I just found out that this guy who I was involved with afew years ago is married. He has been married since before I met him. He was such a nice guy, but by me finding out he has been married this whole time explains alot. I have his home phone number. He lives in another state, should I call and talk to his wife and tell her that he is a cheating dog? They have a 4yr old child together....Do I tell his wife that I had an affair with him, even though at the time I didnt know he was married? If I would have know, I would have left him alone. It's not my fault he decieved me, is it? Help, please....
2007-06-23 11:03:19 · 8 answers · asked by Leo_Woman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let sleeping dogs ,lye.dont bother bringing more wood in to the fire.you dont know the sitiation in that particular part of his life.why you want to hurt his wife?she dont even know you excist o was ever in her life.if he is such a dog ,she might know already, and if she dont,believe me ,she soon will,be the bigger person and move on, i bet theres a great guy waiting just for you an d oyu alone ,go get him. good hunting!!!
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2007-06-23 11:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if its been a few years ago, just let it go. He has to deal with the guilt, not you. You were not informed of his circumstance so therefore that leaves you guilt free. Let him worry about his own mistakes and dont create a wrecked life for they wife and child. They dont deserve the cruelty that he has dished out, however what comes around goes around. He will get what he deserves sooner or later. Good luck and just let it go. You will feel better about it. You have nothing to gain from telling her except a revenge act. Short lived revenge is not worth what the kid and wife will be going thru, do you think?
2007-06-23 18:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be the bigger person in doing this. Stop seeing him immediately, and if you do tell his wife, just tell her the truth. So what if she gets mad at you, it isnt like your looking to be her new best friend right? I know I would want to be told. Sorry for your bad luck, stuff happens.
Good Luck.
2007-06-23 18:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have a 4yr old child together..........I bet you have at least one friend that is from a divorced family, he can always turn a new leaf and you two are no longer together. LEAVE IT and move on.
2007-06-23 18:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Michael B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you "were" involved. Leave it alone, he knows he's a dog and she may know also. It won't change what happened between the two of you. So move on. Live and learn I say.
2007-06-23 18:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by smilin_irish_eyes66 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, its not your fault, i wouldnt tell his wife thought because some people dont want to know and they might get angry and stuff, like this one time my mom found out that one of her friend's husband's was cheating on her and my mom's friend got angry with my mom and never talked to her again. i hope i helped and u shouldnt feel guilty becuz its not ur fault.
2007-06-23 18:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you, he's a rotten jerk. But suppose you cause the breakup of his marriage and what will happen to that 4 year child?
2007-06-23 18:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea*... Forget about it sweetheart*....
2007-06-24 12:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋