Friend get engaged to a guy overseas in her home country. Bec of his job stability and other issues she calls the engagement off. Then in 4 months, she realizes she likes him, and they both talk again, decide to marry and get married.
They have normal couple arguements n blames her for it.
She files for US immigration papers. While waiting, she doubts of his fidelity. He does webcam nude sexual chatting, and wants to meet for fun. He confeses of sleeping around. Wife stops talking to him in during this period bec she is furious and confused. He feels she is wrong in not talking so he did the webcam etc. He also says it was a fantasy n there is not actual cheating.
He again has job stability issues and has been cheap pervert in language to the wife like has no respect for s** in marriage.
Did she do wrong in stop talking to him during short of 2 mths while he was into chatting? Was she a fool to marry him after calling off engagement.Would you trust him and save marriag
2007-07-08 12:31:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Newly wed. All starts in 6 mths of marriage. It is long distance bec he is not yet here.
2007-07-08 12:32:49 · update #1
No way. Porn of any kind is not allowed in my book--and naked sex chats!? Please! If he's meeting women on the internet and sleeping with them and not telling his wife she need not bother with that dude. Sex within a marriage should never be tainted or disturbed by some pervert's idea of a fantasy.
Throw him out!
2007-07-08 12:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Cara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard at the best of times. But a long distance marriage, that's nearly impossible. If she broke off the wedding because of his job situation, then she probably didn't really love him in the first place. And now that the job situation is bad again she's thinking of leaving again. Basically this marriage was doomed before it began. And he was pretty quick to cheat when she was not talking to him. So either way, she should move on.
2007-07-08 20:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just silly. Obviously he is not ready for marriage and she is a fool for marrying him. Drop him and move on...life is too short for this
2007-07-08 20:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋