Marriage & Divorce - 7 July 2007

He works. He makes enough money to make payments. He's asked to marry me, but I still don't have a ring.

2007-07-07 13:08:59 · 34 answers · asked by Holly Z 1

my boyfriend of 4 years and the father of my 17 month old son is still married but seperated for 7 years to a pman in australia(we have no clue where she is).....It is getting to me really bad and i have told him that and he says he will when he gets the $ together and i believe him but things keep coming up like him owing back taxes, etc that prevent him from saving the $ for it and it is really driving me crazy. My son is now 17 months old and i want to have him at least get the divorce before my son realizes he is stillmarried and not to his mommy. i, also have a 9 yr old daughter and i do not want her to think it is right to live with a man and not get married....i have been in a fight with him for 2 days and he has no idea what am mad at but i bring it up constanly and i am sick of doing it...what would you do in my situation? if i had the means to leave him, i would to show him this is crap...

2007-07-07 12:58:51 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Sexy Mama of 2 cuties♥ 7

love this boy but am 2 scary 2 tell causer he might don't love back and hard 2 deal with between people that might bring me down what should i do tell or keep down in heart wish that he understand the pain he bring 2 me. So day he be right beside act he love in with but other can hate so back that don't what 2 do i feel it me but something live my side and other day he just dont said a word to me. he can command to stuff and do it then treat me like dirt. Sould i let him keep treat me so wrong or just stand my feet tell what i feel?

2007-07-07 12:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by day day 1

For example, women "test drive" 20 "cars" give or take before "buying" one.

But if for some reason somebody "tests drives" another "car" while he's still "committed" to the first "car" then that’s when women decide that punishment is appropriate.

What gives women?

2007-07-07 12:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3

my ex insisted on joint custody. He has them 15 days each month but he is NEVER there. His girlfriend is the only person the kids spend time with. Should I have to deal with the "girlfriend"? I share visitation with their father, not her. Honestly she does it all and says I can do nothing about it. If they can't be with their dad then why should they not stay with me, their mom? Would I have a chance in taking him back to court to modify the visitation or even custody since he isn't interested in seeing them. It's always been a power struggle to say he has joint custody and I didn't "win". It has nothing to do with the children's best interest; only his ego!

2007-07-07 12:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by paisley 1

What if all parties consent...both spouses and third party.

Is this still considered adultery?

2007-07-07 12:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

I was sure I wanted to get married, but a lot of people say I shouldn't yet... Is marriage really that great (how long have you been married?).

2007-07-07 12:33:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this question earlier and typed it wrong, I hope I didn't offend anyone. My apologies to all it offended.

2007-07-07 12:30:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-07 12:30:41 · 1 answers · asked by angelgrl 1

Hi, I met my wife through a family friend 3 years ago. It was kind of arrange marriage. She was beautiful when I met her. After dating for 6 months, we got married. She put on 90 pounds weight and now she is not beautiful anymore. I still do not want to leave her, but when I tell her to do something about it , she fights with me like anything. She thinks I am an asshole thinking about looks and does not really love her.

we are married for over 2 years now and we hardly had sex for 15 times since we have got married. She does not want it. Last time we had sex was 4 months ago, she does not want to do it. I think she does not love me at all. I tried to get divorce once and left house but because of her family pressure we decided to give another chance to our relationship. but still its the same. Now she does not want to leave me because of her family and not because she wants me. I do not know what to do now.

2007-07-07 12:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Nothing religious at all....nope chucked all that propaganda out of my life a long time ago.

2007-07-07 12:30:23 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-07-07 12:28:15 · 5 answers · asked by sazie w 1

2007-07-07 12:19:06 · 3 answers · asked by fa2 H 2

I'm not being a smart @ss on this folks. Just trying to find out what married people do after the sex and other adrenaline type activities are gone.

Just a curious. I'm a single guy, and I'm happy being single. No drama here. But, I do see older couples, and I know that there's a lot of them out ther, who are happy being with each other. What do they do to keep their relationship going?

Please help. I'm not looking for a Holywood type answer, but reality from people who've been there.

2007-07-07 12:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-07 12:17:05 · 13 answers · asked by Job seeker 2

2007-07-07 12:12:13 · 5 answers · asked by LAKESHA L 1

i left the state with my kids fleeing abuse from x husband.i had been ordered not to leave without the courts or fathers permission.can he get full custody without me being there because of that?

2007-07-07 12:02:06 · 10 answers · asked by healthnut05 1

i left my 2 kids father 3 years ago who was very abusive verbally and physicaly in front of my kids.i've remarried then and i left the state because he had been fighting me in court since i got married to be with the kids.whenever he would get the kids on weekends they would call me and say they were alone,and he would be having a party in the livingroom while they had to stay in the room.i could not take it anymore and left out of fear for my kids wellbeing.with that being said its been a few years.when i first left he went back to court to get a kidnapping charge put on me but he was told that i had physical custody so they could not charge me with kidnapping since i was the custodial parent.but the problem now is i spoke to my mother who lives around the corner from him,and she told me that he was awarded full custody without me even being there,can this happen just by him going to court saying he has not seen his kids? will they do that? how can i find this out?

2007-07-07 11:52:41 · 7 answers · asked by healthnut05 1

when you say..."I'm sorry, but it has nothing to do with you.."...she loves to INTERFERE....DO YOU THINK most people knows she is like that???...the ones that know her...anyway??? i would think so..

2007-07-07 11:48:48 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4

My ex-b'f has a baby boy and we've been going out since August,2006 and he was not even gonna tell me that he had a baby boy and he's 17 now and i'm 16. SO WHAT Should I do??

Y'all might say 4-get about him but I loved him and it's hard to let go after along time 2-gether...so what should I do??

2007-07-07 11:41:44 · 17 answers · asked by Mercedes16_90!! 1

When I was there, in the USA, my ex would always allow his other wife, the mother of his son, to enter the house. He told me that as a Christian, that was the right thing to do. She would enter and walk in the house, as if I was not there. Then, she would come with her boy friend. I told my husband that one of those days they would find me naked, after a shower, because the bathroom was near to the kitchen, where they would always enter the house. My husband would always argue with me because of her. FInally, I got him to tell her that that was not the right thing to do. But the tone of their talk did not please me. He took them both outside the house and never invited me to be part of their talking........I felt humiliated because I was the current wife and should be respected. She is not a bad person. My husband's son is a nice boy as well. The problem is how my husband deals with the situation, always putting me in the last place. That's the reason I came back to my country.

2007-07-07 11:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He left his email opened and this was sent a few months back to an ex he hasn't been with for years or seen. We've been married for only a year. One more thing, he also send a similar email to another ex. Should I worried? Why is he contacting them?

2007-07-07 11:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by luvbaseball 1

my husband and i have been married for 10 years.we have children together.a year in a half ago i cheated on him.he was never there for me mentaly.he cant except that what all i told him is the truth he thinks there is more. we sat down and were talking and he told me he had some things to tell me but he wasnt going to be 100% honest with me unless i told him everything in my past.once again he wouldnt except the truth so i made things up to here what he had to say. he told me that he has cheated on me multipule times since i had to him. he says the reason this is ok is he was trying to see how i could do it to him. i think he enjoys being with other people but he is in love with me. i told him maybe we should have a open relationship(sexually) and he seemed to like that idea. after our conversation was over i told him i lied about every thing i had said as far as being with other people and now he took everything he said to me back and wont even sleep with me.please tell me what to do

2007-07-07 11:26:21 · 9 answers · asked by lol 2

My husband always says he's never in the mood, and if I leave it up to him, we could go for months without sex. Whenever we do have sex, it lasts ten minutes and I get nothing out of it. He puts in no effort, as if he just wants to get it overwith. I've tried everything to get him in the mood, and I know I'm very attractive. Most men would kill to have a wife with a sex drive like mine. It seems like he doesn't care. Can I just divorce him for that reason?

2007-07-07 11:23:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married to the meanest man ever. He gets home late from work almost daily and says he was "working". When he gets upset with me, he will basically live in the basement for weeks at a time and if he speaks to me it's in a full rage. He is gone from morning until late at night knowing I will be here when he gets home. I'm SICK of it. He has pushed me so far into the ground that my self esteem is lacking. Should I go out and have fun too? Come home and tell him "I worked late" just like he does? I'm sad, lonely and need a night out. Advice appreciated.

2007-07-07 11:14:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last summer 1 saturday hubby and his best friend fishing..Couple days later i was talking to his buddy and he told me hubby and him went out to breakfast before they went fishing well i didnt know this..His buddy told me that hubby told him NOT to tell me about going out to breakfast..When hubby came home that night i ask him about this and he said he never said that..When his best friend told me this he said he didnt wanna keep any secrets from me...I dont care about them going out to breakfast but i would care if hubby did tell his buddy not to tell me..Hubby has lied and kept stuff from me in the past however it was hard to tell who was telling the truth and who was lying...His buddy would have had no reason to lie about this...So who would you have believed?

2007-07-07 11:14:26 · 9 answers · asked by nicole m 1

But he has a LIST of conditions for me to go back to him. The first one is that he would know if God really wants me to go back to him if his boy accepts that. OK, the boy does accept me but there are still a LOT for me to fit in because they now have to be cautious, as if I had done bad things. All that I wanted was for him and the boy to accept me and to be wanted and loved there. I belong to another culture and it was so very hard for me being with a man who always puts his boy first. I know a child always has priorities, but there is no balance in his relationship with him and with me. I wrote the boy two letters but I wonder if the father gave to the him. I try to be nice, I did love his son when I was there, I did whatever I could.....but it seems it is never enough. I don't htink it is right to let a 10 year old boy run the show...........this is not how things work in my country.

2007-07-07 11:04:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-07 10:46:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-07 10:26:56 · 36 answers · asked by michael w 1

Last night I made the comment that I wanted to go and that I could sit in the middle of him and the baby in his truck. He said that he was planning on stopping by his mom's to pick up some stuff so that wouldn't work because he would have to put things in the inside of the truck as well as fill up the bed(meaning I can't go) It is 5pm now and he left @ 1 (45min drive) anyone have a new opinion on if I should be worried about my bf going to a birthday party for his god daughter hosted by her mom(his ex-fiance) without taking me... pretty much insisting I can't go... and taking my 2 yr old son with him..... my gut is against me and I can't help but think something is going on... any opinions??

2007-07-07 10:17:23 · 9 answers · asked by angelbabies98517 1