2007-06-23 12:32:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you have children?
Love is a four letter word in your case.
Give up the other woman.
2007-06-23 12:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are in love with another woman and not your wife you should file for divorce. Life is to short to not be happy. I know I am going to get a lot of thumbs down on this one. You have to do what is in your heart. Is this other woman in love with you? Are you sure you are in love with her or is it the new and exciting that you are in love with. I don't know how long you have been married but if it has been a while we do tend to get in these little ruts and we don't take such good care of our loved ones. If this is the case try spicing things up in the marriage. You may be surprised to find out that you are still in love with your wife just not the life that you are living. Change routines go out on a date with your wife. Talk. I mean really talk about how you are feeling Tell her that you feel like you are falling out of love and that you are in a rut. Don't tell her about the other woman at first. You need to figure out if it really is about the other woman or the life you have with your wife. Once you figure it out you then can make a rational decision. Don't have an affair that is not fair to any of the three of you. You will cause yourself stress, your wife heartache and the other woman heartache. If you discover that you truly are in love with this other woman come clean with the wife. Have all of your affairs in order before you do this. File for divorce and then be with the other woman.
2007-06-23 19:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by D and G Gifts Etc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is that love or lust. men you need to say I don't love my wife any more and leave her. then you can see if you really love this other woman. don't keep your now wife in the wing to see if things will work out men are so lame they want always to have something before they leave the wife which is not the way to do it either you love your wife or you don't. and if not leave.. It is more of a man to walk now and say i don't love you so i must leave but not because you fell in love with someone else. If you loved your wife in the first place you would not allow yourself to get in to a relationship with some one that may turn to love. You are not being fair to your wife oh but i forgot men dont want to be fair they just want to **** women any way they can
2007-06-23 19:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by madmicjama 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you can't control your heart. If you are sincerely in love with this other woman ask yourself do I respect my wife enough to spare her the indignity of staying within this marriage? Do you love your wife enough to be honest and tell her that your heart is no longer in the marriage. This other woman didn't invest her life and trust to you. How can you be sure that you are capable of pursuing a relationship with the other woman if you aren't honest with the one you VOWED to love, honor and cherish. I won't bash you for being in love, but I will respect you if you give your wife the chance to understand what is currently a vital time in the three of your lives. If you have children, ask your self how will my infidelity affect them, if you have a son what sort of example do you want to set for him in regards to being a Real Man. Good luck Jason...this is going to be a doozy!
2007-06-23 19:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You tell your wife the truth and do the decent thing and get a divorce before you do anything about the other woman.
2007-06-23 19:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your question should be
I'm a low down dirty loser who cheated on my wife, should I be allowed to ever date again?
Yes go ahead and start a new relationship based on cheating. That really makes it strong and secure. Forever be the guy who cheated on his wife and left her for the loser slut who screws married men. Nice choices is all I can say.
She will always know you cheat, you will always know she screws married people. Perfect couple.
2007-06-23 19:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by ladalang 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You stop being around the other woman. You ask your wife to go to marriage counseling with you, and you try to make your marriage work. You said vows that you would....remember?
2007-06-23 20:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her immediately so she can find somebody that won't cheat on her. She deserves somebody better than you. I hope the grass is greener for you. But I doubt it.
2007-06-23 19:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by wc2ketey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your wife, at least try to make it work with your wife before cheating on her.
2007-06-23 19:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Dbrown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say you should decide witch one make's you happy...I'am not saying it was right to cheat on your wife but things happen for a reason Good Luck...
P.S. Follow your heart
2007-06-23 19:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jewels 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋