I'm a guy and I was with a girl and I didn't want to but she kept telling me to have sexual relations with her or else that made me that gay (I didn't wanna have sex with her cuz she was kinda not good looking and I aint a man hoe) I had to prove I was straight it was her peer preasure.
I heard it was rape when you say no and don't want to the first time but you are preasured to have sex.
2007-07-07 17:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, its not rape. You caved in to peer pressure and willingly had sex with this girl. WILLINGLY. You could have let her think what she wanted and left. You chose to "prove your manhood".
2007-07-07 17:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, Tony, it is unusual, but it does happen. You were harrassed and pushed into having sex when you really did not want to, so it is kind of a rape, it was a date rape in fact.
For next time, don't let anyone pressure you because you have to prove your masculinity or anything else. It was an experience for you and just don't see this girl again.
2007-07-08 00:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope this would not be considered rape. If she held you done and had her way with you after you had said no then yes. This sounds to me like you just caved into her pressuring you what you cant walk or something?. Grow up maybe next time just get out of the place you are in why stay where someone is doing this to you?.
2007-07-08 00:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sucka you werent raped. You cant rape the willing and you were willing since you wanted to prove that you werent gay. Maybe, you should just walk a way and who cares if she starts a rumor.
2007-07-08 03:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You loose. Or win depending on how you look at it. It sure isn't rape. Besides, it doesn't sound as though she twisted your arm too much. As far as her not being to attractive, always remember that beauty is only a light switch away.
2007-07-08 00:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by doctdon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is weird and funny at the same time.first of all since when does a guy doesn't want to have sex even if she is not good looking.second how is it rape if its the guy that is saying no.third you should leave her if she keeps doing that to you.
2007-07-08 01:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by lordofdarkness099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. All you did was let her convince you that if you didn't you were gay. She didn't force you and she didn't make you. She didn't hold you against your will and ripe off your clothes. So no it's not rape. You should just told her you didn't want to screw her cause she was f-ing ugly.
2007-07-08 00:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look did she take off your cloths and tie you up? No that isn't rape! What you should have said was this: I'm not gay, I just don't want to do you.
2007-07-08 00:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is only rape if you are physically forced against your will. You consented on the lamest excuse to have sex.
2007-07-08 00:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by thinkbig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did eventually freely decide to have sex with her. So it's not rape.
But you did it for a stupid reason - intimidation - so that simply qualifies as stupid, not as rape.
Thank you for the 2 points.
2007-07-08 00:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋