Should I have hope that me and my husband are gonna work things out after I have my baby. We are separated now because of fighting, but he seems to already have moved on
2007-07-07 17:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweetheart, if he seems to have already moved on then he has. And I don't know what answer you are looking for but please do yourself a favor and move on. Take care of yourself, you have been given the gift to carry a child and if that sucker can't realize what a treasure having a child is and the fact that you are carrying his child then you don't need him. Please have all the hope for you and your child because at the end of the day, at the end of it all that is what you have. A beautiful baby. Unless you like cut him or shot him before there is no reason why he can't and shouldn't be there for you. Best Wishes and focus on you and your baby, I have been where you are before and it gets better.
2007-07-07 17:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Nale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like you have more troubles than I thought. You are pregnant too. No wonder you are letting him "have his cake and eat it too." It's because you want him back. Look, the truth is, if he wanted to be with you, then he would be with you...not just when he wants sex. It's possible you guys will work things out, but then you guys wouldn't be separated right now during this crucial point in your relationship...After all, you are pregnant with his child.
Maybe you will get back together, but in the meantime, you can't just sit around hoping it will happen because there is a big chance that it won't happen and then what.
Right now you need to focus on you and your unborn child. Start making yourself happy and quit worrying about him because he sure isn't worried about you. Plus once he sees that you aren't thinking about him, he'll be back.
2007-07-07 17:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should begin to let go, too. You seperated and not divorced, so there is always hope. However, you have to live your life as if he is not going to reunite with you.
If things work out after the baby, great. If they don't, you will be in a better position to deal with motherhood and being single.
2007-07-07 17:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he already has moved on, so he is not worth waiting for. You and your unborn baby are better of without him. Get a fresh start with your own little family. You will have your hands full and forget all about him.
2007-07-07 17:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already moved on, the baby ain't gonna changed nothing! He will be there for the baby, but when he made up his mind to move on, then it ain't no turning back. Sorry.
2007-07-07 17:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mesha 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough topic. He will need to be involved either way so keep talking to him. Think clearly and try to resolve the differences. you may need the time away from each other to clear your minds. Are you married? If so then he need sto stay loyal to you or...may have to divorce( UGLY WORD). It is very important to try to resolve your differences. Seek marriage counseling even if you are not married.
2007-07-07 17:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by thinkbig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you shouldnt hope for a reconciliation, you should prepare yourself to be a mom and focus on your baby.........you shouldnt move on to dating, you should focus on being a good mom and the good and not so good that is to be expected of being a mom to a newborn,,,,,,,,
2007-07-07 17:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt seem likely. Please read your question thru.
2007-07-07 17:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋