Marriage & Divorce - 23 June 2007

If God knows something that I truly want, will He let it happen to me, or am I just supposed to believe it wasn't part of God's plan for me if it doesn't happen? Like finding the career I want or getting married....

2007-06-23 10:40:35 · 10 answers · asked by girl with a pearl earring 2

I'm young so I know I have a long time before I think of persuing someone seriously, but I just wonder sometimes if there really is someone out there for everyone. I mean, what percentage of people actually don't find anyone and end up unmarried the rest of their lives.

2007-06-23 10:35:57 · 5 answers · asked by girl with a pearl earring 2

It seems that people often feel that if a man stays with his wife and does not leave, then that means that he loves her, I don't think thats always true. what do you think?

2007-06-23 10:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have enough problems to deal with and i'm looking for help, not looking to get made fun of, i know i have a wierd situation but its what i'm living right now. Glad everybody else has such the perfect life because i am very far from that

2007-06-23 10:06:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married almost 9 years, we're 34. We have a daughter 7 and a son who's 5. Together for 13 yrs. my husband is very emotionally and verbally abusive. Has choked me 3 times in the past. He calls me names, screams in my face( I can feel his spit), gives me the silent treatment, sleeps in the livingroom except when he wants sex or is not angry at me. He is like 2 different people. I have left 3 times and went back to him. He behaves this way in front of the kids. I get so lonely and scared when i leave( went over my mom's). I am looking for a job so I'll be independent. He brings home about $850 a week and spends plenty on ebay. He lost our house and now we live in a 2 bedroom apt. He won't even give me the key to the mailbox. He says he doesn't care about my feelings or opinions and calls me sorry, lazy, stupied, fat ***** and I am none of these. I can never please him no matter what. When I did everything he wants, he finds something new to fuss about. What am I to do? I made vows and I

2007-06-23 10:05:41 · 21 answers · asked by Veronique 3

2007-06-23 10:04:59 · 4 answers · asked by oliveoil 2

i am married with 2 kids my husband comes home alot in the morning and sometimes the next day at night when he comes home he says he was with friends i am just fed up i kinda have a feeling there is someone else but no proof i activated a detailed bill for his cell phone which is in his friends name i somehow figured out the code there are no female # on there from what i see and his longest conversations last 10 minutes i feel like i am super investigator and its driving me insane i asked him if he is cheating he says no but come on now why would he not come home at night right?

2007-06-23 10:04:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 09:57:53 · 7 answers · asked by moocher 1

2007-06-23 09:54:04 · 16 answers · asked by winner2007 2

We live in different states , it's long story as to why, but he hasn't done his share, and I have been raising the daughter we had together alone for 10 years and I am tired from all of the work. would requesting a court order for maid service cut though the red tape?

2007-06-23 09:52:53 · 13 answers · asked by cynthia k 2

My husband is really pissed because I refuse to sign a document regarding our home (before a notary) without having a chance to read it first?
He wants to take a mortgage on the house (he says to buy some land in the country), but I think the document is because he needs my permission to do so ... I am not sure.
He said that the document was supposed to arrive by courier today, but it has not.
In any case I feel uneasy signing something legal that I haven't been given a chance to read ... especially since I don't know what the document says and what rights I may be giving away by signing it.
To add to this my husband has been really weird especially lately, talking about how I had promised to sign a pre-nup before we were married that if the marriage broke up I would walk away with little more than money to start me up in an apartment. But I don't remember ever saying this.
Would you sign it, and what would you say to him about it????

2007-06-23 09:17:35 · 25 answers · asked by Chikadee 2

He's not really that bad of a man but he drinks a lot then starts hitting me for no reason.

2007-06-23 09:03:35 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

Actually, this happened to my friends.

You see they had a daughter who was 19. Her dad was cheating on their mother with several women. This caused problems in the house, like extreme fighting and beating. This girl's brother used to beat her also, because he saw father beat mother. The girl has no place to live because she does not have family in this area. Is she doing fine? Please help. What should I tell my friends, because it is their daughter?

2007-06-23 08:59:46 · 9 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

I had a 6 month fling with a lady some 3 years ago.

It ended messy and on bad terms.
She has since married a guy who's very wealthy.
Since our split she has contacted me 3 times asking this and that.
I have not made contact with her, it's been all her doing and i'm sure her husband is not aware of this.
It's only 3 times in 3 years.

Why is she contacting me?

2007-06-23 08:58:31 · 12 answers · asked by Smoking Joe 1

I mean it's not like I don't want to wear it but should I wear it at home too?

2007-06-23 08:55:41 · 12 answers · asked by cvillarreal20 1

2007-06-23 08:17:26 · 24 answers · asked by Jerry D 5

im not shur about if she really love me or not what can i do?

2007-06-23 08:08:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every person I've talked to that has been married for 20+ years has cheated! My friends who haven't been married long are very faithful to one another but does it wear off? I am in my 20s and it scares me to think that my future husband might cheat on me. I don't believe in divorce so I know I'll make the right decision before I marry but that what if is freaking me out!

2007-06-23 08:06:35 · 51 answers · asked by Bood 4

what would you do? Would you divorce because you have financial freedom? Stay married and spoil your spouse? Tell us 5 things you would like to do??? Good luck!

2007-06-23 07:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by treasuredwife69 5

I'm a father & I want at LEAST joint custody of my 13yo girl. Here are the particulars:

I'm a career soldier (15 yrs) that will retire in under 5 years.

The same judge awarded custody of my youngest daughter from a previous relationship to me late last year.

*Her mother is in her mid 30's & hasn't worked a day in her life (no B.S). Our taxes has always paid for her welfare / section 8.

* She's always had custody

* My girl was raped by one of her boyfriends @ the age of 5.

* My daughter wants to stay w/ both of us not just her mom all the time.

* My child support NEVER is spent on my girl. Her grandparents get here what she needs.

2007-06-23 07:54:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 07:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by MJ 6

2007-06-23 07:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

your family feel about it?

2007-06-23 07:42:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a down to earth guy an sometimes I find my self on a different level then my fiance. By her saying she hate me and later acting as if nothing happen. Is it a warning not to get married.

2007-06-23 07:41:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

we often fight alot now because of my jellousness..

I feel that maybe he's getting tired of our relationship

I have been a stay at home mom for about7-8
years now.

I feel like I lost so much to learn in life because
i'm too busy at home with the kids..
I feel as if I have no life staying home taking
care of the kids.

I am now suffering from severe depression these past 6-7 months..

I became very anti-social, dont wanna go
anywhere, do anything, "NOTHING"

I feel I have no future in this life..If I have another child..Then for sure I will be stuck at
home for good..

I don't have any friends anymore because of my
depression..

2007-06-23 07:38:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 07:37:59 · 15 answers · asked by dasiy 1

B-day trip to Vegas. Couple have dated since high school. Wife was open to the idea, now says she can not "share"

2007-06-23 07:30:57 · 37 answers · asked by Raster T 1

whats your oopinion on this when the ex and me used to not get along?

2007-06-23 07:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife (24yrsold) and I (25yrsold) have been dating for around 6yrs before we got married. (We have been married for 1 year) . We used to make out all the time before we got married and she went down on me a lot as well as touched me, etc. But after we got married she has only went down on me like 3-4times in the last year and we can go up to a week without kissing and even longer without french kissing. I even ask her when i leave for work for a kiss and she tells me no. We broke up for a few months before we got married in which i was with someone else which i know hurt her.. so that might be way she is this way now.. Im always aggitated all the time, probably due to sexual frustration. I really love my wife and want to be with her but I don't know how much longer i can be in a relationship where there is hardly any physical contact. I get the feeling she doesn't find me atractive anymore and i don't know what to do, please help.

2007-06-23 07:11:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to join a mom group, but I feel frowned on when I say how many children I have. I have 6, no husband,(was with their father 10yrs)been single for 1yr6mos. I dont want to get into the dating field, seeing that my children are at tender ages, and I have to keep my ears and eyes open at all times. Plus I dont think i'll be able to trust anyone, and everybody does not understand children anyway. Men can be pretty demanding. So, I was thinking of taking up other things like getting my health in order (and theirs) joing a moms club, or book club, something like that. ANY ideas for a 31 year young mom to do in spare time would be appreciated. I'd like to do something where people like me are. Well thanks for listening and reading.

2007-06-23 07:09:52 · 3 answers · asked by mizpeaches518 1