Marriage & Divorce - 23 June 2007

why dose my hubby keep gettin bigger n bigger????? it like he never take no time off from macdonalls!!!!!!!!! he always down there!!!!!!!! ever since the docter tolds him to cut back on smokin to reduce blood pressured,, he go out of kontrol!!!!!!!!!! he replace pall mall with food!!!!!! he got hoverround now he buzzzzzz round in dat all day!!!!!! he has super size gut now!!!!!!! it so big it rubb on floor sometime!!!!!!!! whenever i try n talks to him he just tell me that god make him that size n there nothin he can dose about it!!!!! he cut back to 3 n half pack a day of pall mall n malboro light,,,,,i pround of him,,,,,but now he HUGE!!!!!!!!! WHAT CAN I DO????????

2007-06-23 13:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

(be in love.. with your future wife)

2007-06-23 13:11:30 · 25 answers · asked by flipside 1

2007-06-23 13:11:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is in prison in Ohio and we want to get married

2007-06-23 13:01:58 · 17 answers · asked by debi42057 1

I was really hurt and angry when I recently found out that my parents still have a relationship with my ex-husband who was physically and emotionally abusive to me while we were married. I did not tell them about the abuse until we were divorced. Yet even after I told them about it, they still have a relationship with him which they have been purposely keeping from me because 'they knew it would upset me'. I'm happily remarried and have been trying to move on with my life but it's hard when I feel like I can't trust my family. I'm feeling betrayed by my parents.

2007-06-23 12:39:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently lost my son(stillborn at 8 months)as well as my ability to have children again. I quit my job because of it and didnt give notice because of all the other things going on at that time. I really regret this. I lost my child(and potential to have children)because of my job, so I threw away the opportunity for a great career because of my loss. Not the brightest idea. I still have income, but it was never about income for me. Another reason I quit was for my terminally ill father. I moved back to the town he lives in because his health got worse, but there are no real opportunities here. I was so involved in my old job, that I pushed any other friends or family away. At this point there is no one left to ask for advice. I want to find a career to make my passion again,because I can't have a family to devote my time to,but I'm still grieving over my losses, and preparing to grieve the loss of my dad so thinking clearly isnt working for me at this point....

2007-06-23 12:35:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 12:32:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guess he didn't want to pay child support, huh?

2007-06-23 12:32:14 · 9 answers · asked by greenfrogs 7

I've vented to a good friend about my husband in emails, and she has replied with advice and sometimes agreeing with my standpoint. Come to find out, my husband was reading the emails....and then insisted that I wasn't friends with her. (He doesn't seem to want me to have any contact with others). I feel that if he would treat me with respect, I wouldn't have a reason to vent to begin with....and I've only vented when I'm really upset. I haven't really had contact with this friend for over a year and he still brings her up and tries to say she was a home-wrecker....when he should look at his own behavior and understand that I only vented because of the heat of the moment. He has a tendancy to want to keep me all to himself and blame outside influences for things that happen behind closed doors even though the blame falls within our marriage and the problems are there because of the disrespect that goes on and the lack of trust. I'm very depressed about things. What to do??

2007-06-23 12:30:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 12:18:43 · 16 answers · asked by johnny's girl 1

2007-06-23 12:15:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23 and I'm married with a 28 years old girl and we have been living in the country side for almost 2 years, I'm from the city and came to this country trying to get a better life. Last month I spent 1 week in a big city and met a girl that is way older than me, she is 42, I feel pretty attracted to her and I like her a lot. Here is my dilema. I haven't been so happy in the relationship I have with my wife; there are so many issues that we have had uncluding the cultural differences, I don't feel complete with this relationship. Here, living with her in the countryside I have stabilitiy and safeness, but In deep I'm not happy. what do you think, should I just leave her and move to the city with the 42 year old girl and start all over again as the first day I came to this country? or should I stay with my wife, living in the country side(I'm from the city and I love cities) feeling safe and having in some way certain kind of stability, but not happy at all. Should I take the risk?

2007-06-23 12:14:05 · 9 answers · asked by SADIAZ 2

2007-06-23 12:14:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 12:11:52 · 14 answers · asked by Adeline 2

I have been having an affair with a man for 9 months now. Please do not pass judgement..we fell in love with eachother. No children involved. I left my husband when I started having feelings for this other man, and at that point I knew I could not possibly love my husband if I had feelings for someone else so I left him, because I did not want to cheat. My affair man has been staying in a hotel for the past 2 weeks, he told his wife there was someone else, he wanted a divorce and he loved her but was not in-love with her. I feel sad for her that this is happeneing but; I love him so much my heart says to hang in there. She is begging him to hang in there, she does not want the divorce, and he feels so guilty for being in love with me and divorcing all together. He is out of town for 1 week and he is supposed to have it all figured out when he gets back. , he has never done anything like this before.Last night I told him I loved him and he usually says it back but did not say it back.

2007-06-23 12:04:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 12:01:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'am 23 yrs old and I've be engaged to a wounderful man but I feel it's time for me to live the way the Lord intended but my fiance isn't ready even though he grew up in a church but through out the years he drifted away from the Lord. Being that we're not yet married and fornicating is a sin so yesterday I told my fiance that i no longer what to fornicate. I don't think he was to happy about it. But now a day later I feel bad about telling him that. I feel like I'm taking something away from him. What should I do.

2007-06-23 12:01:33 · 8 answers · asked by mrs.glover06 1

I work hard 5 nights a week, pay all the bills, and i come home to my girl thinking i should have to do 50/50 of cleaning... i refuse to clean because i think i already do my part. If things don't change I'm leaving. You all agree I'm right?

2007-06-23 11:41:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been having an affair with a man for 9 months now. Please do not pass judgement..we fell in love with eachother. No children involved. I left my husband when I started having feelings for this other man, and at that point I knew I could not possibly love my husband if I had feelings for someone else so I left him, because I did not want to cheat. My affair man has been staying in a hotel for the past 2 weeks, he told his wife there was someone else, he wanted a divorce and he loved her but was not in-love with her. I feel sad for her that this is happeneing but; I love him so much my heart says to hang in there. She is begging him to hang in there, she does not want the divorce, and he feels so guilty for being in love with me and divorcing all together. He is out of town for 1 week and he is supposed to have it all figured out when he gets back.. he's not a bad guy, he has never done anything like this before.I am just having a really hard time going though this will he leave?

2007-06-23 11:38:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a single parent and i take care of my mother, i moved to ca from ny 6 years ago dont know anyone dont have any friends, my mom got sick and had to send her to nursing home, i see her everyday and love her very much, my kids are big and dont live with me, i met this man when i needed someone there i didnt expect to fall in love with him but it happend and everyday that goes by i feel really bad for his wife but he tells me that they dont have anything there anymore, i am so scared to loose him because i have no one and dont want to be alone, i know is bad but this man has been there for me when my mom almost died, when i slepped in the hospital floor near my mom this man would come visit and when i was feeling sad and depress he would be there for me. i dont know what to do , is been a year that he has been helping me deal with my problems, he says that he loves me and dont want to loose me but , i dont know what to do and how to let this go. he has been there 4 me. help pls

2007-06-23 11:31:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mostly it's just because my son has been so accepting of the situation. The ex had this girlfriend before we were even exes, so it's not like she's someone brand new...but still I'm a little bit hurt.

The new gf buys him toys and is getting him a new cell phone, and is into all of the things that he enjoys. My son talks to her all the time.

I feel like such a loser. But, I put on my happy face and encourage them to be friendly. I have never argued with my husband about her, cuz she's quite the lovely gal.

I'm just jealous, and I don't know how to fix that...

2007-06-23 11:28:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We live in Texas and my husband had no money to pay for his child support this month because of his disease-he had to retire. He will only be making 1200 a month from Teacher's Retirement(no check yet) now which makes it hard to make ends meet. His insurance alone will run him 300 and that doesn't include his medicine and doctor bills. He has to go to court Aug. 2nd and obviously he can't afford a lawyer. How do you all think they will calculate what he will owe? This is tough....We do want what is best for the children (4), we just don't have it to give. Will they take into consideration that he needs his medicine and insurance? (If he doesn't keep his insurance, he really will be in financial ruin.) He is currently trying to get on the transplant list.

Thanks to All of You who try to help us.

2007-06-23 11:24:25 · 15 answers · asked by imcurious 3

2007-06-23 11:22:02 · 11 answers · asked by connor 1

My bf & I have been together almost 2 years, and we bought a house together about 2 months ago, and things haven't been going so well in our relationship, and the problem is we are both on the mortgage but I wanna break it off with him. So is there anything I can do to get off the mortgage and just let him keep the house?

2007-06-23 11:17:28 · 10 answers · asked by Dave 2

2007-06-23 11:06:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok....Ever since I was a little girl I was interested in modeling, I love it & I've always waned to do it. I come from a kinda big fam. & no dad. My mom never really had money, still doesn't have money. I use to think you have to pay to be a model that's why my hopes on modeling went down for a big while. I was like, "nah...I could never do that" So I got married @ age 18, I have a little boy. My husband is in the Marine Corps, I'm a jealous person, they tell me why? if I'm very beautiful & still have a great body after having a baby. I don't like it wen my man looks @ pretty models in magazines, ect... I started looking into modeling, it's been my dream, found out you don't have to pay. I have apply with people that are looking for new faces & they like me & tell me they want to work with me. So far I have worked with 2 photographers to build my portfolio. N E ways my man doesn't want me to do it but tells me he aint going to stop me cause he doesnt want to be the.../CONTINUE IN A BIT

2007-06-23 11:03:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that this guy who I was involved with afew years ago is married. He has been married since before I met him. He was such a nice guy, but by me finding out he has been married this whole time explains alot. I have his home phone number. He lives in another state, should I call and talk to his wife and tell her that he is a cheating dog? They have a 4yr old child together....Do I tell his wife that I had an affair with him, even though at the time I didnt know he was married? If I would have know, I would have left him alone. It's not my fault he decieved me, is it? Help, please....

2007-06-23 11:03:19 · 8 answers · asked by Leo_Woman 2

2007-06-23 11:01:03 · 30 answers · asked by Dell W 1

2007-06-23 10:42:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

for one child wow,and his baby mama is saying that is not enough money, that is just greedy and she need to be thankful,that is just my opinion and i think she is an golddigger,I know dat ***** got benjamins but damn...

2007-06-23 10:42:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sarita B 1