Marriage & Divorce - 8 July 2007

My bf and i have three kids together ages 8,4,and 2 with number 4 possibly on the way.We are supposed to have a JP cerimony(getting married at court house) this week because last week my bf mom got into a car accident.What is a JP cerimony like?What do i wear?Are you supposed to dress a certain way?Also the kids are coming with us along with our witness/babysitter.

2007-07-08 03:58:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

said he thought the site was for couples who want to take group trips and he was trying to plan a getaway for us. The problem is the site was self explanatory. You couldnt mistake what it offered. Of course there was a huge apology should I look at it as curiousity let it go or be even more suspicious

2007-07-08 03:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by blackpearl 5

My husband and i have been married since November 2005 We got married when i was 16 and he was 19 ( EVERY YOUNG.. I KNOW) in November 06 we split up due to a number of reasons, but never legally did anything. About 3 months ago i Moved to Florida because we decided to work things out. Since i have been here our relationship has been gold. Everything we ever wanted it to be. However, neither of us have been that happy. We both love each other. In fact i am deeply in love with him. He is having a very hard time in his life, and is very unhappy with everything all around. When he gets this way he pushes everyone away and wants to be alone, genuinely. I as well am facing a lot of hard times and feel as though i need to settle a lot of inner problems. We have decided to continue to live together for a number of reasons. We are still very close and the best of friends. We are trying very hard to not let this come between us in our friendship, However..

2007-07-08 03:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by Sera L 1

I am a deployed soldier married for 14yrs with 3 children. As most people know a deployment can be hard on eveyone in the family. When I left it was hard. filled with hugs and kisses and promises of my return. Over the months things have changed dramatically for the worse. She won't say she wants a divorce or even say she doesn't love me anymore. Now with weeks left she wants to find me an apartment for when I come home. I have continued to send about 90% of my pay home for the kids, mortgage and all the other expenses. Before I left we thought for the kids sake it wouldn't be a good idea to take any leave. The whole I am home now,and then I have to leave again. That had already happened a couple of times between the MOB and we didn't want to put them through it again. I try and call every other day to talk to the kids, but the lines can be long. She does work full time. I just want to know if this makes any sense to anyone. She did have PPD with our first child. I am not a doctor.

2007-07-08 03:37:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

when my parents got a divorce my whole family got really messed up, except me. they all had to go to counciling, except me, and a lot more. im not complainingbut why didnt i? im the youngest 12 years old.

2007-07-08 03:37:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

even if you didn't like what you may hear?

2007-07-08 03:06:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend is a female 34yrs. old, married, two children in the state of nevada.her and her husband have been fighting for some time now. lots of verbal and emotional abuse both ways. two weeks ago he talked her into going to visit her girlfriend out of town saying it would give them both a break. so she did. when she returned he had takin her name off the lease of their condo, changed the locks, sent the kids to there grandma s (her mom) and now she only has the bags she left with. her mom is saying that if she doesnt have a place to live she is seeking custody of the kids. he is claiming that she left (walked out) on them all. I feel bad for her. she is scared of this *** and doesnt want to cause him any greef in fear he will do even worse things to her. HELP she needs to do something.What? her life has been takin , whats the right way to go about it?

2007-07-08 03:03:49 · 10 answers · asked by stylestealth 2

I am a thin, petite woman. For most of my life I was skinny. It's part nature, part nuture. I grew up very poor, and we didn't eat a lot. Furthermore, my family is thin. I used to get picked on as a child for my weight. Now, I'm a professional dealing with the same crap. I started a new job two months ago, and one of my co-workers was complaining today about people on the day shift. I told her she was making me want to avoid that shift. She and another co-worker of mine said the women on that shift would hate me anyway because I'm skinny. One of the women they were talking about is a superior of mine -- and a rotten person anyway. How should I deal with this? I was a waitress for 10 years and met some of the nicest people who don't behave like this. Go figure -- the nasty people are the professionals.

2007-07-08 03:03:05 · 10 answers · asked by min 1

I have lived with a wonderful man who has a weak personality for 20 years, We have a child in High School. He is a great father but there are many things about him that bothers me. For one thing we have not had sex in 5 years. We are in our late 40s. He refuses to see a doctor for his problem. I feel so left out sometimes. We sleep in separate beds. He is very generous and very kind. Do you think that I should have an affair and try to keep this marriage together or should I get a divorce? Pls do not tell me that I am ungrateful..I made him who he is today financially.

2007-07-08 03:01:06 · 21 answers · asked by crystal 1

2007-07-08 02:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by zheriamor 1

My pastor's wife tends to dot on me. I think she's in love with me. What should I do: tell Pastor? run?

2007-07-08 02:56:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 12 year now and we have 2 kids....
i havent had sex with my hubby in like a month. I just dont feel like i am in the *mood*. he does everything for us financially, but emotinally its a different story.
When he comes home from work, he either goes to bed or on the computer. i have told him many times that he needs to spend more time with the kids...anyways. I know he loves us, but i just dont want to sleep with him. He is very sweet if he wants sex, but that'll go away after we do it. To me its like another chore i have to do. I could honestly live without sex...dont need it.
Am i the only one with this problem? What can i do?

2007-07-08 02:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by curious24 4

We are very happily married and are very open and honest with each other, but want to enjoy other people, with each other and alone. Three-somes and the like.

2007-07-08 02:33:09 · 24 answers · asked by pantylover8 1

Ok, so about a month ago I told my husband I wanted a divorce (to find out why, just look in my divorce question) and of course, in his usual manner, he stormed out on us. My 5 year old son,James, is pining for him. I want to tell my husband that the kids still want him around. I believe, as long as he don't hurt us, he has the right to see them. Also, I was expecting to get divorced when our newborn child is a little older and I have recovered.I mean, can you imagine how hard it is to cope with a divorce AND look after 4 kids at the same time? Where do you suggest I look for him? Parks? Bars? I need your ideas!

2007-07-08 02:14:42 · 14 answers · asked by mommomma 1

i'm 28, i have been study in uk and just come bake china ,i'm beaudiful and prety.
wish to found some one who are mature, responsibility, kind ,love family , a person who living in a higher class society in the world and succesful to marry with .if he love me with his true hart.

2007-07-08 01:51:29 · 7 answers · asked by rachel s 1

2007-07-08 01:46:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know it's resentment over some other issue, but i want to stop living this way.

2007-07-08 01:34:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is my sisters account but im too lazy to sign on to mine; kind of curious why some states require a blood test before you can get married.. anyone want to shed some light on the situation for me? its early so simple things r causing me to overthink

2007-07-08 01:30:31 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica G 2

2007-07-08 01:27:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-08 01:19:27 · 13 answers · asked by sweetie 1

i am 36 years old,have 4 kid's,i am only grade4,and i canot fine a job,i have been working like janitor,but i stop because my salary was so small and is not enough to support my kid's,i i'm the only one who taken care of them,so i begine to play at internet to chat,and if some one like me or want to be with me as girfriend,i agree with them,but this relationship is shortime only,then after the other i fine another,but that was before more than 2 years ago,now i finally fine some one who care for me and my kid's.i have 2 kid's and highchool now and one in elementary school.i have been with defferent foreigner's maybe 4 different person.and now i keep thinking how bad i was,anyway i am just shared my storry here because no one know's what i did before.i grow up with out my parent and since i was 13 years i grow up by my self and i was working as a made for how many years.ok i wait for your answer have a good day

2007-07-08 01:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by hermie 1

2007-07-08 00:44:36 · 7 answers · asked by appollo709 1

I have a question. It is about my wife being out and a man approaching her. She made it clear she was married and not to get the wrong impression. He said that was fine and he liked to meet new people and talk. She said after that he did nothing inappropriate. She said he was really nice and interesting. This made me jealous. I asked if he was handsome and she said he is.

I told her he still has the same thing on his mind and was just trying a different approach. She told me she knows where to draw the line. My question is if a woman knows a man fancies her, can it be just casual after that? The woman knows that it's not just innocent conversation because she knows his original intention. My fear was that if she thought he was nice she might let her guard down and create an opening for him. It bothers me that the attention might have felt flattering to her, making her feel sexy. She sounded like she really did find him exciting and enjoyed talking to him.

2007-07-08 00:40:47 · 21 answers · asked by Rohit 1

2007-07-08 00:05:35 · 8 answers · asked by Kennethroy 1