2007-06-23 12:14:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Welcome to reality hun we are all pressured to do things we dont want to do . The trick is being able to say no .
2007-06-23 21:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost ..Always ....
but it is not the "pressure" but " the amount of pressure" that disturbs. Because requests may range form " change the dress to change the job". It is very few times that you wish to do the same, what was requested then !
In fact we wish to bear these small pressures happily to score the points to quote later on (like-i did this for you , while i never wanted to do that !) to get the Major decisions in our favor.
But i swear- when these small differences of opinions strike regularly then , these bear the a high impact & displays that there is serious difference for every small openion even & you discover that "frequencies do not match at all" . Then this becomes a reason to to take a mejor decision.
Moon
2007-06-24 04:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't. Neither me or my spouse pressure each other to do things. Besides I don't allow anyone to pressure me into doing things I don't want to do. But, sometimes I will do things that I don't particularly care to do (as does my husband) to help out & make him feel special. It's part of the give & take in our relationship. Sometimes I will make him a sandwhich when he's really tired or fix him something to drink when I would really perfer to do something else. But I love him & I want his life to be easy at times too. He does things for me that I'm sure he would perfer not to do, such as hang a picture when he wants to lay on the sofa and relax. But all in all those little things are worth it. Good luck.
2007-06-23 19:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't feel like pressure. I don't like cutting grass but I do it because I want a nice yard. I don't want to work but I do it because we need money. Relationships are give and take. If I can put a smile on my wife's face by doing something I really didn't want to do, then I would do it. This is all within reason of course.
Niether one of you want to hear, I don't want to. If it's not gonna kill you or cause harm to you and only takes a few minutes, what's the big deal right?
2007-06-23 20:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all the time. If he ask to go see a movie and I don't feel like it, he throws a fit like a two year old, if I don't want to do, what he does, it's always an issue, so sometimes I just do it. But, sometimes I'll just say NO.. now leave me alone! You shouldn't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Think about making yourself happy first.
2007-06-28 13:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by luv2help 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I still take out the garbage and change diapers. It's all give and take in a relationship (at least it should be!)
2007-06-27 01:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do . i hate house work, but i do it because i love my wife very much, and i wouldn't change that for anything in the world.
2007-06-23 19:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by stinger_4202 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. its called a relationship. when you compromise, you get to do what you dont wana do
2007-06-23 19:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have a safe word.
2007-06-23 19:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋