notice that we live in different Americas........so, I would just HOP ON a plane and get there to see if he still has feelings for me? Boy......is this TRUE LOVE? Maybe I am better off without him...........to me, true love never dies...........and true love grows fonder when we are apart.....and nothing really breaks a couple apart if there is this kind of true feeling.

2007-07-08 14:45:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend's wife logs in everyday and chats with strangers and sometimes with a guy that they have had fights about earlier. Now this is all behind my friend's back. Whenever he finds out she acts very angry and creates a noise about it as if he is spying on her. He is left hurt and she knows it but continues to do it on the pretext of studying online. Would you call this betrayal??...well i do but he is not sure! Please help.

2007-07-08 13:50:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex had a son with a man she never married because he was a drug addict. I adopted the boy when he was six and so he is my son and is now 22. Anyways my 11 year old told me since the divorce 1 1/2 years ago they went to meet the father of my adopted son with their mom. He said they went to a hotel to bring him cookies. That does not make sense to me. While we were married my ex who is a nurse got escorted from her office, she was fired because a patient claimed she stole pills from her home although no charges were filed. My ex had a bad back and always was taking oxycontin and other similiar stuff. Am I overreacting or should I be concerned between the hotel visit and my ex getting fired in regard to some drug issues?

2007-07-08 13:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by paco 1

My ex had a son with a man she never married because he was a drug addict. I adopted the boy when he was six and so he is my son and is now 22. Anyways my 11 year old told me since the divorce 1 1;2 years ago they went to meet the father of my adopted son. He said they went to a hotel to bring him cookies. That does not make sense to me. While we were married my ex who is a nurse got escorted from her office, she was fired because a patient claimed she stole pills from her home. My ex had a bad back and always was taking oxcontin and othe similiar stuff. Am I overreating or should I be concerned between the hotel visit and my ex getting fired?

2007-07-08 13:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by paco 1

My answer was, " Beacause there's more of us????" Well doesn't that make sence to this person??
Well I was reported, I'm a bad girl!!! BOOHOO!!!! What do you think about this answer I gave, how would you answer this queston???

2007-07-08 13:20:01 · 27 answers · asked by kim t 7

he's out and really dosen't know how to budget money and he's back on crack, his lil sis loves him, he's sweet to us, but he luvs crack more. i want to help him, i can't..but i can't allow him back home because he steals.

2007-07-08 13:19:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

19 years married my wife left me for her boss
Now I Am going through a divorce 7 months now
I met a lady when I was working we talked it seem to be going very well,she had a kindness about her I really wanted to keep talking but I needed to get back to work.
Well all I know about her was her name and I seen her phone number in the white pages..I know she has been divorced about a year or more.
I never even thought I would be looking for another someone in my life but I really can not stop thinking how nice it would be to get to talk to her again. On the other hand I do not want to look like I Am a stalker..!
should I just let it go or should I proceed to call her? HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-07-08 13:12:32 · 7 answers · asked by devinandkeatin 1

I married my second husband on 7-7-07 He has been my best friend since Kindergarden..... any one eles?

2007-07-08 13:11:58 · 13 answers · asked by tammer 5

They both profess to be saved but are living together. I say they should marry but others say they are too young and should wait, even though they are living together. I was told they believe this because they are looking at the long term picture. This person is a Christian. Marry or not?

2007-07-08 13:09:45 · 20 answers · asked by tulip_five 4

im stuck in a dead end realtionship that my ex is dieing to get out he doesnt want the baby and he wants to move on with his life...i on the other hand feel that if i do have this child it will be extremmly difficult on me and i have no one esle to support me i want to have an abortion and move on with my life until i get married and deffinatley know there is a way i can support a child ...im 25 ....what should i do???

2007-07-08 12:57:21 · 26 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

My husband and I have been having an ongoing arguement. He would get on the computer while I was out and look up things and then erase them and clean the computer. He was very secretive and I begun to suspect something was up. When I uploaded a keylogger,I found that he was looking up many types of porn.We used to look it up together but lately he pays no attention to me physically, or mentally.It really hurt when I realized that he was getting more pleasure from looking at porn then being with me.I finally admitted one night to installing the keylogger.He is very good at turning things around and making me feel at fault so instead of explaining or even wanting to talk to me about why he would look up the types of things he did ,all he did was yell at me about the keylogger and refused to talk about anything else.I have a very high need for sex and he used to too, but now nothing happens between us. Was I really in the wrong for suspecting him. There has been fidelity prob in the past.

2007-07-08 12:55:27 · 15 answers · asked by ambrosiag2000 1

My ex husband does not like my current boyfriend. When i told him that it wasn't my problem since we are divorced, he is now trying to drag our kids in to the mix. He tells the kids to monitor my boyfriend and keep notes of his behavior towards me and them. He also wants a document saying he can take the kids away if he dosent like my behavior or the behavior my boyfriend. He cites the fact that my boyfriend has alcohol in his fridge, and that his friends drink also. But i make sure that when the kids are at my house that they know that those drinks are for adults only. My ex also wants to challange if my boyfriend is fit to be around children. Well my boyfriend has kids of his own and they are very well adjusted from what i can see. In fact he even has full custody of one of them and he lives with us with no problems. I try to keep my exes out of my current realtionships as i don't care who he dates as long as they don't hurt my kids. The thing is my boyfriend has been nothing but

2007-07-08 12:48:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-08 12:47:04 · 44 answers · asked by brownsugar 2

Friend get engaged to a guy overseas in her home country. Bec of his job stability and other issues she calls the engagement off. Then in 4 months, she realizes she likes him, and they both talk again, decide to marry and get married.
They have normal couple arguements n blames her for it.
She files for US immigration papers. While waiting, she doubts of his fidelity. He does webcam nude sexual chatting, and wants to meet for fun. He confeses of sleeping around. Wife stops talking to him in during this period bec she is furious and confused. He feels she is wrong in not talking so he did the webcam etc. He also says it was a fantasy n there is not actual cheating.
He again has job stability issues and has been cheap pervert in language to the wife like has no respect for s** in marriage.
Did she do wrong in stop talking to him during short of 2 mths while he was into chatting? Was she a fool to marry him after calling off engagement.Would you trust him and save marriag

2007-07-08 12:31:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-08 12:29:14 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and i plan on marrying next year , but for some reason his family doesn't like me , and that hurts alot cause family means alot to me ,he doesn't care about his family and tells me not to worry about his family and that they will come around some day ....

2007-07-08 12:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by haitian1007 1

its been very hard for me to accept, i do want to change and forgive him. it takes time. i'm really thinking about things. sometimes, i don't know what i do wrong. i'm just myself, i have really strong views on what happened. and whatever happened happened. i can't change it. i don't feel less about myself or inadequate. it's no reflection on me. i guess he's sorry about it. i'm just trying to be myself and move on from this. sometimes, i want to be a new person, but, at the same time i don't want to start over with him, i want to continue as we are. maybe i could be like both. i'm kinda of tired about talking about things. either i forgive and forget or move on. if he still wants to be with me. i gotta forget this business and just be happy!

2007-07-08 12:16:17 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda M 1

I've been married for 5 years now, and my husband moved to a different town and state for a better paying job to support our family, but because of some other issues with my family. I am not able to move there with him yet. But I feel as though I'm being pushed to the side. He has never been this distant before. Do you have any ideas on what I could do? I am taking care of an ailing parent and I'm not able to travel, nor do I have the funds to hire a private investigator. I just really need some ideas?

2007-07-08 12:09:12 · 8 answers · asked by PinWheels 1

He has been open and told me what was going on, he recently discovered she has been having an affair, they discussed it & she denied it but he is now devastated and says he is leaving as he caught her with her lover. The wife is now being being volatile towards me because I left it a day after the news from him before I would talk to her. I said I was not getting involved & that this is an issue that while I'm upset at it, is their business. I offered my support as a friend but then she became volatile, said some really hurtful things and basically told me where to go, they are both like best friends of mine for many years, I have never done anything to be disloyal to either of them and am now concerned that a lifelong friendship is being terminated by 1 of the couple & for what? Do I just ignore her now or wait til she calms down & hear her out? The way she has treated me during this is as if I did something bad to her. How do I avoid getting involved or hurt any more than I am?

2007-07-08 11:59:45 · 20 answers · asked by . 5

My ex and I are lucky to remain good friends, and cooperative parents for our kids. But as I start a new relationship, I'm sensing jealousy and bitterness.

I want to remain friends, and I would like to see her have a new relationship too . . .

Thanks.

2007-07-08 11:53:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

In two weeks Me and my Ex.wife will sign agreement doing with the our two kids.She want Joint legal custody and sole physical custody.If I give her sole physical custody,can she move to another state or leave the country with children.I told my lawyer out of revenge she will do that.My lawyer told me I can fight for joint physical custody.There's a chance you might get the same judge who screw you the first time. A judge who gave my wife custody of the kids.The judge admit in court that my wife took the kids to get out of paying child support to the husband.But since the husband don't have custody I'm going to give her custody.Now i get every other weekend and 5 week in the summer.

2007-07-08 11:43:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance has 2 children, the 6 year old definitely has ADHD, and the 3 year old possible does. I have a 6 year old myself that is very mellow and mature for her age. Her kids drive me CRAZY. We're working together to calm her down, and now she has an appointment to get help. We don't know what do to. I am madly in love with her, but wish that her children just went away. Will I ever get along with them? I need advice on what to do about her condition and what I can do to make this work.

2007-07-08 11:43:46 · 21 answers · asked by Hazzaird 1

is it normal for a guy to cheat during/after the birth of his 1st child? to me it means he is totally out of love with his wife (not to mention respect). but a friend of mine says they do it because they are stressed about the new situation. but I say she is an idiot. what do you say?

2007-07-08 11:38:34 · 28 answers · asked by sarah kay 5

I have noticed a pattern with my husband of 7 years.

Whenever I get any money... he always fishes it out of my hands. He doesn’t ask for it, he just pulls up to the drive-through and politely asks for the cash or runs his debit card to my account without telling me.

I don't know what to do, I can’t save or purpose money towards certain tasks or projects because of this. Any suggestions.

Also, my husband makes me get direct deposit, rather than giving me the choice to cash or deposit the checks myself. My personal preference would be to cash the ck myself, because I seem to spend it slower that way. What do you think is going through his mind?

2007-07-08 11:38:25 · 22 answers · asked by EILISHA 3

Ok. I'm white and i don't like to catagorize people nor care wut race the person is i'm dating. However, my family doesn't want me dating any african american boys. I happen to like a black guy but don't know how to get my family to accept it. Any ideas?

2007-07-08 11:34:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby has been getting worse and worse lately in regards to ignoring me and not even acting as if we are married. He is going out every day sometimes 2-3 times in a day on the weekends always without me. He has friends and names he mentions I have never met and people walk up to him and know him and I have no clue. He is leaving me out of invitations given by friends of ours. He does not tell me they called and he goes alone saying I did not want to go or was sick. He won't give me 30 seconds to ever talk to him. Our home is a flop house basically he stops in to use the bathroom and grab a drink and out the door again!! He just now took another job part time in addition to his full time job this new one being nights so now he literally will never be home. He never discussed this with me and I had no idea he was thinking of it. He does nothing with the kids. What is your take on this? Also he has become very critical of my appearence lately too. I need to "tone my arms" and so on....

2007-07-08 11:33:46 · 8 answers · asked by Samantha 3

It seems like problems on every side.

my husband and I ARE BOTH 100lbs over weight...yet we are still attractive people. He says that me being over weight is not a problem because he says, he doesn't have a right to ask me to loose when he is bigger than me.

He is tired and sluggish and only wants to have sex about every 10 days but for me I would like to have sex every 2 to 3 days. What should I do? What is my husband of 7 years really saying?

2007-07-08 11:32:18 · 27 answers · asked by EILISHA 3

2007-07-08 11:31:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

We like to fart in public and blame it on the other one...Lol We enjoy getting the looks from other people.

Yes, we're silly.

2007-07-08 11:31:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well i GOT TO release myself but i reeeaaallly don't wanna do it right now...i wanna save it for tonight...

but im sooooo h0rny!!!

i swear this is a serious question...

what can i do it calm down? and how can i make my release amazing tonight?

2007-07-08 11:27:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous