Marriage & Divorce - 7 July 2007

sh*t keeps going the same. One go day out of the week with my spouse is this enough? I say no, we have no sexual relationship and no hopes of one. But instead of being a caring person that is not the case.

2007-07-07 17:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married 18 years. Two years ago he decided to return to school to pursue a masters in education. He was taking night classes, working on school projects and working days (we never saw him except for weekends). I work full-time and had full responsibility for our home and children. Now that he's graduated, he tells me that he loves a woman he has been having an affair with. They were in classes together and have been having an affair for about 6 months. She filed for divorce after meeting my husband - he says she was never happily married and it has nothing to do with their relationship. He says he loves her but doesn't want to leave me or my kids. I'm so confused. I love him with all my heart and don't know if counseling will help. I've asked him to go to marriage counseling - he's not sure it will help so he doesn't want to go. Should I give up or try to win him back? If he cheats once will he cheat again?

2007-07-07 17:49:11 · 16 answers · asked by Michelle R 1

1. I heared that too much masterbation has something to do with your height, Is this true?

2. (For Women) Does Masterbation feel good? how much?

3. Are there any downside of too much mastrebation?

2007-07-07 17:47:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The modern idea of marriage and Western culture dictates one man for one woman for life. However, in the pagan past men tended to sustain more than one woman. Also the divorce rate seems to signal a flaw in the standard rule.

Would it be better for a man to have a secret affair and keep his family together (i.e. "cheat") or should he break his family apart in order to satiate his desires (acceptable in todays culture through divorce)?

2007-07-07 17:39:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom earns more than me she is on government job and she always hesitates my wife. she loves me & my wife vey much but i just cant understand what problem she had. my mom always find fault in her. we both are newly married and of same age (21). we dont have much experience of married life.
i know my wife is sometimes wrong but i promise my mom with time she will care for resposibilities. but always problem arised. i dont want to argue with my mom . what should i do?

2007-07-07 17:30:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-07 17:24:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I'm in love. . .

2007-07-07 17:23:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have JC of 2 girls(4 and 6) that are my world and spend as much time as i can with them(3 or more days a week)I would like to find someone to marry again but my children will allways be #1.So here is my question is it better that i find/pursue someone who has children too or someone who does not?I would like to hear pros and cons for both from people.

2007-07-07 17:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

the one you have been hurt by over the years and have a family with or the new man who you are falling head over heals in love with?

2007-07-07 17:17:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I have hope that me and my husband are gonna work things out after I have my baby. We are separated now because of fighting, but he seems to already have moved on

2007-07-07 17:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a guy and I was with a girl and I didn't want to but she kept telling me to have sexual relations with her or else that made me that gay (I didn't wanna have sex with her cuz she was kinda not good looking and I aint a man hoe) I had to prove I was straight it was her peer preasure.

I heard it was rape when you say no and don't want to the first time but you are preasured to have sex.

2007-07-07 17:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I just separated after almost 2 yrs of marriage. He still wants to have his cake and eat it too. I feel that he is acting single already and out with other women. I don't know if he as cheated yet, but all evidence points to it. He says no

2007-07-07 17:12:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If someone is saying they want to go home and that there cold are they bragging or complaining?

2007-07-07 17:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by emanuel_v19 2

The first time my husband did, was when we were on our second date and he gave me a gold necklace with a gold cross with diamond chips embedded in it. He said he felt bad I lost my pendant a couple weeks ago. (AWWW)
The second time was when he arranged a trip to Hawai'i, and arranged to have the kids taken care of while we were away. I didn't have to plan anything except which dresses I wanted to pack!

Wive's: is there anytime your husband took your breath away with a special gift or event?

2007-07-07 17:02:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-07 16:56:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is an oldy

The Guy name was Tommy

He was called yellow by the people in town because they thought of him as a coward

his dad died in prison but before he died he told Tommy not to make the same mistakes as he did and "he did not need to fight to be a man"

He was in love with a girl named Becky

But the villige gang raped her and at the end Tommy Killed the gang and said "sometimes you have to fight because your a man"

2007-07-07 16:32:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering.

2007-07-07 16:07:12 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in the process of going through a divorce. I have met a very special woman that I have developed very strong feelings for. I have told her how I feel. Her answer to me was "time and patience - if it is meant to be it will be". What is your take on that? Are any of the same feelings there?

2007-07-07 15:24:55 · 27 answers · asked by mikemja316 2

I am in the process of going through a divorce. I have met a very special woman that I have developed very strong feelings for. I have told her how I feel. Her answer to me was "time and patience - if it is meant to be it will be". What is your take on that? Are any of the same feelings there?

2007-07-07 15:24:10 · 33 answers · asked by mikemja316 2

2007-07-07 14:58:44 · 8 answers · asked by Daiquiri Dream 6

I left my husband 5 years ago. Now my sister wants to make up. neither of them ever apologised or explained why they did it. I haven't spoken to her for 10 years. Am I wrong not to forgive and forget?

2007-07-07 14:39:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-07 14:01:34 · 6 answers · asked by bernadette 1

am thinking about going to a cocktail lounge i drove past last week but i am like just doing it to not feel like i am left out of the city scene. i am a homebody at heart but sometimes you just feel like you may be missing out on stuff. does anyone feel like this too ?

2007-07-07 13:56:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am just wondering since my puerto rican friend thinks my selection of men is a bit racist?I grew up even though i am spanish mix my mom is from Costa Rican mixed with german/portugese/pinch of middle eastern blood and my dad is Spainard/french in an all white neighborhood.Everyone i grew up with was Jewish,Irish,or Italian for the most part.I have never dated a hispanic person or any race other than white.But i have no problem with other races i am friendly to everyone and after college have many friends from different backrounds.Am i racist for only ever dating white guys ?I am going to married next week to a guy who is scottish,german,and irish and to be honest have never thought about this ?

2007-07-07 13:53:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

could you be in a family that has 6 kids & 2 adults....? well is that a lot?

2007-07-07 13:38:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been cheating on my husband with a younger guy for a while. I sometimes think he knows because he'll make cryptic comments, but that could just be my guilty conscience. I want to end the affair--I don't love the guy--and not even tell my husband. But I'm afraid I'll live in guilt forever if I don't come clean. Is it more or less selfish to tell him?

2007-07-07 13:29:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

we havn't had sex this year. in dec. he said he didn't find me attractive. should i just wait and let him go or should i try harder

2007-07-07 13:27:01 · 21 answers · asked by rayhab 4

im spending money i dont have cause it makes e feel better

2007-07-07 13:20:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have caused nothing but dissapointment and heartache. I don't deserve them.

2007-07-07 13:11:22 · 20 answers · asked by MustLetGo 1

What can I do to help meet my mans need for the touchy feely?

2007-07-07 13:09:43 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatelovely2002 4