do you think it is okay to divorce a spouse who is grouchy 80% of the time ?Always in a bad mood.Never happy?

Answer 1

Damn right, life is too short to spend it with someone who is always miserable... take the leap, once you adjust, you'll wonder why you wasted so much time with someone that miserable.

In the meantime, tell your spouse to lighten up and try sleeping with a coat hanger in their mouth, hehe!

Answer 2

If your spouse is not treating you with respect 98% of the time, then perhaps you need to talk to him about what's up. If your spouse is showing signs of being grouchy bad mood, and never happy, perhaps going to a marriage couscelor would help? I don't think you should consider divorce, becuase that is just abussing everything you promissed when you said "I do" at the alter. Especially if you have children, it's very important to have a stable family with a mother and a father, so they can grow up with lots of love and the company of mommy and daddy. Try and work it out, divorce is not the answer.

Answer 3

hmm must be a reason he's grouchy all the time. Have you talked about it? Can you talk about it?
is it his work? something wrong he hasn't told you? Pressure, stress? all these things make men particularly grouchy and they are never good at discussing even when asked sometimes.
Give it a shot and see if you can turn this around.
I also suggest counselling either together or just for him,
good luck before killing this

Answer 4

Off course this is a problem which spoils the home atmosphere.
As "Courtship" is a trend to check the possibilities of living together- before marriage, in the same way i would prefer "separation" to check the possibilities of living without each other after divorce. Because divorce is a final blow on the life & should be used after taking 100% confidence in it- while separation could be a result of hot emotional out burst & it relieves you without harming you permanently.

Answer 5

Hell, divorce him if he's just out of sorts. Who could stand it? It's the never happy part that is hard to live with, the constant feeling that your responsible for their misery. Being responsible for the day to day happiness of another is probably unrealistic, but it's hard to avoid when you see them ok or happy with their pals, but just sad and depressed everytime they lay eyes on you. A divorce relieves you, not them, their going to do the same thing to the next person in their lives, and you know better and don't need it.

Answer 6

if you have truly tried and are not the reason they are in a bad
mood all the time-sure go ahead but just make sure your not
looking for reasons to divorce. Don't make your spouse crazy so you can get a divorce just tell them you are not happy
and move on. Unless children are involved and for gods sake
think about the kids>>

Answer 7

If this spouse makes you unhappy because of his constant grouch, then talk to him first. Tell him if things dont change then you'll divorce him. Try to help him through his depressions. If that doesnt work you could try counseling? But if it continues to a point where YOU are always depressed because of him, then move away from him.

Answer 8

Ask yourself this question, do you love them. If the answer is no then file for divorce. If yes, try to solve the problem. It could be a medical condition. I think you owe it to your spouse to find out.

Answer 9

I think its important first to find out why he is unhappy and grouchy . It may or may not connected to you or your marriage . Its a safe bet you married him before he was this unhappy or you would not have married him to begin with . Personally I would suggest counciling before anything else .

Answer 10

Actually, I would tend to wonder why the perso is this way...medical condition? Depression? I also would have to wonder why if they have always been like this you would've married them in the first place. if this is a sudden change, rather than walking out, I would get them the help that they need and deserve.