does love exist in arrange marrage?

Answer 1

No, but sometimes they fall in love

Answer 2

If you are lucky it will "blossom" into love. Communication is key- get to know each other. You may find you have a lot in common.

Marriage no matter if it is arranged or not is a lot of work. It takes 2 people to make it work. If you are betrothed to someone you may as well make the most of it and at least get to "like" the person.

Later it could progress and be the best love ever.

Good Luck

Answer 3

It has worked for thousands of years for millions of couples in many cultures. Your parents probably were married like that.

Now that western cultures have penetrated other cultures and people more educated, the concept of freedom and love are promoted differently. Not sure if there is ever a right and wrong answer about questions of this kind. Works for some people and not for others. Make up your own mind.

Answer 4

They can grow to love each other, but it's not a factor in whether or not the marriage takes place. I imagine many people in arranged marriages were/are basically like business partners who made kids.

Answer 5

Well love is selfless (not self-centred nor self-interested), it shows concern for the well-being of others, it sacrifices, it is compassionate, it protects and is strong rather than giving into fair.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (New International Version)


4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.


Personally I think you are more likely to love someone you decided you wanted for a spouse, whom you have spent time and who you want to protect, love and spend together for the rest of your life. However, love is a choice and can be built and preserved in any marriage as well if it is a Christlike love and Christlike centred marriage.

Answer 6

Love marriage looks greater proper... yet to be straightforward, the expectancies exchange as quickly as married. So, project right this is to maintain up the comparable techniques-set as you have been before marriage. set up marriage has greater annoying situations in terms of fixing with the companion. yet for a individual who has no person in heart (hasn't been in extreme affair before) will locate it lots greater handy to alter than the others. So, the two marriages have annoying situations of their very own way. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that, Love marriage if arranged is a lot greater proper.

Answer 7

It can. If the two people respect each other, and realize they are meant for each other, love will come.

Why do people have to find love drinking at parties or through blind dates?

I think arranged marriages should be more common in our society. There is less divorce in such marriages. they make more sense.

Answer 8

I personally dont believe in arranged in marriages but yes i think over years love can grow, so can compassion and respect but its not the same as being in love............

Answer 9

I think it can grow, for sure. it might start as an arrangement, but might grow to respect, admiration, appreciation and even love. I'm sure it can happen.

Answer 10

ha, no. only if you like the person in the first place. love is when you pick your mate, not when they are forced upon you like they are in arranged marriages.

Answer 11

You could learn to love each other, but being in love may be another story. Choosing your own mate is better for being in love.