I had a 6 month fling with a lady some 3 years ago.
It ended messy and on bad terms.
She has since married a guy who's very wealthy.
Since our split she has contacted me 3 times asking this and that.
I have not made contact with her, it's been all her doing and i'm sure her husband is not aware of this.
It's only 3 times in 3 years.
Why is she contacting me?
2007-06-23 08:58:31 · 12 answers · asked by Smoking Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well Capablady,
you could be right, if that's the case then she must be a nasty piece of work, and i did the right thing by ending it when i did.
2007-06-23 19:22:34 · update #1
Some women thrive on drama and messy usually spells drama. Ignore her as you have been and keep it moving.
2007-06-23 09:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe should just needs closure. If you both had ended this as you said messy and on bad terms sometimes for people to get over something they have to have closure on the subject. If that never happens one can sit there and ask what if, and what did I do. I felt that way when my husband and I divorced. I had to have closure on that part of my life, before I could move on. I had found someone else, but those questions kept running through my mind. This could be what she is going through. She might just want to know that you are Ok with everything, and that there are no hard feelings.
2007-06-23 16:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lil's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing because she married this guy only for his money and is not happy. Their sex life probably sucks too and she's looking for a fling. She probably thinks that even though things ended badly, it's better than what she has and since you're a guy that you'd probably be up for a fling with no strings attached. I say get an unlisted phone number!
2007-06-23 16:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by brea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably feels that maybe there could have been something more... or she wants to start it up again.
maybe she calls you when she feels really unhappy in her marriage... btw, even if he is very wealthy doesn't mean that she loves him and that she is happy. either way you are doing good by avoiding her. she is married and even if she doesn't respect her husband, you should.
next time she calls you ask her why she keeps calling you and tell her that you think she should stop. don't be fooled by i only can think of you...blah, blah, blah... she is being selfish and if something ends up between you she will do the same thing to you.
2007-06-23 16:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because she is now realizing that she made a mistake leaving u for the guy she is with now. When ever a person leaves another person for someone else it always come back on them. So to u I say keep your head up and keep playing her like u have been.
2007-06-23 16:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by AQUA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want you to forget her and wants to rub it in your face that she ended up with someone "Better" than you. She obviously was very hurt by your break up and wants to remind you that she has gotten over you in a big way.
2007-06-23 16:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by Capablady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three times in three years doesn't sound like that often. If she contacts you again, ask her why she does? If you are uncomfortable with it, if she does contact you again, just tell her outright to stop.
2007-06-23 16:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is looking for another fling and doesn't want it to be with a stranger.
2007-06-23 16:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she misses you or her husband doesn't give her enough attention so shes going to you for the support she needs.
2007-06-23 16:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Laura F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Still interested! Cut the line.......ASAP!!! Trouble up a head!!!
2007-06-23 16:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋