2007-07-08 01:27:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to decide what is most important to you: the relationship or your feeling of interest towards another woman, if any. And you have to decide what your value and standards are. You have alternatives: Leave this alone is one if you are reasonable happy in the marriage. You could also decide to keep the marriage and have an affair on the side, if you values and personality allow this and you want it. Or you could get the big D and move on. In any case, it should be a well thought out decision because it’s a wide river you are thinking of crossing. If you go for the affair there is a significant potential to destroy the marriage if discovered. There are those who do this and are happy but they are very careful. Others do this and get caught and are miserable. But in any case I would not discuss your preferences with him unless you are prepared to loose him.
2007-07-08 01:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are cheating on your husband with any gender you need to let him go so that he can find someone who respects their marriage vows. You never stop being a Lesbian, you just rationalized yourself into destroying someone else's life. Give him a chance for happiness if you aren't able to commit to him.
2007-07-08 01:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling your husband you are a lesbian might be a smart thing to do. If you have to ask that question, your obviously very dumb.
2007-07-08 01:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make up your mind as to what preference you prefer. Stop ruining things for your husband. He married someone who he thought was truthful to him and he knew everything that he needed to know before making a life changing decision and marrying you. Make your mind up once and for all and let him know. Life is too short.
2007-07-08 01:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by SadEyeS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a lesbian again? So........... like you WEREN'T a lesbian when you got married?
If your feelings have changed towards your husband because your sexual orientation has changed.... yeah, you should tell him
2007-07-08 01:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, better if you tell your husband that you are lesbian,he is a nise person and just be honest with him,and im sure he will understand,and he can decide what he have to do.
2007-07-08 01:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by hermie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to cause then ur marriage is a lie. this is going to make u unhappy and your husband.
it would hurt him even more if u dont tell him now and he finds out from someone else
good luck! tell me how it goes
2007-07-08 01:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i told mine it destroyed our marriage and almost destroyed our friendship. i can't tell you what to do in this situation, but some things are better off left as a secret.
2007-07-08 01:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men like women who like other women just tell him you dont know what he will say until you tell him email me an dlet me know whats up
2007-07-08 03:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by mirendaocasio@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you get a grip!
2007-07-08 01:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋